La persona sbagliata vi farà sentire inutili, quella giusta vi dimostrerà che ne valete la pena
It’s easy to start believing there’s something wrong with us when we end up with the persona sbagliata.
It takes time to understand they were just that—the wrong person.
However, before we realize that, we’re bound to go through the hell of re-examining ourself and wondering why we weren’t enough for that person even when we tried our best.
It’s a terrible feeling to be constantly put down whenever you say or do something, especially when that something reflects your whole being.
How many times did he stop you from speaking your own mind or threatened you after you did something that wasn’t good or acceptable according to his selfish views?
It’s like someone telling you you’re wrong for being you and you know what? Life’s too short for those kinds of people e relazioni!
Life’s too short for anyone who makes you worthless or less than. If he’s not able to see all the things you bring to the table and only looks for what’s not there, he’s not the one.
If everything you say is disrespected and you feel like you constantly need to hold yourself back, he’s not the one.
You can’t change a person who only sees what they want to see and thinks only of themselves and their well-being. They’re too busy ignoring their own shortcomings and you can do nothing about it.
Yes, you can love that person and still leave them for your own good. We don’t choose whom we love but we do choose what to do with our life.
It’s hard to do it but once we do it, things start unfolding in the right direction.
Don’t fall into the trap of other people’s perceptions of you and their own egotistical projections. You are not worthless, you’re not helpless and you può cambiare la vostra vita.
It’s not facile per rimettersi in piedi dopo un relazione abusiva, but it’s completely possible.
You need to clear out your own perceptions of him and understand that he’s in no way better, stronger or smarter than you. In fact, you need to realize that he’s probably the opposite.
Le persone che hanno un vero potere, intelligenza e amore per gli altri sono quasi sempre gentili e comprensive, al contrario di quelle che si divertono a metterti in difficoltà.
Devi dimenticare tutte le bugie che ti ha detto quando ha cercato di riconquistare la tua fiducia.
This is the hardest part because it’s so difficult to believe someone can say they love you one day, only to make ti senti inutile il prossimo.
Once the right person shows up in your life, you’ll know it by the way they treat you all the time, not just when they feel like it.
The right person will genuinely be interested in how you feel and what you want. You’ll feel like a team and not a bench player.
The right person won’t make you go through hell to be happy.
La persona giusta prenderà tutto ciò che c'è di buono in voi e farà in modo che lo vediate. Vi celebrerà per quello che siete e non per quello che lui vuole che siate.
He won’t be afraid to show vulnerability and that’s how you’ll know you can trust him. There will be no vague plans or broken promises.
Avrete la sensazione che lui veda la vera voi, più del vostro corpo e di come vi presentate, mentre lui apprezza il vostro corpo così com'è!
You will feel loved even when you get into an argument because you’ll know that there’s a deep understanding between you two.
Non ci saranno giochi mentali, né comportamenti aggressivi, né fantasmi o cose del genere. La comunicazione sarà diretta e aperta.
Finally, you will feel like the real you. You will feel stronger and better when you’re with him and that only means you’re allowed to be yourself.
You deserve a person who will make you feel that way, you deserve a person who will show you you’re worthy of true love because you most certainly are.
