40 regole del codice delle ragazze d'oro che tutte le donne devono iniziare a seguire il prima possibile

We, women, have to stick together, and I’m not saying this just because. After all, we’re ruling this world, and just imagine what would happen to it if we would turn against each other.

It’s a law, and laws simply need to be respected, right? Regole del codice femminile ci aiutano a preservare il nostro potere, e tutto ciò che dobbiamo fare è seguirli. Semplice, no?

It’s a way to honor that strongest bond of all, that of our sisterhood and great female friendships. It’s a way to celebrate remarkable potere delle ragazze.

Now, turn up the volume, go to YouTube and search for Beyonce’s song Run the World. I highly recommend listening to this song the entire time you’re reading this guide on girl codes to maintain the flow of positive vibes.

It’s a song that perfectly describes the potere delle donne, and that’s why it’s one of those songs that will never stop trending.

Now, it’s time to get down to business.

Quali sono le regole del Codice delle Ragazze?

Ci sono alcune regole che gli amici devono rispettare e seguire per mantenere la loro amicizia. Dobbiamo mantenere la nostra sorellanza sana e salva, e questo è l'unico modo per farlo.

In parole povere, il codice femminile è un insieme di regole, non scritte e non dette, che esistono tra una donna e le sue amiche intime e che entrambe le parti devono rispettare.

Every single one of you out there must try to stick to each and every one of these girl code rules below. It’s not just the law of feminism; it’ll also help you keep your friendship forever.

Elenco delle regole del codice delle ragazze

Ecco un elenco delle regole non scritte del codice femminile che tutte le donne dovrebbero rispettare e vivere. Questo dovrebbe essere sacro per tutte noi, e lo dico davvero, ragazze.

Le sorelle prima dei signori!

No guy is worth ruining your friendship over. So, stay away from your friend’s boyfriend, her ex-boyfriend, or any other man that might harm your friendship.

The bond and relationship you have with your BFF are so much stronger than the bond between you and a man who just wanted to hook up with you. Actually, there is no bond there at all because it probably won’t last long.

Rispettare gli amici e i loro limiti

In ogni tipo di relazione, ci deve essere una chiara confini definiti. Talk to your friends about theirs, and don’t ever violate them. It could really jeopardize your friendship.

Abbracciate le vostre differenze

You and your friends will probably have some differences, but that’s perfectly okay because those differences could actually bring you closer.

Don’t ever think that just because someone has different interests, that it’s impossible to maintain a friendly relationship with that person. Gli opposti si attraggonogiusto? Inoltre, più siete diversi, più avrete da imparare l'uno dall'altro.

Saper chiedere scusa

Questo è molto importante se volete mantenere la vostra amicizia per sempre.

Il fatto è che tutti commettiamo degli errori, ma solo coloro che sono abbastanza forti (o coloro il cui amore è abbastanza forte) sanno quando say ‘sorry’ e come farlo nel modo giusto.

Essere indulgenti

Come on, we’re all only weak human beings, and sometimes, we make mistakes without being aware of them. So, if your bestie wrongs you, don’t hesitate for a moment to forgive her.

Ricordate che la vostra amicizia è e sarà sempre più preziosa di tutto e di tutti.

Trova il tempo per le tue amiche del cuore

If your friend says they need you, you just have to be there ASAP. It’s as simple as that.

Your best friend’s crush is totally off-limits

This is a pretty clear one, right? Flirting with your bestie’s crush is totally forbidden. If you do it, that means you’re violating the rules of girl code. Trust me – it definitely won’t end well.

Se la vostra amica sta attraversando un periodo difficile, siate presenti per lei

I think this girl code rule doesn’t even need to be explained. You must always be there for the people you love.

Se la vostra amica sta passando un brutto momento, dovete essere presente per lei. Oh, of course, don’t forget to bring a tub of ice cream because it helps. Ice cream always helps. Full stop.

Aiutate il vostro amico a vedere il proprio valore e ad innamorarsi di se stesso.

Girls, I’ll just say one thing: amore per se stessi è un MUST e deve essere sempre la priorità assoluta nella nostra vita.

Inoltre, siate il loro fan numero uno

State sempre al fianco dei vostri amici. Incoraggiateli, motivateli e sosteneteli nel raggiungimento di qualsiasi obiettivo.

Se la vostra amica si sente giù, trovate un modo per risollevarla.

Sapere come far sorridere una ragazza when they’re feeling low is really a skill that, unfortunately, most people don’t have. However, that skill is one of the most important girl code rules.

Keep your friend’s secrets FOREVER

Even if your friendship ends, you must take your friend’s secrets with you to the grave.

Don’t keep your feelings bottled up – confide in your best friends

If you’re having any problems, feel free to confide in your friends about it. Those are the people who will always try to get you without being judgemental at all.

Don’t walk out on your friendship no matter what

You’ll have your ups and downs, as every friendship does, but you’re never allowed to give up and walk away from it. Some things are sacred and female friendship is one of these things.

Even when you don’t agree with your friend’s choices, you’re obliged to stand by her

You’re different, and of course, you won’t agree on all of your choices and decisions, but veri amici rimanere fedeli e sostenersi a vicenda, qualunque cosa accada e fino alla fine.

Don’t judge her actions nor her decisions

You’re only human, so leave judgment for God because that’s His job!

Odiare tutti quelli che il tuo amico odia

Se un amico odia qualcuno, la regola non scritta è che anche voi dovreste odiare quella persona. Piuttosto logico, no?

Your friend’s enemy is your enemy too

Questa regola è praticamente identica a quella precedente.

Ex’s and close relatives are out of bounds unless you have your BFF’s approval

So che innamorarsi is a spontaneous act, and we can’t change that too much. However, if you find yourself in a situation where you like your friend’s ex or a close relative of hers, you must admit this to your friend first and see what she thinks about it.

If she’s okay with it and gives you her approval, you can consider it as a green light to date the man you like.

Essere la migliore spalla per la vostra amica

Essere un'ottima spalla to your friend. The one you would like to have, it’s as simple as that.

Always check in on your BFF while they’re on a first date

When your bestie is on a first date, you should be there with her too. I don’t mean literally, but you should check in on the situation constantly, just like you’re really there.

Quando si arriva a una festa insieme, bisogna anche andarsene insieme

È questo il senso della sorellanza, no? Rimaniamo unite, qualunque cosa accada.

Permettete alla vostra migliore amica di sfogarsi con voi

Quando la vostra amica è in uno stato d'animo di sfogo, permettetele di sfogarsi con voi. I buoni amici sono sempre la migliore terapia per la mente, l'anima e il cuore.

Rispettare la loro privacy

You should always respect your friend’s personal space and their wish for privacy. So, for example, if your friend isn’t a fan of social media and doesn’t want to post pics on social media platforms, just don’t freaking do it.

Accettateli così come sono

Niente urla “I love you” più che accettare una persona per quello che è veramente, con tutti i suoi difetti e le sue imperfezioni.

Celebrate your friend’s success as though it’s your own

You just need to know that your friend’s success and accomplishments are your accomplishments too. Essere gelosi della vostra amica è un grave errore del codice femminile.

Take your bestie’s phone when she’s about to do something stupid

Whether we like to admit it or not, women have that tendency of sending a text to an ex when we’re drunk, or at least it’s when we start thinking about it.

Quindi, la prossima volta che la vostra ragazza inizia a bere e afferra il suo telefono per mandare un messaggio da ubriaca al suo exPrendetela prima che prema il pulsante di invio. Impeditele di fare qualcosa di cui si pentirà sicuramente il giorno dopo, quando avrà smaltito la sbornia.

Jump to the rescue of your friend when it’s needed

If you see that a creepy guy is annoying your friend, it’s your duty to rescue her at any cost.

Siate sinceri quando la vostra amica del cuore vi chiede un parere sul suo abbigliamento.

Proprio come vorreste che il vostro amico fosse onesto con voi, dovete essere onesti anche quando commentate il suo aspetto.

You’re never allowed to abandon a drunk friend

Friends should never be left behind, especially drunk friends. Don’t allow them to do anything stupid that they might regret once they sober up.

Assicuratevi sempre che tornino a casa sani e salvi. Date loro un passaggio e aspettate in macchina che il vostro amico entri in casa prima di ripartire.

You always need to have each other’s backs

You’re each other’s biggest protectors, and you should always bear this in mind.

Far capire a una ragazza se il suo ragazzo è un traditore

If you know your BFF’s man is cheating on her, you ought to tell her. Help her save herself, and don’t allow her to perdonare il suo culo sfigato e traditore.

Risolvere i problemi in modo sano

Don’t be afraid to confront each other about things that are bothering you in your friendship. It won’t harm your friendship; on the contrary, it can actually only make it stronger.

And remember, the only way you’ll solve your issues is by communicating.

Don’t ever let a girl walk into a stall without toilet paper

I’m sure we’ve all been in this situation, and we all know how disgusting it is when you’re in a public toilet, and there is no toilet paper.

Quindi, che la conosciate o meno, se una ragazza ha bisogno di carta igienica, dovreste passargliela.

Se avete un assorbente in più, dovreste aiutare una sorella in difficoltà.

Questa è una delle più importanti regole non scritte del femminismo che è semplicemente un MUST da seguire.

Meeting new friends doesn’t mean you’re allowed to neglect old ones

Of course, you’re allowed to meet people and make new friends, but always keep in mind who your real friends are. Always remember who was with you from the start and through all of your ups and downs, and who was with you all the way from high school till now.

In realtà, una vera amicizia non dovrebbe mai essere trascurata, per nessun motivo, altrimenti potrebbe finire.

Don’t ever talk about your friends to outsiders

Just as you should never share your best friend’s secrets with anyone else, you shouldn’t gossip about them with someone else either.

If you do, it’ll make your friend doubt your friendship, and they will have every right to do so.

Don’t slut-shame other girls

Be a lady. It’s not your problem what other girls do with their lives or their bodies.

Vedi anche: Le donne forti danno forza alle altre donne, non le mettono in secondo piano

Don’t hate a girl you don’t even know

Please don’t ever hate or slut-shame a girl you haven’t had the opportunity to meet just because she talks or flirts with your man. It’s so wrong, and it actually makes YOU look like a bad person.

Rispettare le parole

When you say or promise something to your friend, you must keep that promise no matter what. Remember, you have your bestie’s trust, so don’t do something that may cause you to lose it.

Quando si può infrangere il codice delle ragazze?

Actually, the better question is, is it ever okay to break the girl code? Are there some special circumstances when you’re allowed to break some of the girl code rules?

Well, you should try to stick to these rules and live your life by them, but if you ever feel like the other side doesn’t do the same, you’re allowed to break the rules. Actually, in those situations, breaking the rules is a must-do.

You can’t hold on to someone and consider them your best friends if they don’t think the same of you. Yes, you should put sisterhood and your friendship at the very top of your priority list. However, the first place on that list belongs to you and only you.

The girl code rules are important because they can make or break a friendship. The bottom line is that if both sides follow all of these unspoken rules, they’ll stay best friends forever.

However, if you don’t stick to them, you’ll make your friend question your loyalty, and that’s when your friendship will start falling apart.

Nel complesso

It’s how it is. We’re living in a cruel world, and most people think we’re too weak for it. That’s why we need to prove to them and ourselves how wrong they are.

And that is why following the girl code rules is so important. Because the only way we’ll do it, the only way we’ll prove them wrong is by sticking together.

There is no single thing that we can’t achieve or conquer TOGETHER, girls. Everything that men can do, we can do it twice as well and while wearing heels.

So, let’s sing it together now… Who run the world? Who run this mother… Who run this mother… Let me hear you all singing, who run the wooooorld? Of course, girls. Girl power, hell yeah. ?⚡