5 frasi di rottura brutalmente oneste per lasciarlo per sempre

Sometimes when you’re eager per rompere con someone, the lines are so blurred that you just don’t know if he REALLY got the picture.

In qualche modo finisce sempre per gravitare di nuovo verso di voi.

You may not want to break up in the first place, but you’re mature enough to know that is simply isn’t working any longer.

In cuor suo sa che deve porre fine a tutto questo per il bene della sua sanità mentale.

You’re not good for each other anymore.

You’re both clinging to a relationship that’s no longer there, but you’re desperately trying to recreate it into what it used to be.

Only, it’s not working and you’re suffering like hell.

There’s still lots of love there. You still want to see his face each morning.

But it’s become toxic and you can’t do this to yourself anymore.

So how do you break up with the guy you don’t really want to break up with?

How do you convince him that it’s over for GOOD this time and not sound like you’re trying to convince yourself of that?

It’s hard. Breaking up really does take its toll on you.

But sometimes, you just have to put on your grown-up pants and do the thing you’re dreading because you know it’s the best thing in the long run.

In a few weeks, you’ll be halfway on your healing path.

You’ll be able to look back at this moment and be grateful that you had the courage to leave the man who was causing you so much hurt, even though you lo amava ancora.

Ecco 5 esempi di brutale onestà linee di rottura che non lascerà nulla al caso.

He will finally understand that you are serious about this and he’ll be on his way.

(And with time, I promise it’s going to be okay for you too.)

1. “I don’t like the person I’ve become when I’m with you.”

This one goes straight to the gut. It’s raw, honest, and it paints a crystal clear picture.

Per quanto lo desideriate ancora, questo amore vi ha trasformato in una persona che non riconoscete più.

And you don’t like it.

You don’t know how it got to this point and you’re so saddened that it’s come this far, but in order to be that girl you used to be, you need to distance yourself from him.

Don’t be afraid to be brutally honest.

Soon, it’ll end up being your saving grace.

2. “I am doing what I know in my heart is right for me.”

This is it. And don’t sway from this.

Don’t let him convince you that HE is the one who’s giusto per voi.

Solo voi potete deciderlo!

And if you feel it in your bones that this is not good for you anymore, you’ve got your right to break it off.

It doesn’t mean he’s a bad person.

It doesn’t mean he seeks to do you harm.

Significa semplicemente che l'unione di voi due come coppia romantica non vi serve più a nulla.

You desperately wish it would, but you don’t want to lie to yourself or to him for one second longer.

It’s over and you’re out.

3. “I’m begging you – don’t call me anymore, we’re done.”

Lasciarsi fa sempre schifo perché si sa che basta una notte di sbronza perché il partner trovi opportuno chiamarvi alle 2 di notte per implorarvi di riprenderlo.

Sapete che è estremamente probabile che ciò accada, e probabilmente è già accaduto in passato.

And by saying this, you are letting him know that you’re not okay with that.

You don’t want to be the bitch who breaks his drunken heart again for a second time over the phone.

Farebbe male a voi quanto a lui.

E tu hai bisogno che lui non ti metta mai più in questa situazione.

4. “I am not in love with you anymore.”

You don’t want to hurt him, it’s the last thing on your mind.

Ma avete BISOGNO che lui sappia che questa volta fate sul serio.

Even if there are some residual feelings there, it’s better to just rip off the band aid and make it clear.

He’ll be hurt and you’ll be suffering in silence, but this is what needs to happen for him to not make this any harder than it has to be.

Avete bisogno che questa relazione finisca perché la sua tossicità è diventata troppo da gestire.

L'amore semplicemente non è sufficiente e con lui ve ne siete dolorosamente resi conto.

5. “I don’t see a future with you by my side.”

Perhaps you’re just on opposite paths? Perhaps your hopes and dreams don’t collide?

And as much as you would love to be compatible with him, you’re just not.

Lui vuole concentrarsi sul lavoro e viaggiare all'estero, mentre lei vuole stare vicino alla sua famiglia e diventare mamma in un futuro non troppo lontano.

Voi volete conciliare il lavoro con l'essere genitori e lui è molto convinto che sua moglie sia una mamma casalinga.

Sono tutti problemi molto seri che devono essere affrontati per tempo.

You can’t just bury them and hope they never resurface.

They will, and it will suck. Show him that you’re only trying to save you both from future pain.

Your ideas for what awaits are completely different and it’s simply not possible to make it work anymore.