21 consigli utili su come rispettare il marito nella vita reale
Imparare a rispettare vostro marito e a dimostrare il vostro amore attraverso il rispetto e l'apprezzamento sono abilità importanti che rafforzeranno sicuramente il vostro legame e miglioreranno il vostro matrimonio.
Utilizzando alcune semplici parole per esprimere il proprio amore per il marito isn’t and should never be enough. You must show it through your actions.
Dovete dimostrarlo rispettandolo e apprezzando tutto ciò che è e tutto ciò che fa ogni giorno per voi e per il vostro matrimonio.
La fiducia e il rispetto sono due pilastri su cui deve basarsi ogni relazione sana. They’re equal, and they are as important as love is.
If you’re a religious person, then you know that God has also instructed us to respect our husbands. In Ephesians 5:33b, Paul wrote, “However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.”
In these words of God, we can also see that love and respect go hand in hand. You can’t have one without the other.
We can also see that respect must be earned. You can’t have respect for a disrespectful or marito dispotico non importa quanto sia forte l'amore che provate per lui.
It’s just as Dr. Emerson Eggerichs has explained in his book, Amore e rispetto… “When a husband feels disrespected, it is especially hard to love his wife. When a wife feels unloved, it is especially hard to respect her husband.”
Marriage and family life is a very challenging journey. You’ll meet many obstacles on your journey, but the most important thing is to travel carefully and slowly, together, holding each other’s hand.
Come mostrate rispetto a vostro marito?
Suo marito vuole sentirsi amato, proprio come tutti noi. Tuttavia, più di ogni altra cosa, suo marito ha bisogno di sentirsi rispettato e apprezzato.
Let’s do some homeschooling, shall we? I’m going to teach you how to respect your husband more and dimostrategli che ci tenete per lui onestamente.
Quindi, sedetevi e prestate attenzione a questi semplici modi che vi aiuteranno sicuramente ad approfondire il legame emotivo tra voi e il vostro maritino.
Lasciate fuori le parole; mostrate rispetto attraverso i fatti.
Your husband doesn’t need you to tell him that you love, trust, or respect him… he needs to feel those things through your actions.
La prima volta che mancherete di rispetto a lui o a qualcosa di importante per lui, i suoi sentimenti verso di voi inizieranno a cambiare. The more you treat him badly, the less he’ll love you.
You can swear that you love him as much as you want, but it won’t be enough to make him believe it. Le vostre azioni parleranno sempre molto più delle vostre parole.. Infatti, le parole non significano nulla if you can’t back them up with your actions.
There are so many little things that you can do every day to show your husband respect. Those things won’t take a minute of your time each day, but they will mean the world to your hubby for sure.
Remember, ‘in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health’…
Always keep in mind your wedding vows. You took an oath before God and in front of all of your family and friends that you’ll cherish and love your husband until death do you part. Now, you have to stick to your oath.
Your marriage will be wonderful, but at the same time, a very challenging and sometimes incredibly difficult journey. You’ll come across many peaks and valleys on your journey just like all marriages do.
Trust me, there is no happy marriage or happy couple who didn’t have to go through some rough patches. Those are some kinds of challenges that God sends our way just to see if our love is truly strong enough to endure it all.
The most important thing is to always remember that you’re in this together and to keep showing love and respect to your husband even if, sometimes, you start questioning whether he deserves it or not.
Those negative things and thoughts are temporary and transient, while on the other hand, you two are forever. And, in the end, that is the only thing that’s important.
Dedicategli tutta la vostra attenzione
Don’t think that we’re the only ones who can’t take it when we see that our husbands don’t listen to us. They hate it, also.
So, how do you respect your husband? Don’t look at your phone while he’s trying to talk with you, and don’t refuse him when he asks you to talk because you’re busy. Nothing should ever be more important than your man.
It’s time to have a weekend getaway for just the two of you. Leave your phones and everything else that might interrupt your quiet time behind.
Organize a small romantic trip for your hubby where you’ll be able to give him your undivided attention.
Comunicare in modo sano
Dovete imparare a comunicare con vostro marito in modo più efficace e sano. Questo significa niente litigi, perché ogni disaccordo e ogni conflitto possono sempre essere risolti attraverso la comunicazione.
Of course, there will be some situations when he’ll really make you angry, but you need to learn how to respond in those moments. If something bothers you, you can and you should discuss it with your partner.
However, don’t allow those disagreements to grow into a fight. Calm down first, be mindful of the tone of your voice, and try to work things out through healthy communication.
L'autocontrollo è una virtù che significa tutto per un matrimonio sano e felice.
Lack of healthy communication can really damage your marriage relationship to the point that it’ll be very difficult to save it. You need to prove to him that you’re trustworthy, and far sì che si apra con voi.
I’m not talking about verbal communication only. You also need to have open body language towards your man that will show him that you aren’t afraid to let him in.
Scegliete le vostre battaglie
You don’t have to fight over every little thing that bothers you. Sometimes, you need to keep some things to yourself because there is no point in making too much drama about things that aren’t important at all.
Never react in anger because that will make you say and do some things that you’ll regret later for sure. Calm down, wait until it’s the right time, and talk about it with your partner. TALK, I must really emphasize this; Talk, don’t yell!
Rispettare la sua famiglia e i suoi amici, anche
You really have to be considerate to your husband’s needs, his professional life, and his loved ones. Maybe you won’t get along with all of them too well, but you need to respect them no matter what.
His friends and family members are people he loves and trusts the most, and if you don’t respect them, that would mean that you don’t respect your husband either.
Maybe, sometimes, the actions of your in-laws won’t be worthy of respect, but still, you must think about your husband first and how he would feel if he finds out that you’re being disrespectful to his loved ones.
This is also a two-way street. If you treat his family with respect, he’ll definitely show the same amount of respect to your loved ones.
Don’t ever be too proud to apologize nor to forgive
Is it really that hard to stand behind your actions, accept that you’ve made a mistake, and offer a genuine apology to your partner? Is it really too hard to say those three simple words “Mi dispiace“?
Se il vostro orgoglio è davvero molto più grande dell'amore che provate per il vostro partner, allora c'è qualcosa che non va nel vostro rapporto matrimoniale.
This can only lead to the conclusion that you don’t care nor love your partner at all.
We are humans and we all make mistakes sometimes. It’s just a part of our nature. I always say if God can forgive us all for so many mistakes we make on a daily basis, who are we then not to forgive that one person we love when they do us wrong?
Valutare la sua opinione
Your husband should be included in your decision-making process. Most of your decisions should be brought together because marriage is a partnership and it’s just how things work in a healthy and happy marriage.
If you don’t allow him to help you with your decisions, or if you don’t ask him for his opinion about things that are important to you, he’ll think that you don’t value him or his opinion.
Fare del tempo di qualità una priorità
I’m not saying that you should spend 24/7 together, but you should definitely find a way to spend some quality time alone every day.
Find a hobby that you’ll both like and do it together just because you’re married. This doesn’t mean that you should stop going on dates.
Fate in modo che il mercoledì sia la vostra serata film. Pregate insieme lo Spirito Santo.
Find something you’ll both like and do it together. Spending quality time together is crucial if you want to strengthen your emotional connection and deepen the bond between you.
Anche il tocco fisico è importante
La mancanza di intimità fisica è uno dei primi segnali di una matrimonio infelice. Touching can also say ‘I love you and I’m always here for you’.
Just because you’re married now doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t flirtare con tuo marito anymore. Unfortunately, that’s a mistake that many women make today. Flirting will help you to keep the spark in your relationship alive.
Inoltre, gli dimostrerà che lo trovate ancora attraente, il che può essere un'enorme spinta per l'ego di un uomo. Questa parte è particolarmente importante se sapete già che il suo linguaggio d'amore principale è il contatto fisico.
Stare spalla a spalla SEMPRE
Il vostro uomo deve sapere che può contare su di voi, qualunque cosa accada. Deve sapere che sarete sempre lì a guardargli le spalle, proprio come lui farà con voi.
Ricordate che il matrimonio è un'unione. Ciò significa sostenersi a vicenda e di rimanere uniti nonostante tutto ciò che vi ostacola.
You need to be his friend, not just his wife… a friend he can always count on and a friend who’ll be and stay at his side through all the highs and lows.
Essere il suo fan numero uno
Support your man in everything he does, even if you don’t always agree with his choices. This will show him that you truly believe in him and that you respect all of his choices.
Maybe his choice isn’t good, but trust me, his intentions always are. Whatever he does, he does it for you, for the sake of your marriage, and for your family.
Don’t nag and criticize him all day long. Your husband doesn’t need a mother, he needs a partner.
If you two are constantly criticizing each other, it’s a true red flag that you’re in a matrimonio senza amore.
Il vostro sostegno sarà sempre la sua più grande motivazione. Non vi renderete mai conto di quanto la vostra parola di sostegno sia importante per lui, soprattutto nei momenti difficili della sua vita.
Sii anche il suo più grande ammiratore
Ti sei innamorata di lui perché hai visto tutte le incredibili e qualità adorabili ha.
Certo, anche lui ha delle imperfezioni e dei difetti, come tutti noi, ma bisogna accettarli e accoglierli tutti.
Actually, you need to show him that his flaws don’t make him weak or bad or less manly. You fell in love with him for who he really is, and that means you’ll stay in love with him no matter what.
Encourage him to be a better man…
Uno dei più importanti obiettivi del matrimonio è quello di incoraggiarvi a vicenda a diventare versioni migliori di voi stessi.
Siate la sua cheerleader e sostenetelo in tutte le sue imprese. Ai ragazzi piace sentire compliments as much as we do, so why don’t you praise him more often?
Be fully present in his life even if sometimes, it seems like he’s trying to push you away. That’s when he actually needs you the most, trust me.
Pursue his dreams tirelessly…
Support and encourage him to follow his dreams and goals. Tell him that no matter what direction those dreams take him in, you’ll always travel together to the final destination.
Show him that you believe in him and in his success. Show him that he always can count on you and that you’ll always help him as much as you can to follow his dreams. After all, his dreams are your dreams, too.
Risalire velocemente dopo la caduta
There will be many ups and downs in your marriage and in your lives in general. Your husband just needs to know that you’ll be there for him every time life knocks him on the floor.
He needs to know that he can count on you in those moments to give him your hand and help him stand up again. Again and again, no matter how many times he falls down, he should know that you’ll always be there to help him rise and heal.
Apprezzate tutto ciò che fa per voi
You, as a wife and as a mother, have so many responsibilities every day, and I’m sure your man knows how to appreciate them.
Ma anche lui ha tanti compiti e responsabilità serie come voi, e sarebbe giusto mostrare rispetto per tutto ciò che fa per voi.
First of all, show him that you’re very thankful to God for sending him into your life.
Then, tell him that even though, sometimes, it seems like you don’t see all of his sacrifices, you do and you appreciate every single one of them.
I always say that if someone doesn’t appreciate and respect you, he doesn’t deserve you o.
Mantenere le promesse e gli impegni
Come si rispetta il proprio marito? Semplicemente mantenendo sempre le proprie parole e le proprie promesse. Questo farà sì che il vostro rapporto matrimoniale rimanga sano.
Le promesse non mantenute avranno un impatto negativo sulla fiducia tra voi e il vostro partner, danneggiando definitivamente il vostro matrimonio.
Don’t ever let your husband down by breaking your promises because that would mean you’re letting your marriage down, too.
Le vostre parole e le vostre promesse sono davvero molto più potenti e importanti di quanto pensiate.
Lasciategli spazio personale
Il fatto è che a volte tutti abbiamo bisogno di spazio personale in una relazione. Abbiamo interessi diversi da quelli del nostro partner e abbiamo semplicemente bisogno di tempo da dedicargli.
You must understand that men are very protective of their personal space when they’re in a committed relationship. They have some interests that we don’t understand and we shouldn’t really interfere there.
That’s why the next time your partner says that he needs quiet time, don’t immediately react as if it’s a bad thing. They probably just need time and space to dedicate to their career or hobbies.
Viziatelo con amore e rispetto
Random acts of kindnesses will cost you nothing, but will surely lure a smile on your husband’s face every time.
Fategli un massaggio se sapete che quel giorno ha avuto un periodo difficile al lavoro. Preparate la sua cena preferita dopo che è tornato da un viaggio di lavoro.
Preparargli il caffè prima di andare al lavoro. Portargli la colazione a letto la domenica mattina. Sorprendetelo con un lettera di anniversario romantica che lasciate nel suo cestino del pranzo.
Those are all some little things that will make your husband feel extremely loved and respected. You don’t have to buy him some expensive gifts to show him that you love him.
Spoil your man with love and respect, and always remember, you’re his queen and you need to trattarlo come un re.
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Parole finali
Per avere un matrimonio sano e di successo, è necessario che tra i due partner ci siano rispetto e fiducia reciproci. Questi due elementi sono i mattoni di ogni relazione prospera.
Spero che questa piccola scuola e i miei consigli su come rispettare vostro marito vi aiutino a migliorare il vostro matrimonio e a creare un legame molto forte con vostro marito, tale che niente e nessuno potrà spezzarlo.
You can’t say that you honestly love someone if you don’t respect them. Love and respect always go hand in hand. You just can’t have one without the other.
La mancanza di rispetto è sicuramente uno dei motivi più comuni per cui oggi molte coppie si rivolgono a un consulente matrimoniale o, nel peggiore dei casi, divorziano.
You can’t have a deep emotional connection nor a healthy relationship with someone if you don’t respect them. In order to maintain a relationship, there has to be a lot of understanding and mutual respect.
You’ll never be able to cultivate respect for a uomo egocentrico o un marito irrispettoso.
I never liked the phrase ‘to express love’ because expressing love means nothing to me. Words mean nothing because we all can say something we don’t really mean or feel.
On the other hand, we can’t behave in a way in which our heart doesn’t want us to. That’s why I have always believed in the power of actions above words and everything else.
Vorrei concludere con un bellissimo versetto della Bibbia, “Be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.” – Ephesians 4:32
