Se fa queste 9 cose, non si innamorerà mai di te

1. Fa programmi con voi all'ultimo minuto

Let’s be honest, he probably had some plans with his friends but since they ditched him, he called you because he doesn’t want to sit in a bar alone.

Voi siete la sua ultima opzione e preferisce passare del tempo con voi piuttosto che andare a casa ad annoiarsi.

2. He doesn’t introduce you as his girlfriend

If he doesn’t introduce you as his girlfriend, it’s because he doesn’t see you as one. It is a sign that he probably has someone else (or more of them) but he wants to keep you as an option.

He doesn’t think you are important in his life and he doesn’t want to introduce you to the people who matter to him.

3. Raggiunge solo quando vuole

Se l'avete sorpreso a mandarvi messaggi alle 2 di notte dicendo che gli mancate e che vi vuole vicino, significa che per lui non siete altro che un'esca.

He just uses you to get what he wants and he doesn’t want to commit at all. He plays games but it is up to you how long you will put up with them.

4. He doesn’t want to meet your friends

Even if you said that there are people in your life who are extremely important to you, he will never want to meet them. In fact, he won’t even want to get to know you better either.

He just wants you to be there when he is into it and to leave him alone when he needs space. If you see these red flag signs, you should tell him that you are not his puppet and that he can’t do whatever he wants with you.

5. He disappears and doesn’t contact you

A man who is into you will tell you if he won’t be available because he knows you would worry. But if your boyfriend disappears for a couple of days and acts normal when he comes back, you should know that he doesn’t respect you.

Un uomo così non vi amerà mai. Se fa tutte queste cose all'inizio della vostra relazione, potete immaginare cosa farà quando le cose diventeranno serie.

6. Ci mette un sacco di tempo a rispondere ai vostri messaggi.

Ok, conoscete tutti la tattica di non rispondere a un testo immediatamente dopo che un ragazzo o una ragazza messaggi but a man who is interested in you won’t play any mind games.

He will show you that he is available at any time and that he is glad you reached out. But if he ignores your texts for a day or more and you see him actively answering other people then he is just a loser who doesn’t deserve you.

Andate avanti finché non è troppo tardi.

7. Dice che la sua ex era una stronza

Avete mai sentito quel detto: Dovresti parlare solo bene dei morti e degli ex?

Ma se ripete continuamente che la sua ex era una stronza e che lei è colpevole della loro rottura, è possibile che non l'abbia ancora dimenticata e che tu sia solo una ragazza di ripiego per lui.

Also, if he talks like that about her, he will talk about you in the same way. He simply can’t stand the fact that he was the one who messed things up!

8. Ti invita a casa sua solo per fare sesso con te

Se vi invita a casa sua solo per fare sesso con voi e vi dice che deve alzarsi presto una volta che avete finito, è un segno che non è interessato a voi.

He will never love you and the sooner you get that, the easier it will be for you. He is just a fuckboy who wants to take advantage of you and he doesn’t have any plans to make any effort for you.

9. Non fa alcuno sforzo per conquistarvi

A guy like this has the attitude that he shouldn’t make any effort to win you over. He wants you to do all the work. And once you do all of it, he will then say he is not the right one for you and will leave.

The thing is that he really doesn’t know what he wants. He is just a spoiled brat who got every girl he wanted but non potrebbe mai impegnarsi a uno qualsiasi di essi.

So, if you see this behavior, don’t put up with it but instead give him a one-way ticket out of your life.

Christine è autrice di ‘Guardare negli occhi l'ansia e la depressione’Un libro che cambierà il vostro modo di combattere l'ansia e la depressione.