Se siete stanchi che il vostro grande cuore venga spezzato ancora e ancora, leggete questo articolo

So che ti fa male avere un cuore spezzato più e più volte. So anche che passate tanto tempo a pensare al vero amore e al giorno in cui entrerà nella vostra vita. E con ogni tuo respiro vuoi che accada il prima possibile, perché è quello di cui hai davvero, ma davvero, bisogno ora nella tua vita. Quando le persone ti deludono e ti spezzano il cuore, hai bisogno di un uomo che ti abbracci e ti dica che tutto andrà bene.

Avete bisogno di qualcuno che a volte sia forte per entrambi. When you feel that you can’t anymore, when you feel like your world is falling apart, you need him to be the wall you can lean on. The one who will be there for better or worse. The right one. Please bear in mind that a man like that will eventually come into your life. I don’t know if it will take days, months, or years for that to happen but I am sure that he will soon be next to you. And once you hug him, you will feel that you can conquer the whole world with one hand if he holds the other one.

Con un uomo così dimenticherete cosa si prova ad avere il cuore spezzato e vi concentrerete solo sulle benedizioni che avete guadagnato e avrete il tempo di godervele. You won’t think about all the bad people who took advantage of you, thinking that they had the right to do that. You won’t think about being fucked up every time that you wanted to have something real with someone.

Quando incontrerete la persona giusta, tutte le cose che prima vi preoccupavano saranno più facili da gestire ora. You will realize that after so many years of pain and agony, you get to live a perfect life with your perfect man. I know that you couldn’t believe that something like this would ever happen to you but you were wrong. And I will be happy that you met him. You see, good le ragazze devono essere felici, prima o poi. If you are sad now that doesn’t need to mean that you will stay like that forever. Things can change for the best when you least expect it.

So, no matter what happens and how life surprises you, don’t give up. No matter how many times your heart gets broken, don’t give up. Don’t give up on love. Don’t give up on good people. Don’t give up on your happiness. Don’t give up on your dreams. Perché non importa quanto lontano possa essere qualcosa, se lo volete veramente, vi raggiungerà. Deve solo trovare la strada giusta per arrivare al vostro cervello e al vostro cuore.

So, my dear girl with a broken heart, I have a message for you: Don’t let your past define you! Don’t let that bitch let you down, telling you that you are not worthy. I know that some bad things happened to you and I know that you were hurt too many times but now is the time to get up and fight. Don’t be sad because one man told you some time ago that you were not enough. Listen to me: You are more than enough! And never let anyone convince you of the opposite.

You weren’t the donna perfetta per l'uomo sbagliato e questo è tutto ciò che dovete sapere. You see, for the wrong one, all your best won’t be enough, while for the right one even your worst will be more than enough. So never surrender and keep fighting for all the things that you deserve. And trust me, you deserve so much. You deserve to be loved. You deserve to be cherished. You deserve to be taken care of. You deserve to be chased. And most importantly, you deserve all that to happen naturally.

So, before you tell yourself that you can’t do it anymore, think about all those things that you could gain if you try just a little bit harder. If you just could fight for your happiness and the love you deserve, everything would be different. And whatever you do, don’t ever forget all your bad experiences because they made you the woman you are today. Because of them, you are way stronger than before, way smarter and now, you won’t give up just like that. Not after everything that happened to you.

Quindi, accettate tutte le cose buone e cattive che arriveranno nella vostra vita e siate grati per tutte le benedizioni che il cielo vi manda. Be thankful for the wounds, for the scars and for all those shitty boyfriends that you had the chance to be with. If it weren’t for them, you would never have become the person you are now. You would never have turned into a woman worthy of fighting for. And just like that, you would never have had the chance to meet the man of your dreams.

The one who doesn’t want to fix you, but the one who holds you tight while you fix yourself!