Se un ragazzo fa queste 5 cose con te, è un giocatore
Tutti ci siamo trovati in questa situazione. Abbiamo tutti frequentato il il più grande dei coglioni. Tutti noi abbiamo avuto almeno un uomo che ci ha preso in giro come se fossimo degli stupidi.
Actually, you were involved in a game and you rocked it—but the thing is—you didn’t even know you were playing.
You are still not sure whether you are playing or not?! Tell me if this scenario rings any bells—everything is peachy and everything is going perfectly ok. But, somewhere deep inside you, something is hiding and bothering you. It’s a feeling that something may be a bit off.
So, as every normal girl, you will ask your partner if your doubts are true or if you’ve lost it completely. And guess what? You’ve lost it! Of course, everything is perfect—your super sweet guy a.k.a. the ultimate douchebag assures you things have never been better!
E tu stai ancora peggio se credi a lui e non al tuo istinto.
IL TUO ISTINTO NON SBAGLIA MAI!!!
Maybe, but just maybe, he is right and you are completely overreacting, but then again compare that with your instincts. I would always go for the instincts rather than anything else—so should you.
Take a look at the list of things that will confirm the thing you already doubted—he’s totally playing you.
1. Nasconde il telefono
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His phone is a legend of a long lost treasure buried somewhere in the ancient and unknown location—no one has ever seen it but there are stories it exists. That’s exactly your experience with his phone.
These men are master manipulators. They will hide their phones and actually, they won’t let you even find yourself in a situation where you can use some kind of an excuse to see their phones. They are that good.
2. Ti chiama solo quando ha bisogno di te
Una telefonata di piacere vi suona familiare? Beh, dovrebbe se stai uscendo con un vero playa. Ti manderà messaggi e ti chiamerà solo quando vuole qualcosa da te—and that something is of course sex.
And one more thing. He only communicates with you as the night approaches. When he’s done with his activities, when he was already out with his friends or a girl that left him hanging, so he called you—the backup girl. Seriously, don’t let him do this to you!
3. I suoi amici non hanno alcun interesse per voi.
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And this one is completely obvious. They are probably used to meeting ‘one-time’ girls who aren’t meant to be around for long. So, they do not even bother to get to know them.
Even if you came to the phase you meet his friends, you will spend a night out together, but you won’t be able to shake off the feeling they weren’t trying at all to make you feel comfortable. Maybe you think they are just rude and inconsiderate, but it’s not that—it’s just that they see you as one of the ‘many yet to come’.
4. Nessun PDA
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They will hide you and believe me, they are good at it. They will refuse any sort of PDA because that is the official acknowledgment of the two of you being together. They won’t risk the possibility of scoring with a new chick. If they leave the impression they are unavailable, that’s impossible.
Anche se a volte si lasciano baciare o tenere per mano, ma non prima di essersi assicurati che nessuno lo stia guardando. Quindi fate molta attenzione!
5. Il vostro istinto vi dice che qualcosa non va
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Questa è l'ultima e più importante cosa. Può raccontarvi ogni tipo di storia, ma se avete la sensazione che qualcosa non vada, probabilmente è così.
Lo scopo di una relazione, tra i tanti, è ottenere una sensazione di sicurezza e amore. Se non lo state ottenendo, significa che la vostra relazione non funziona.
Also, you have the feeling that he doesn’t care about you at all. You have the feeling that things are always about him. He only talks when it’s about him. When you talk, he couldn’t care less.
Tu sai tutto di lui e lui è completamente sprovveduto quando si tratta di te.
