8 Segni che ti sta facendo perdere tempo anche se sei sicura che sia quello giusto

È incredibile come a volte ci innamoriamo e non vediamo mai i segni che qualcuno non è quello che crediamo.

So, there’s a guy in your life, right?

You think that you’re amazing together but there’s this little scared voice in your head telling you that there’s something wrong.

So, you silence that voice, and make yourself believe everything is just perfect. But what if it isn’t?

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1. He doesn’t initiate meaningful conversations

Un ragazzo che si aspetta di passare una vita con voi sarà desideroso di imparare quante più cose possibili su di voi.

L'intimità e la connessione tra due persone veramente innamorate è un legame molto importante che spinge le persone a condividere tutto con quella persona speciale.

If he only talks about random, shallow stuff with you, he doesn’t truly care about discovering who you are deep inside.

This goes to show there isn’t true intimità tra voi due e dovreste smettere di idealizzare la vostra relazione.

2. Manca di coerenza

You maybe haven’t thought about this much, but pay attention. Does it seem to you that he only calls you up when it’s convenient for him?

Non è disposto a cambiare i suoi programmi per voi e a incontrarvi quando volete vederlo?

Purtroppo questo significa che probabilmente only calls you when he’s bored e in realtà ti ha messo in secondo piano.

You shouldn’t put up with a guy who doesn’t cherish you as la sua prima scelta – he’s wasting your time.

3. He doesn’t give you the smallest sign of affection or attention

You can’t really remember a time he called just to tell you he was thinking of you.

Everything seems okay when you’re together, but once he’s away, he’s definitely away, with no sign of his existence whatsoever.

Of course, everybody has a lot on their plate, but sending a quick message doesn’t really take much time.

This probably means that he’s not thinking of you as much as you’re thinking of him, which is a clear sign he’s a time waster and not who you believe him to be.

4. He doesn’t ask about your day

When you get together he’s willing to talk about anything and share details of his day, but he hardly ever asks about yours.

Quando teniamo veramente a una persona, ci interessiamo molto a quello che le è successo durante il periodo in cui siamo stati lontani da lei.

Not asking how your day went means he’s focused on himself and the fun part of your relationship – he doesn’t really care much about you, your feelings, habits, or your life in general.

You may not notice this at first, but as time passes you’ll start sentirsi soli e abbandonato nella vostra relazione.

5. Vi mente

You may never have caught him lying about something big, but you’ve noticed he isn’t a stranger to telling quite a few small lies.

He feels comfortable lying and you can tell that it’s a part of who he is.

Potreste pensare che vi abbia detto quelle bugie solo per apparire migliore, perché era nervoso per far sì che lo vedeste nella migliore luce possibile.

Still, the truth is, if he ever planned anything serious with you, he’d be open about who he is from the very beginning.

You can’t base a relationship on lies.

6. Non si accorge mai dei dettagli

Even though it’s not uncommon for guys not to notice every little detail about us gals, a guy who truly loves you will notice plenty.

He’ll at least know your favorite movie, band, food… what makes you laugh and the things that you don’t like or those that make you mad.

When you think about it, most of us know these things about many of our acquaintances, why wouldn’t he know about yours?

Well, the answer is simple – it’s because he isn’t interested in getting to know you better or making you happy.

7. Non chiede mai i vostri progetti per il futuro

Una persona che vi ama si preoccupa dei vostri sogni, dei vostri obiettivi e dei vostri progetti per il futuro.

Whether you’re at the beginning of your relationship or you’ve been dating for a while, a guy who wants to be with you will be intrigued by how you want to spend your time in the future.

If he envisioned spending his future with you, he’d definitely ask questions about the way you see yours.

If he hasn’t, I’m sorry to say that he probably doesn’t see himself spending that much time with you, no matter how you feel about him.

 8. Non fa mai domande sulle altre persone della vostra vita.

You’ve never heard him mention your friends or family. You might think that he’s just not that curious and he only cares about what he has with you, but…

A guy who’s getting to know you and is willing to commit to you will definitely care about finding out at least a couple of things about your upbringing, the names of your parents, if you have siblings, or what are your friends like.