20 bellissimi segnali che indicano che avete trovato una vera anima gemella

L'amicizia dell'anima gemella. Forse ne avete sentito parlare, o forse no, ma se siete stati abbastanza fortunati da trovare la vostra anima gemella, sapete che esattamente what I’m talking about.

Avete presente quell'amico con cui siete entrati subito in sintonia la prima volta che lo avete visto? Quello con cui avete una miriade di battute interne?

Colui che dice Ti amo quando riattacca il telefono? È la vostra anima gemella nell'amicizia.

Guess what? Romantic soulmates aren’t the only kind. You can find a persona per sempre anche in un'amicizia (grazie a Dio ci sono le BFF).

Your romantic partner is your companion through life but who’s going to hold you up if they break your heart?

Here’s the ugly truth. Life partners come and go and your family members can disappoint you but il tuo migliore amico rimarrà al vostro fianco, facendo in modo che non vi sentiate mai soli per un secondo.

To me, that’s love. If you’re lucky enough to have encountered such a person and forged a bond that you genuinely believe can survive anything, you’re going to enjoy reading this.

Not that you need confirmation that your friendship is real but as you’re gleefully screaming to yourself, “OMG, that’s totally me and la mia migliore amica!” you’ll realize that you’ll always have someone in your corner.

Trascorrete più tempo con loro che con i vostri familiari.

Ci sono solo amici e poi ci sono amici che sono come una famiglia. And ever since you can remember, that’s what it’s felt like with your friend.

You love your family of course but they can get on your last nerve sometimes. And with your best friend, it’s a whole other story.

Potete stare insieme tutto il giorno and still, miss them when they’re gone.

Che cos'è l'amicizia dell'anima gemella? Proprio così.

Avete un sacco di battute interne che vi fanno ridere ogni giorno.

You share so many memes and GIFs with each other that you’ve managed to make a private joke out of so many of them.

You can just look at your friend and burst out laughing because you know that they’re thinking the exact same thing.

Si può comunicare solo con gli sguardi

Have I mentioned that you barely need words to communicate? When it comes to a soulmate friendship, words are very unnecessary. You look at each other and instantly know what’s up.

You’ve seen each other at your worst and both stayed

You’ve shared many mental salute crisi e non ha mai immaginato di lasciare il loro fianco. Quando loro piangono, voi piangete. Quando hanno il cuore spezzato, il vostro cuore soffre per loro.

That’s what BFFs are for. Being there to hold you up when you’re too ashamed to ask for help. They’re sempre lì.

When you’re sad, your bestie makes it their job to cheer you up

Whenever I’m feeling down or if I’m simply being too hard on myself, my girl never lets me stay that way for too long.

She knows what to do and what to say that it’s virtually impossible to stay sad. Soulmate friendships are so special, man.

You’d rather stay in with your BFF and do nothing than go out and party

Guardare Netflix, recitare riferimenti alla cultura pop, scattare selfie e ascoltare musica a tutto volume sembra un piano migliore di qualsiasi altra cosa gli altri amici abbiano in mente.

If you’re together, you can have fun anywhere, doing qualsiasi cosa. This might sound like a cliché but it’s God’s honest truth.

You’ve unintentionally coordinated outfits on many occasions

Don’t even get me started on this. You have shown up in the same cute outfit to a night out or to brunch more times than you can count! And you weren’t even that surprised.

That’s what best friend telepathy is all about. You read each other like an open book and basically think almost exactly alike.

I loro genitori vi trattano come se foste i loro figli (e viceversa)

Se ci pensate, tutti i loro persone care treat you like one of their own. And you truly feel like you’re home around them.

It’s so comforting knowing that you’re always more than welcome to go by, knowing you’d be treated like part of the fam.

You’re comfortable discussing things you’d NEVER utter to someone else

You’ve discussed the dirtiest details of your long-term relationship and never felt an ounce of shame.

Si raccontano cose disgustose che spaventerebbero gli altri, ma il fatto è che con loro sembra tutto così normale.

A questo punto, l'unica cosa strana sarebbe se si didn’t discuterne.

When you two join forces, there’s not a problem you can’t solve

If one of you has an issue, the other one’s there to join forces and help you work it out.

Might I add, you’re quite the dream team. So far, there’s not an issue you haven’t solved with your BFF by your side.

You keep all of each other’s secrets

Sai che la tua migliore amica li sta portando nella tomba e viceversa. È la custode numero uno dei tuoi segreti per tutta la vita.

Volete veramente il meglio per loro in tutti gli ambiti della vita.

There’s no one you want to succeed in life more than them. You root for them in every way and encourage them to make their dreams come true no matter what.

Then once they finally accomplish their lifelong goals, there’s not a happier camper out there than you.

You’ve never felt the need to lie to each other about anything

Ever since high-school or college, from being school friends or sorority sisters to partners in crime through life’s adventures, you’ve always kept it real with each other.

You can’t imagine telling them even a white lie. You love them way too much and you know they feel the same way.

La vostra amica del cuore è la persona a cui rivolgersi per qualsiasi cosa

Avete bisogno di una data per un matrimonio? Controllo. Avete un disperato bisogno di consigli romantici? Controllo. Avete bisogno di un alibi per una serata particolare? Controllo.

It’s not even in question. They’re your constant, your go-to and your life guru. Talk about a soulmate friendship!

Even when you’re physically separated, there’s never anyone closer to you

Even if you’re traveling from as far as New York to Los Angeles, or further, that has never made you feel like they’re not always there.

You’re basically on the phone constantly and thanks to FaceTime, you see them all the time. Distance has nothing on you.

Sapete che la vostra migliore amica è sempre a portata di mano per una telefonata.

Whatever you’re going through, you can just call them up and know they’ll always answer.

When it comes to you, they never screen, even if it’s the middle of the night. That’s what besties are for.

You tell each other, “I love you,” on a regular basis

Incoraggiano l'amore per se stessi e non mancano mai di dirvi "ti amo".

Your every phone call ends on that note and even if they never said it again, you’d always know that the love is very much real.

You finish each other’s sentences

Again, this might sound like such a clichéd thing to say but you know each other so well that you finish each other’s sentences half the time.

It’s like two people sharing one brain!

Your bestie can ALWAYS tell when there’s something wrong

That’s some telepatia della fiamma gemella right there. When it comes to you, they’re a total empath.

Nothing gets by them. You can try your hardest pretending you’re okay but they always see through you. And God knows you’re grateful for that.

A volte si ha bisogno di qualcuno che sia presente senza doverlo esplicitare.

Quando succede qualcosa (di bello o di brutto), loro sono la prima chiamata.

Quando ottenete una promozione, adottate un nuovo cane, vi chiedono di sposarlo, trovate la gonna più bella o vi si spezza il cuore, loro sono la vostra prima chiamata.

You need to talk it out with them because they’ll make you feel better or they’ll be happy for you in an instant.

If it’s good news, they’ll arrive with champagne and if it’s bad, it’s Ben & Jerry’s all the way.

Citazioni sull'amicizia dell'anima gemella da condividere con la tua BFF

Non c'è amore come quello tra migliori amici. E quando si trova l'anima gemella (ovvero la propria anima gemella platonica), le tenete a cuore come fossero membri della famiglia.

Ecco alcuni detti ispiratori che celebrano il legame indissolubile tra amici.

1. “Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmates and guys are just people to have fun with.”― Candace Bushnell

2. “Because with true friends, no one is keeping score. But it still feels good to repay them – even in the tiniest increments.”― Emery Lord

3. “It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them.”― Ralph Waldo Emerson

4. “When you’re in jail, a good friend will be trying to bail you out. A best friend will be in the cell next to you saying, ‘Damn, that was fun’.”― Groucho Marx

5. “If you have two friends in your lifetime, you’re lucky. If you have one good friend, you’re more than lucky.”― S.E. Hinton

6. “Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.”― Eleanor Roosevelt

7. “True friends are always together in spirit.”― L.M. Montgomery

8. “Everyone wants to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.”― Oprah Winfrey

9. “You must remember, family is often born of blood, but it doesn’t depend on blood. Nor is it exclusive of friendship. Family members can be your best friends, you know. And best friends, whether or not they are related to you, can be your family.”― Trenton Lee Stewart

10. “I don’t care about whose DNA has recombined with whose. When everything goes to hell, the people who stand by you without flinching–they are your family.”―Jim Butcher

11. “Close friends are truly life’s treasures. Sometimes they know us better than we know ourselves. With gentle honesty, they are there to guide and support us, to share our laughter and our tears. Their presence reminds us that we are never really alone.”― Vincent van Gogh

12. “True friends are like diamonds – bright, beautiful, valuable, and always in style.”― Nicole Richie

13. “Friends are God’s way of apologizing for your family.”― Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

14. “Two things you will never have to chase: True friends and true love.”― Mandy Hale

15. “For a friend with an understanding heart is worth no less than a brother.”― Homer

16. “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.”― Tennessee Williams

17. “You know a real friend? Someone you know will look after your cat after you are gone.”― William S. Burroughs

18. “The most valuable gift you can receive is an honest friend.”― Stephen Richards

A sweet friendship refreshes the soul…

… and enriches your life. And the beautiful thing is that all they have to do is just exist.

L'amicizia con l'anima gemella è come il carburante che vi spinge a raggiungere le stelle.

Ti fanno sentire come la migliore versione di te stesso e vi incoraggia quando tutti gli altri cercano di limitare le vostre ambizioni.

And honestly, that’s all you need sometimes. Someone standing in your corner, cheering you on, even when it’s likely that you’ll fail.

For as long as you have your BFF, it’s going to be okay.

That’s what this article is all about. Helping you realize that you don’t need a million people around you. All you need is that one person who never gives up on you.

Sapete come si dice: “A good friend will be there for you when you cry. But a best friend will have a wet shoulder because of your tears.”

E questo, amici miei, descrive perfettamente un'anima gemella in amicizia.