I was always wondering how all the good girls always fall for fuckboys who don’t deserve them. I couldn’t understand what they see in them so as to be so attracted to them like other men don’t exist.
So, I decided to do some research and I found out some of the most common reasons why good girls fall for these guys so often. And here are the reasons, so the mystery is finally solved!
1. Fuckboys are always more interesting than good boys
It is not a secret that girls like charming and fun guys, and that is what all fuckboys do the best. They have a lot of self-esteem, they are charismatic and they are not afraid of anything.
They always say the perfect thing at the perfect moment, and it is impossible to turn them off. That’s why many girls nowadays fall for fuckboys, and they neglect the good boys.
But the truth is that you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover, so you should be extra careful if you are choosing a man for a long-term relationship.
2. Fuckboys promise unconditional love and happiness
You see, every fuckboy knows what he is doing when hitting on a woman. He will promise you eternal love and happiness. He will tell you that with him, you will be the happiest woman alive and that if you don’t give him a chance, he will be so disappointed.
And because you are so good and empathetic, you will give him a shot. And when you give him a chance, he will take you for granted and start neglecting you and hurting you.
3. Fuckboys are so attractive
How could you say ‘no’ to an adorable man standing in front of you, looking at you with those puppy eyes and asking to take you out to dinner?
How could you not be captivated by his sweet, manly smell that affects you so hard? And even if you didn’t think about it, your heart tells you that you should accept his invitation because he is the real deal.
But in the end, you will see that he is nothing like what he said he is and that life with him is really not your cup of tea.
4. Fuckboys tell you everything you want to hear
When a fuckboy wants you to be his, he will make it work somehow. He will have a nice approach, and he will tell you everything you want to hear.
When he finishes feeding your ego, he will give you the final strike by kissing you gently and telling you that he has never felt like that before. And after all those things, you won’t have any option other than to fall head over heels with him.
While you realize what he is like, it will be too late because he will leave you in tears. He will probably find another victim and do the same to her as well.
5. Fuckboys make you feel so damn attractive
If you have had an encounter with at least one fuckboy, you know what I am talking about. He will tell you that you are the most beautiful woman in the room and that he just has to have you.
He will compliment you and make you feel so damn good. But bear in mind that it is all part of his tactics and that he is doing all this just to get what he wants.
If you already have had experience with them, you will be okay, but if you haven’t, you better watch out and think twice if you will give them a chance.
6. Fuckboys can be aggressive, but for you, it looks so sweet
If you have ever dealt with a fuckboy, you know that he was pretty impulsive about everything but that was what you liked the most about him.
For some reason, you considered that to be manly, and you admired him for yelling at the driver who blocked his way at the parking lot. You thought that he is so fearful and brave and that he can make you feel safe.
But once he becomes so aggressive towards you, you won’t be so delighted with him, and you will want him out of your life as soon as possible.
7. Fuckboys are so good in bed
When you sleep with a fuckboy for the first time, you will think that you have hit the Jackpot. Sex with him will be something you have never felt before, and you won’t be able to believe that you got so lucky as to meet a man like him.
He will try different things with you, and you will reveal your inner sex goddess who was waiting for so long to be noticed.
But when you find out that you weren’t the only woman feeling that way in his arms, you will see that the only thing you have hit with him is rock bottom.
8. Your gut tells you that you should go after him
You know that voice within you that always tells you what to do? Yes, that voice! In a situation like this, it probably tells you that you should go after him, even if you know that he is not the right choice for you.
Since you only live once, you want to try that handsome man, and you don’t want to think what will happen tomorrow.
You choose to live in the moment, but that decision can cost you a lot sometimes.