1. Your relationship status
The truth is that you actually don’t have to explain why you are single, why you sleep with another guy every night or why you have lived with your boyfriend for so much time but still haven’t decided to tie the knot.
Those are private and intimate things, and you don’t have to justify them to anyone.
You just need to enjoy your life and do things that make you happy, not others.
2. Your job
You don’t have to explain to anyone why you decided to do the job you are currently doing even if you can do something much better.
Maybe the new work would bring you so much stress and maybe you wouldn’t have any free time.
Maybe you like your coworkers at your current job, and the atmosphere is positive without anyone competing and walking over dead bodies to get what they want.
Trust me, this is your choice only, and nobody has any right to make you question whether it is good or not for you.
3. Not having a baby or having a lot of kids
Having a child is a very serious thing, and you shouldn’t have to explain to anyone why you still don’t have children or why you have many of them.
It is your private thing that you should only discuss with your partner. People will always ask and be curious, but you are the one who should put them in their places.
Maybe some women can’t have kids and questions from other people will definitely hurt them.
So, never judge anyone before you step into their shoes and know their whole story.
4. Your finances
Your finances are something you should keep for yourself as well.
There is no need to explain to anyone how much you earn and how you spend your money. You earned it, and you can spend it on whatever you want.
So, there is no need to tell anyone about details regarding your finances. In fact, you shouldn’t explain anything that you don’t feel comfortable with.
5. Your lifestyle
Some people like a fast lifestyle and others, on the other hand, follow the slow pace.
It depends from person to person, and that is completely okay. You don’t have to feel any guilt because someone goes out every day, does so many activities, and talks about them while you know that you are recharging when you stay at home and spend time with your closest family.
You should always listen to your own heart, and do things that satisfy you and not others.
You exist to make yourself happy and pleased, not the people around you.
6. Your emotions
Your emotions are your private thing, and if you don’t want, you don’t have to talk about them.
Even if people will be curious why you act the way you act and why you do the things you do, there is no need to justify yourself.
Just live your life the way it suits you the best, and make yourself a life you will be proud of.
When you stay alone, you should have the feeling that you did everything in your power to do all the things that you always wanted to do.
Trust me, when you are feeling good and when you feel the peace within, there is nothing that can make you feel better than that.
7. Your decisions
All of us will eventually have to face some important decisions. Some of the time, we will make the right choices, and some of the time we won’t.
But that is totally fine because even if you make a mistake, you will know that you made it and not someone else instead of you.
You will be able to forgive yourself for the bad choices, but I am not sure if you will be able to forgive others for bad choices they made for you.
That’s why you are allowed to make decisions that maybe won’t sound logical to others, but if you feel good making them, just bring it on.
It is your life, and you have every right to do whatever makes you happy.
8. Your weight
This is a very intimate thing, and you shouldn’t even try to explain to people the way you look.
Maybe you would like to be skinnier or to put on some weight, but you can’t because you have health problems.
Maybe you are a mom, and those kilos which you gained during the pregnancy just won’t come off.
Maybe you are stressed out and you eat too much to feel better.
We all have problems we are dealing with in our 4 walls, and you shouldn’t even try to justify yourself and explain to others why you look the way you look.
That is simply not their business, and they don’t have any right to ask you anything about that.
9. Your sexual orientation
Nobody has any right to judge you for your sexual orientation, and you don’t have to explain your choices and decisions.
If you are straight, that is okay, just as it is okay to be gay or bisexual. We are all human, and we can experiment until we find something that works for us.
Maybe others will try to find out more about your romantic relationships, but if you don’t feel comfortable talking about them, you don’t have to.
It is your private thing, and you should discuss it only with people who you feel comfortable telling it to.
10. The way you spend your free time
You should never try to justify why you spend your free time with certain people and not with others.
It just shows that maybe you feel more comfortable with someone you’ve known for a long time rather than spending time with someone you haven’t known for very long.
But it is up to you how much time you will spend with whom, and you don’t have to explain it to anyone.
I am not saying you should be with the same people all the time, but I am just saying that you should make changes when you are ready and not when others are ready.
