When you start a love relationship, you think that everything is so perfect and that it will stay like that forever. But what you should know is that nobody is perfect and there will come a time when your partner will let you down.
He will do something that will make you feel bad and that’s why it is very important to know what kinds of things you should forgive him for and which things are deadly sins.
That’s why I made of list of the things that you shouldn’t forgive him for in a relationship.
So, if your man does any of these things, you should just leave him because he is not someone who will love you and respect you like you deserve.
1. He cheats on you
I know that there are some women who will forgive their man when they cheat on them but from my point of view that is something that shouldn’t be forgiven.
I mean, he consciously slept with another woman even if he knew that he would hurt you by doing so. He didn’t think about your feelings or about all the agony you would go through when you found out about that.
If he did it once, he will do it again. So, don’t forgive him when you find out about this and dump him because you deserve more than his half-assed love.
2. He abuses you
No matter whether it is emotional or physical abuse, it is something that you shouldn’t tolerate in a relationship. If your partner abuses you, he has some serious issues and you don’t deserve to live in fear your whole life.
He should be your protector and not someone you will be afraid of. So, don’t believe him when he says that it just happened accidentally and that it won’t happen again, because it will.
Once an abuser, always an abuser.
3. He is rude to you
Does your man belittle you in front of others? Do you feel less worthy in his presence?
If the answer is yes, then you have problems.
This is something that you should never forgive in a relationship because it is a serious issue. Your man should be supportive and loving and not rude to you.
He should treat you like his queen and not like someone who is here today but who is gone tomorrow.
That is something that you should never tolerate so it is better to stay away from a man like that.
4. He lies to you
Lying is never good and especially in a love relationship. If he says that he was stuck in a traffic jam while he was actually driving his hot co-worker home, it is something that you shouldn’t forgive him for.
If he lies, that means that he does bad things and he doesn’t want you to find out about them.
Not with something small like white lies but here we are talking about things that are more serious than that. And this behavior is unforgivable.
5. He pressures you
Your man shouldn’t pressure you to do things that you are not comfortable with. If you don’t like something he does, you need to tell him how you feel about that.
Explain to him that different people like different things and that he should be okay with that.
If he still persists with what he wants, without asking you for your permission, then you shouldn’t have anything to do with him.
6. He doesn’t put you first
It is okay to put yourself first but if your guy puts all the people around you first, and you end up last, then you have a problem.
Maybe he is not in love with you anymore and maybe he doesn’t see the two of you together for the long run. But a real man who loves his girlfriend will always put her first, especially at the beginning of the relationship.
If you see that your guy doesn’t give you the love you deserve and that you are not happy with him, I am afraid it is time to give up on him. He obviously did that with you a long time ago.
7. He blames you for all the problems
When you have a relationship with a man who blames you for everything bad that happens, it is something that you need to talk to him about.
When you have problems, they are connected to both of you and not you only and he needs to understand that.
But if he refuses to admit that he is guilty of something and says it is all your fault, then he shouldn’t have anything to do with your life anymore. Trust me, you will be better off without him.
8. He makes you feel less worthy
A relationship should be something nice where you can be yourself and the other person should love you for who you really are.
If you are pretending to be someone you are not just so he would like you, it is all in vain. If you feel bad because your man makes you feel less worthy, you need to change something.
You should be totally direct about your feelings and tell him that you are not happy like that and that you want a change.
If he doesn’t want to change and if he is okay with losing you, walk away as soon as you can.