You were giving all of yourself and more to the man you love, and he didn’t appreciate it.
You gave him your body, your soul, and your heart, and in return, he made you feel like you’ll never be good enough.
And you start believing that you’ll never be good enough no matter what you do because nothing else makes sense to you.
You start believing that your every action is wrong, and you feel like you’ll never be worthy of love.
But, the only truth is no matter how good of a woman you are, you will never be good enough for the wrong man!
The only truth is that no matter what you do or say, you will never be good enough for the man who is not ready to see it and listen to you.
You could be sitting 24/7 next to your phone waiting for him to text you, and you still wouldn’t be good enough.
You could be only thinking of his wishes and spending your time going around, doing everything to make him happy, and you still wouldn’t be good enough.
You could give him your heart and soul, and you still wouldn’t be good enough. And do you know why?
Because he’s not ready for any of it!
He doesn’t know how to appreciate any of it because he’s not ready to receive it.
And don’t you dare think that you’re not good enough because the only truth is that you’ll never be good enough for the man who is not ready!
Even if you give him everything that he’s asked for, it will never be enough.
If you give him your hand, he will ask for your both arms, and he will never thank you for them.
He will never acknowledge any of your efforts because his selfishness is not letting him think about anyone other than himself.
You could offer the best of yourself to him, and it still won’t be good enough because he’s not the right person for you!
He’s not the one you should waste your time on, and you know it, too.
The only reason you didn’t give up on him is because you believed that he will change. But, he didn’t. And you know that he never will.
No matter how many chances you give him, you’ll never be good enough for him to decide to change.
No matter how many times you forgive him, you’ll never be good enough for him to decide to stop hurting you. And do you know why?
Because he’s unwilling to change. Because he couldn’t give less of a shit for how you are feeling and how his actions are making you feel.
I know it sounds harsh, but it’s the sole, bare truth. You’ll never be good enough for the man who is not ready to accept the consequences of his actions.
You could ignore all of his mistakes and keep forgiving them blindly, and you still wouldn’t be good enough for him because you’ll never be good enough for the man who is not willing to work on himself.
So, don’t even try to be good enough for the man who is not good enough for you!
Don’t even try to go out of your way to please him because he’ll never bother doing the same for you.
Don’t even try giving him your pure love when you know that all you’ll get in return is his toxic one.
You’re not the one who is responsible for his happiness, so don’t you even try persuading him that you’re the right one for him.
The only person you have to persuade of something is yourself.
You have to understand that in his eyes, you’ll never be good enough no matter what you say and no matter what you do.
And you have to understand that he doesn’t deserve any of love and attention!
So, stop wasting your time on the man who will never be able to reciprocate.
Stop wasting your time on the man who will never be there when you need him.
Stop wasting your time on the wrong man because you’ll never be good enough for the wrong heart!
Wait for the one who will show you how much he appreciates your effort. Wait for the one who will never make you question anything.
Wait for the one who will fight for you with all of his body and heart.
Instead of wasting your time on the wrong man, wait for the real man who will show you what true love really is.
I’m a former English language major, copy typing freelancer and between the two I’ve always enjoyed drawing (abstract art), singing and writing. Yes, I’m an artistic soul that always wanted to make the world a better place. Today I’m lucky to be the writer on this site and to share my deepest thoughts with you and support you through your daily struggles. I hope we’re gonna get along and I’ll give my best not to disappoint you. XOXO