You simply don’t give up, and a narcissist can easily entangle you into his web of lies. You actually let him make excuses instead of nicely walking away and finding someone who actually deserves you.
Stop arguing with them, and just walk away. If you take their bait, you’re never going to get rid of them because they aren’t going to let you go until they suck you dry.
You don’t have time for mind games, and it’s not an easy job to make you a sucker. You don’t fall for stupid lies, although very clever ones can get the better of you.
The truth is, you’re stubborn as hell, and it’s easy to lure you into an argument. A narcissist knows how to take advantage of that. What they don’t know is that you can be stubborn in different ways.
When you decide not to react and keep quiet, even though the fate of the world may depend on your reaction, you won’t make a sound. And not answering back, not reacting is what drives a narcissist crazy.
You can completely depend on a narcissist. Let’s say it’s very easy to manipulate you. When a narcissist is done with you, you end up hating yourself for letting him manipulate you like that.
But, you’ve got that other side of yourself, and when you are in these kinds of situations, you have to use it. Use that stubborn, sassy side, and tell him to move along. Be that selfish, and think about yourself.
An emotional Cancer will definitely try to take up a narcissist like a project. You think that he needs fixing (and he does), but what you’re doing wrong is you’re trying to change him.
A narcissist can’t change, and you’re not doing anyone a favor, especially not yourself, if you’re trying to turn him into something he is not. You’ll only get hurt, so lay off.
You’re stubborn, and you don’t want to admit that you’re wrong. That’s why you stay in a relationship with a narcissist much longer than you should. You don’t want to admit that falling in love with that person was a mistake.
You’d rather suffer and be hurt than admit your ego got smacked. In the end, your relationship will end, but there will be tears and pain because you didn’t end it sooner.
You’re not going to put up with anything. There is absolutely no way that a Virgo gets played by anyone, even a narcissist. He may fool you at the beginning, but that will be the last thing he does.
Your precise planning and your need for order and tidiness in your every day and love lives will make you discard him for good, leaving you with no consequences.
You’re also very emotional like Cancer which makes you an easy target for narcissistic abuse. Your biggest flaw—when it comes to narcissists otherwise it’s a value—is that you want to help everyone.
You’re very compassionate. You want to listen to people when they are in trouble, and you’ll do anything to help them. Narcissists take advantage of that because they mask their neediness into needing help from you. And then they suck you dry; they use you.
Your ultimate goal is to take broken men and help them whether they like it or not and whether they want it or not. You won’t take ‘no’ for an answer, and once you occupy yourself with something, you make it your life’s project.
You’re very passionate, and when you want something, you won’t give up that easily. There is just one problem in your plan which will cost you and that is, you can’t take a narcissist and heal him. It’s impossible. It’s not that you can’t do it, but no one can do it.
You’ll try to prove to the narcissist that what he’s doing is just not right, and it’s not humane to anyone. But, since they can’t feel compassion and don’t care how you feel as long as they are satisfied, they won’t listen.
When you realize that you are playing a game which you can’t win, you’ll lose it, and when you do, it’s better to stay out of your way. You’ll try to get revenge, and you’ll try to make him feel as much pain as you did.
You hate fighting, and you won’t let anyone screw with you. You’re traditional, but you’re true to yourself. When you set a goal, there is nothing and no one in this world that will talk you out of it.
So, when you realize that his behavior is not what you want to experience for the rest of your life, you’re going to make it your life’s mission to break up and get over him.
Breaking up won’t be easy, especially getting over him. But your determines and craving for success will make you get over him and heal much faster than anyone else.
Dealing with a narcissist won’t end well for you. You’re a sensitive flower, and you take things personally, so when something really bad happens, you fall apart.
In a relationship with a narcissist, you’re going to suffer, and you’re not going to be able to recognize yourself. You’ll lose your sense of self-worth and self-respect, and even when he leaves, you’re not going to be able to get yourself together that soon.
But, don’t worry, you’ll get your life back on track.
You give a lot of second chances which is a real problem when you’re dealing with a narcissist. You’re only making it easier for him to take advantage of you. You believe their apologies, and you let them back into your life.
You lie to yourself that things are going to be better because you can’t accept the fact that he is a manipulative asshole, and you fell for him. Don’t blame yourself. They are artists when it comes to seduction and lying.