Figuring out if a guy is actually interested in you may be like deciphering a mystery—especially when astrology is involved!
Each zodiac sign has its own distinct method of expressing love and devotion, making it simpler (or sometimes more difficult) to comprehend his genuine emotions. Knowing his astrological sign, whether he’s a passionate Aries or a dreamy Pisces, might provide you with crucial information about his love intentions.
Continue reading to find out the telltale indicators of whether he’s head over heels for you or not depending on his zodiac sign!
1. Aries
Aries can’t cover up the fact he’s in love. If he really wants you and doesn’t want to live without you, he will make sure you are aware of that.
Staying in a loveless relationship where there is no attraction and passion is not an option for him. He would rather risk hurting you by telling you he’s not interested than stringing you along—which is actually a good thing for the long haul. If he wants you, he’ll come and get you. Everything other than that is a sign that he’s not interested.
If an Aries man isn’t interested in you, he’ll become distant and lose his characteristic energy around you. When an Aries no longer feels the spark, he won’t bother initiating plans or reaching out as much. He thrives on passion and excitement, so if those elements are missing, he’ll quickly retreat. This isn’t a sign that beats around the bush—his disinterest will show in his lack of enthusiasm.
Don’t expect him to fake it, either. Aries men are straightforward to a fault, so if they’re not feeling it, they may bluntly say so or simply stop making any effort to see you. If he’s avoiding eye contact, brushing off your ideas, or leaving conversations short, it’s likely his interest has waned.
2. Taurus
He is the most ambiguous sign when it comes to ‘he loves me, he loves me not’! You’ll have no idea if he’s interested or not. But, regardless of his behavior, he has a tell that can help you see if you’re just wasting your time with him.
Taurus men are very curious. It takes a lot of time for them to decide whether they like someone or not, so they ask a lot of questions and want to know everything there is to know about you. So, if he shows interest in your life and who you actually are, then you definitely have a shot.
If a Taurus man isn’t interested, his usual curiosity will fade. He’ll stop asking about your day, your dreams, or the little things that make you who you are. Instead of seeking to understand you better, he’ll become more reserved and might even seem indifferent. Taurus men are creatures of habit, so if he’s not inviting you into his routine or avoiding meaningful interactions, it’s a red flag.
Additionally, a disinterested Taurus may seem overly focused on himself. While normally a generous and attentive partner, he might start prioritizing his own comfort over spending quality time with you. If you feel like you’re the one making all the effort, it could mean he’s simply not as invested as you’d hoped.
3. Gemini
Gemini loves to flirt. If your Gemini man doesn’t show affection, try hard to impress you, and make you laugh, he is definitely not that into you. If he doesn’t insist on going on adventures together, he probably wants you just to be friends.
When a Gemini man likes you, he will turn his full charm on. He will use every trick in the book to seduce you and make you fall head over heels in love with him.
When a Gemini man isn’t interested, the first thing you’ll notice is the lack of communication. He’ll no longer send you random texts or initiate conversations about fun, quirky topics. Instead of being his chatty, lively self, he may become distant or distracted when you’re around. This sign thrives on connection, so if he’s pulling back, it’s a clear signal.
Moreover, a disinterested Gemini might stop including you in his plans. He’ll avoid inviting you to join his adventures or sharing his world with you. If his usual curiosity about your life has been replaced by vague, surface-level conversations, it’s a sign his heart might not be in it.
4. Cancer
If a Cancer man has feelings for you, you’ll definitely know it. They are natural caretakers, and every Cancer man will make sure to give you everything you need. If you’re sick, they’ll come running to you with a bowl of warm soup and hot tea.
If your Cancer man reacts in any way other than showing affection and worry, he’s definitely not that into you.
When a Cancer man isn’t interested, his natural warmth and attentiveness disappear. He’ll become less emotionally available, no longer going out of his way to check on you or offer support when you’re feeling down. Cancerians thrive on connection, so a lack of effort to nurture the relationship is a major sign his heart isn’t in it.
Beyond this, you might notice him withdrawing into his shell, avoiding opportunities to spend time together. Instead of initiating thoughtful gestures or meaningful conversations, he may seem distracted or detached. If his usual nurturing demeanor shifts to indifference, it’s a clear indicator that he’s not invested.
5. Leo
Leo men go out of their way for the girl they like. If you’ve ever dreamt of a certain situation or something you’d like to do or see, and if you told him that, be sure he will make your dreams come true, but only if he’s into you.
He’ll pay attention to everything you say, and sooner or later, he will surprise you with everything you want and crave. Leo will make sure that the woman he likes doesn’t miss anything from her life.
A disinterested Leo will no longer crave the spotlight in your life. Instead of making bold, romantic gestures or showing off his efforts to win your affection, he’ll begin to downplay his presence. A Leo man who isn’t invested won’t go out of his way to impress you or plan memorable experiences.
Additionally, he may stop seeking your admiration or validation, something that’s usually vital for this confident sign. If he seems indifferent to your compliments or disengages when you share your feelings, it’s a sign his interest is fading. A lack of enthusiasm from a Leo is hard to miss.
6. Virgo
Virgo’s are unsure about everything. Their analytical approach often destroys any chance for love. Why? Because it takes them forever to show or say they like you, and usually most women lose interest or just think their crush is not interested after all.
Here’s where Virgos make a mistake every time, so good luck to you with finding out whether he likes you or not. Although, if you’re extremely lucky, he will buy you small things as a sign he thinks of you when you’re not around. That is the only clue he will give you, so open your eyes and pay attention!
When a Virgo man isn’t interested, his thoughtful nature takes a backseat. Instead of offering help or showing subtle signs of care, he’ll focus entirely on himself or his own goals. His typical attention to detail in your interactions may also wane, leaving you feeling overlooked or unimportant.
You’ll also notice that his communication becomes more practical and less emotionally engaging. Conversations may feel distant or formal, lacking the warmth and curiosity he usually exhibits. A Virgo man who’s checked out emotionally rarely goes out of his way to connect, making his disinterest quietly but undeniably clear.
7. Libra
A Libra man will show you his affection through social skills. It’s as simple as that. Since they are real social butterflies, they will show you they care for you through conversation.
If they want to engage you in conversation, logically, they find you interesting, and they want to explore you a bit more. So, as long as a Libra is talking to you about interesting subjects, you can rest assured he is interested in you.
A Libra man who isn’t interested will stop prioritizing engaging conversations with you. His usually charming and diplomatic demeanor may feel forced or distant, and he might avoid discussing deeper, more personal topics. Instead of seeking your perspective or sharing his own, he could retreat into polite but superficial exchanges.
He may also pull back from inviting you to social events or including you in his circle. Libra men value connection and harmony, so if he’s not making an effort to bring you into his social world, it’s a red flag. His disinterest often shows in a noticeable lack of energy in maintaining the relationship.
8. Scorpio
Scorpio men are super possessive and jealous. If the woman they like talks to other men, he will go crazy. Then, judging by his behavior, you can be positive there might be something going on between the two of you.
He will ask you a million questions about guy friends you’re hanging out with because he wants to make sure he is better than they are. His jealousy may be freaky or cute, depending on how you look.
When a Scorpio man isn’t interested, his trademark intensity and possessiveness will be noticeably absent. He won’t show concern about your interactions with others or feel the need to dig into your personal life. Instead, he may seem indifferent, leaving you wondering if he even notices your presence.
Scorpios are usually deeply curious about the people they care for, so if he stops asking probing questions or engaging deeply in conversations, it’s a sign his feelings have cooled. He may also avoid emotional vulnerability, keeping the relationship on a surface level instead of exploring the depths he’s known for.
9. Sagittarius
Sags are brutally honest which can be both good and bad. The good thing is that you won’t have to wonder whether he likes you or not. They will tell everything they feel about you right to your face without holding back.
But the bad thing is when they are not into you, they won’t have any problems breaking the bad news coldly and distantly, not giving a damn about your feelings.
When a Sagittarius man isn’t interested, his honesty becomes less about sharing his emotions and more about creating distance. He’ll stop engaging in open, exciting conversations and may avoid talking about future plans involving you. Adventure and spontaneity are his lifeblood, so if he no longer invites you to join in his escapades, it’s a clear sign he’s pulling away.
Moreover, you’ll notice a lack of his usual enthusiasm. A Sagittarius thrives on laughter and connection, but when he’s not feeling it, interactions might feel dry or transactional. His straightforward nature means he won’t fake excitement, so if his warmth has turned cold, it’s time to take the hint.
10. Capricorn
Capricorn men are hot-headed and stubborn. Making compromises is not how they roll. So, taking that into consideration, if you manage to put a Capricorn up for something they don’t like, he definitely likes you.
Otherwise, if he turns your request down with a solid no, taking nothing into consideration, he doesn’t like you that much. Sorry.
When a Capricorn man isn’t interested, he’ll prioritize his ambitions and responsibilities over spending time with you. This sign is naturally goal-oriented, but if he’s not making space in his busy schedule to see you, it’s a strong indicator that his feelings aren’t aligned. He may also become emotionally closed off, keeping conversations strictly practical and devoid of any romantic undertones.
A disinterested Capricorn will avoid making compromises or going out of his way for you. If he’s unwilling to meet you halfway or disregards your efforts to connect, it’s his way of signaling that he’s not emotionally invested. His stoic demeanor may make it hard to tell, but his actions—or lack thereof—will speak volumes.
11. Aquarius
It has probably happened to you that you’ve been sending all the signals possible that you like an Aquarius man, but he doesn’t seem to get them. Well, I hate to break it to you, but they are not stupid. They get your signals perfectly well—the problem is they are not interested.
When someone likes them but they don’t like that person back, they will act like they are clueless, and you might interpret that as playing hard to get, but sadly, they are just not that into you.
If an Aquarius man isn’t interested, he’ll stop engaging with you on an intellectual level. Normally, this sign thrives on deep, stimulating conversations, but when his interest fades, his responses might become vague or dismissive. He may also seem distracted or aloof, avoiding opportunities to spend one-on-one time with you.
Additionally, Aquarius men love to share their quirky interests and visions for the future with those they care about. If he’s not including you in these conversations or brushing off your attempts to connect, it’s a sure sign his attention is elsewhere. His detached behavior may feel confusing, but it’s simply his way of signaling disinterest without confrontation.
12. Pisces
Pisces can’t hide if they are in love. As one of the most sensible and sensitive signs of the zodiac, Pisces falls in love at the speed of light, and they want to do something about it as soon as possible.
If they are not showering you with love and attention, they are not that into you because the end of a night out with a Pisces who’s into you always end up in a kiss and not in a handshake.
When a Pisces man isn’t interested, his dreamy, romantic energy fades away. He’ll stop showering you with affection and might become passive or unresponsive in your interactions. A disinterested Pisces will often avoid emotional conversations altogether, making you feel like you’re talking to a wall instead of the warm, empathetic partner he can be when in love.
Furthermore, Pisces men tend to daydream about their ideal partner, and when they’re not invested, they’ll avoid planning anything meaningful with you. If he’s suddenly distant, uninterested in connecting emotionally, or consistently unavailable, it’s a strong signal that his feelings have cooled. His retreat into his own world is his way of gently pulling away.
