Let’s be honest. We’ve all been in a situation where we wanted him to miss us like crazy even though that wasn’t the exact scenario. I know I’ve been there, but over time, I mastered irresistible ways to make him shower me with attention.
Maybe you want your crush to miss you more, or even your fiancé. Some of you might even desire your ex to yearn for you again (though I wouldn’t suggest this, but who am I to judge).
I’ve shared all my tips with my friends who couldn’t believe the magic behind them, so I’ll reveal them to you as well!
1. Don’t be available 24/7
Sometimes it’s hard to resist the urge to answer immediately to that text or call when you really like him. That is why you have to keep in mind that he can’t miss you if you don’t give him time to miss you. Simple as that.
2. Enjoy your life without him
There is just something about men that when they see you living your best life, they suddenly want to be a part of it. It’s almost like they are jealous that you can enjoy things and be fulfilled without them. After all, who wouldn’t want to engage in fun activities?
3. Be subtle about yourself
If you reveal every single detail about yourself, your job, hobbies, and interests at once, he won’t have anything interesting to learn about you later. Be mysterious a bit and leave him wanting to find out more about you.
He will want to see you again quicker than you think!
4. Keep your cool when talking to him
Try to stay calm during conversations and don’t complain or criticize too much. Sometimes men just want to get a reaction out of you. Usually, when he doesn’t get what he wants, he will crave your attention.
Be careful with this tip, because there is a thin line between being chill and looking completely uninterested.
5. Show him your fun side
You wouldn’t like it if he was always serious and boring to be around, so show him you can be funny, spontaneous, and playful. Don’t be afraid to be flirty in your interactions, unless you want him to completely forget about you!
6. Express love and appreciation
Let me whisper a secret to you. Although men wouldn’t admit it, they love to be the center of attention and enjoy being pampered!
Prepare a special meal and surprise him. It’s no joke when they say, “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” Don’t worry if cooking is not your passion, just be supportive and nurturing and he will always come back for more!
7. Tell him the obvious – you miss him
The mistake many women make is being too cold and distant because they think this will make them look more attractive. The truth is that acting in such a way can just push him further away from you.
Be direct and clear when it comes to your needs, remind him of the fun moments you spent together and this will surely make him think more about you.
8. Go slowly and enjoy the journey
If you really want him to miss you, don’t give your all at once. Try to relax and control how you act, always leave him wanting more. If he gets all he wants too quickly he might get bored quickly too! Enjoy your journey together and go step by step.
9. Be playful and tease him when possible
This might make him crazy about you so don’t say I didn’t warn you! Being playful will make your confidence shine and create an instant connection.
I can assure you that it will be something that he won’t be able to get off his mind so easily. Plus, he will miss you whenever he thinks about it!
10. Make sure to be yourself
Always try to be yourself and don’t hide your personality when you are around him. He will miss your uniqueness and things specific to you that he likes. Men can sense fakeness and that will only make you less attractive.
11. Let him take the lead
Although you don’t want to seem uninterested, you should let him take the initiative. If you are always the one who makes the first move, calls and texts him, you will end up being too pushy. By doing so, you don’t even give him the chance to think about you and miss you.
12. Create the best and fun times when you are together
We have all found ourselves smiling when thinking about that one special moment we had with someone. Think about this when you plan your time together and try to make unforgettable memories. This will surely make him want to repeat those dates!
13. Make him something special
Gift him something that he won’t be able to look at and not think of you. It’s even better if you can make it yourself to show off your effort.
Everything comes down to this – ensure he has something to think about to keep you in his mind. Don’t go overboard with attention so you look miserable without him, but also be careful not to come across as uninterested. Keeping balance is important!