You deserve to be chased. You deserve to be loved.
You deserve to be taken care of. You deserve to be respected. And you deserve all that to happen naturally.
Without the need to beg someone to love you.
Without chasing people to spend time with you.
Without making them believe that you are their best friend.
Because if they don’t see how special and unique you are, it is their own fault.
They are obviously blind to see what kind of masterpiece they have in their lives. And if they are stupid enough to walk away, you should be clever enough to let them go.
By chasing them you will lose yourself.
And that is something you can’t allow to happen. So, stop wasting your precious time on people that don’t deserve you.
You are worthy and you are more than enough. And if they don’t see it, it is their own problem.
But whatever you do, please don’t chase the ones that don’t want to be chased.
Because when you finally catch them, they will pretend that they know you. They will make up a thousand reasons for not spending time with you.
And your heart will fall apart into a million pieces.
You will be down because for the first time in your life, someone didn’t want you. And they should. Because you didn’t give them a good enough reason good enough to act like that.
In those moments, you will probably ask God why He is doing all this to you but remember that a teacher is always quiet during the test.
This is just one more test for you—to show you how strong and independent you are. And from every battle like this, you will come out a winner—one with a lot of wounds on her body but still standing on her feet.
And nobody will be able to take your experience away from you. So, next time someone turns his back on you, don’t chase them.
You know why?
Because those people don’t deserve to be chased.
YOU are the one who deserves to be chased. Every day. Every hour. Every minute.
Because you are more than enough. And never let anyone convince you of the opposite.
You deserve someone whose only job will be to make you happy.
You deserve a man who will give you all of his attention.
You deserve the one who won’t provide you with just an almost relationship.
You deserve a man who will want all or nothing at all. You deserve to be loved in a way you thought you would never feel.
You deserve someone who will give you butterflies in your stomach every time you see him.
You deserve a man who will be madly, deeply and without limitations in love with you.
So, don’t settle for less than you deserve and don’t accept just a piece of the cake. Because you deserve it all.
In all this mess called life, you need to realize that you are not replaceable.
You are unique just the way you are and for that, you should be cherished. So, be with someone whose love feels like home.
Give your heart only to a man who will know how to cherish it. Choose a man willing to accept you with all your pros and cons but who will still love you like he has never loved before.
And when you meet a man like that, give him all your love. Don’t be afraid because even if you fall down, he will be there to catch you.
And when life gets tough, when people let you down and when you are not able to see the light around you, don’t freak out—just say to yourself calmly: “I don’t need your light you motherfucker; I will find my way even in the darkness!”