The most important question for all women is how to make guys happy.
What do they want from us and how can we provide it? I wish we could enter guys’ heads and see what they are thinking about, what they feel like in certain moment and the most important, what do they expect from their woman.
Since the list is very long, I will mention the most important things that every guy is looking for in his soulmate.
So, let’s begin!
1. Feed us.
The old saying “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” is 100% accurate.
A guy can fall in love with your beauty and charm but frankly speaking, your cooking will keep him around A woman who can cook is a real treasure for a guy.
He can eat sandwiches for a week but if that’s only food you are giving him, he will find something better soon. That is their basic need and it is so natural. Guys are like kids, and it means that they always look for someone to take care of them, especially regarding food.
So, girls, if you want to keep your guy, you will have to work hard in the kitchen. A full-fed man is always a happy man!
See also: 7 Things Girls Wish Guys Knew
2. Listen to us.
When a man gets married, he also gets a friend for his whole life. It would be nice if his wife can be like his best friend, to be there when he needs her, to listen to his problems and help him to solve them.
Let’s be honest, they are not asking too much. So, if you want to make your guy happy, just listen to him and behave like a true friend.
We all have stressful days at work so it is sometimes better not to talk at all than to say some ugly stuff that you will regret later.
Trust me, your man will be so satisfied and he will find a way to repay!
3. Look like who you were before we got here.
This is something that we can talk about for ages—women’s transformations. It is true that some women stop taking care of themselves when they get married.
Maybe it is because they have kids or they are staying at home every day. And from women’s perspectives, this is just fine but guys have totally the opposite view on this.
When you were dating, your girl was such a hot chick wearing high heels, skinny jeans and short tops. And what do you get now? A woman with greasy hair, wearing PJ’S all day long, without any makeup on her face. Come on, even you would want to run from her.
I don’t say women should look like top models 24/7 but some nice clothes and a little bit of makeup can make a huge difference.
Watch out girls, men are visual human beings and if they don’t like what they see, they will look for better!
4. Some sex.
Guys like sex. Period. “Sometimes, after a hard day, we don’t want to discuss life, or think about responsibilities. We just want a steak and some sex.” That’s all!
A woman who can give everything that her guy wants is a treasure and he will be crazy for her. All in all, guys are not so bad. They are very simple and practical.
Give me some food, give me sex afterwards and take care of the kids when I am not there.
What else could you wish for?
5. Have fun together.
Partners should have some things in common so their relationships can last. I don’t want to say that you need to be together all the time and do stuff together but going to movies here and there or spending a day together can bring your relationship to a whole new level.
You also need to have some time for your friends because nobody likes being choked by their partner all the time. Try to find some balance.
It is very simple if you know what you want. Also, when you enter a new relationship, there is no space to think about the previous one or compare your partner with your ex.
Remember the past, be excited about the future, but have fun right now.