So, there’s this guy who’s been giving you a lot of attention but you simply can’t seem to figure out if he’s truly into you or if he’s just messing around with you. Understandable, of course.
You might have been hurt a couple of times in the past and before you start a serious relationship with him, you really want to be sure that he’s the one who’s going to make you happy.
You can’t settle for manipulators anymore and you really want someone who’s going to appreciate and respect you.
But men are very complicated with their ways of showing us their affection and that’s why we need to be careful about the things they do for us.
Although there are a few signs he has strong feelings for you and that he loves you and because of that he’ll do some amazing things for you that someone else wouldn’t.
He fights together with you
Is there anything more special than a man who is willing to fight with you against anything that life sets up for you both? He’s there to help you study.
He’s there for you when you’re sick and doesn’t leave your side until you’re feeling better.
If he didn’t have strong feelings for you then he probably wouldn’t bother investing time and energy in being there for you and to make you feel better or succeed.
He remembers the small things
He remembers everything! He knew your birthday after you told him just once and he remembers all the little details about your childhood. What does this mean? It means he listens.
If he didn’t care about you, do you really think he’d put it an extra amount of effort just to remember all these things?
No. But because he really does have strong feelings for you, he’s willing to remember even the smallest details.
He’s nice toward your family and friends
He knows how important your family and friends are to you, so he does everything needed to be nice toward them and to make them happy. A man like this is worth keeping.
He’s vulnerable
A man who really cares about the woman he’s with will show her his vulnerable side. It’ll be hard to do but he’ll ready to show you every side of him.
He knows that you won’t be able to get to know him fully until he shows you every part of him.
That’s why he’s ready to talk to you about his childhood abuse or the pet that died and he never got another one because he’s afraid to lose one again.
He respects your boundaries
With a man who has strong feelings for you, ‘No’ means ‘No’. He won’t beg you to sleep with him unless you’re really ready for it.
He won’t rush into things or make you do something that you’re not ready to do.
It means that he respects you and your boundaries. He will never cross them and he will never make you do something that is out of your comfort zone. He knows better.
He changes
OK, first of all, you shouldn’t expect him to change. If you don’t like him the way he is, then he’s not the right one for you.
But if he sees that you’re bothered by something he does but he does want you around, he’ll change it for you.
This is a big one, because we all know how stubborn men can be!
He will let you speak your mind freely
When we start a new relationship, our partner might bring us down by saying that our opinion doesn’t matter but not if the man is truly in love with you.
Even if he doesn’t agree with you, he will let you speak your mind freely and he will respect your opinion.
