Men secretly really want confident women who know what they want. And usually, when you like someone, you suddenly become so clumsy and nervous. It’s like you’ve forgotten everything you have learned so far.

It’s not a problem to be confident around someone you are not interested in. but when we are talking about someone you like, you turn into a complete idiot. Well, not all of us, but some. surely do.

How to overcome that problem? Is there some kind of .magic that helps you be your old self around someone you like? Of course there is, just follow these steps and you’re never going to be shy and unorganized around a guy you like. Remember, confidence is extremely sexy!

1. Be yourself

This is the most important step in seducing a man with confidence. You can never act as well at being someone else than being just your natural self. If you’re pretending to be someone else to impress a guy you like, you’re doing it for all the wrong reasons. Even if you impress him, the person he is enchanted with is not you and you won’t be able to act like that for too long. So even if it works and you hit it off, it won’t last. Be yourself because it’s the most confident thing you could do.

2. Dress how you feel

You can wear a sexy dress that will make his jaw drop like in cartoons. but if you don’t feel sexy and good in it, you’ll have no use for it. That’s why you should wear something that makes you feel good about yourself. Dress according to your current mood. If you feel like a million dollars, you’ll look like a million dollars and your confidence will just pop up!

3. Live healthily

If you maintain a healthy lifestyle, you’ll feel and look healthy. Exercise more because it’s scientifically proven that when you exercise, your body releases endorphins which make you happy and have a positive outlook on life. Once again, if you feel great, you’ll look great and the rest will follow..

4. Start a conversation

When you are around someone you’re attracted to, don’t just sit there and be quiet. Start up a conversation and engage him. Ask him questions and let him speak and really listen. This will make you look profound and smart and not to mention confident. Also, you’ll learn a lot about him if you really pay attention to what he’s saying.

5. Spend more time around men

Look at this as practice. Try to surround yourself more with men so you can gradually learn how to act in their presence, so that when you’re around someone you like, you’ll be more experienced in how to act around him. When you go on a date with him, you won’t feel awkward and you’ll have a lot to talk about to him since you’ll be a pro in male communication by then if you follow this advice.

6. Remind yourself how great you are

Make a list of all the good things about you and that will boost .your ego and get your confidence even higher. Make a list of your personality traits you like the most and it will make you feel good about yourself. So, when you’re out on a date with a man you really like, just remember those things and know that you have nothing to be ashamed of.

7. Learn how to act when you’re outside of your comfort zone

You can’t control the situation you’re in all the time. Sometimes, you’re going to be faced with something you have no control over. You have to be ready for these situations and you have to learn to deal with them. Don’t let anything throw you off your game because you’re smart enough to find your way through whatever life throws at you.

8. Don’t criticize yourself

Get rid of that little voice of doubt in your head that keeps making you uncertain of yourself and your abilities. You are good enough and you deserve all the nice things and feelings you’re experiencing. Stop putting yourself down and believe in yourself because that is the most important thing for your confidence. If you don’t believe you’re great, no one will.