According to dating coaches, all players are chronic commitment-phobes. They run away from obligations and never make future plans.
A player will probably tell you that he is emotionally unavailable, that he’s been hurt in the past, that he’s had his share of toxic relationships, and that he is just overly careful because he’s afraid of getting his heart broken.
Every time you notice that he isn’t fully devoted to your relationship and every time you see he hasn’t let you all the way in, he will tell you that he is scared of how much he likes you and that is why he’s backing out.
Instead of running for the hills, every time you hear this lame excuse, deep down, you are even flattered.
After all, you’re the one who is about to tear down his walls and the only woman who has the chance of getting his heart.
Well, let me tell you something: by doing this, you’re giving him a green light to continue with this shitty behavior.
You’re wasting years trapped in a toxic relationship, on a man who doesn’t want to plan a future with you, on a man who doesn’t put any effort into your relationship, and on a man who might well disappear from your life tomorrow without giving you any explanation.
No, he is not a lost little boy who needs your guidance and who spent his entire life waiting for you to show him what true love is.
He is not emotionally broken or traumatized. He is an asshole who is playing with you, so memorize this valuable relationship advice!