Do you sometimes feel like you’re surrounded by superficial people? Does it feel like every single person you meet is just too judgemental, selfish, and empty? Like shallowness and superficiality are taking over the world? Trust me, I feel you completely. And I think there are so many of us who share the same opinion….
All victims of emotional abuse will tell you that there is nothing worse than when a narcissist goes quiet. Ironically, most of them testify that they prefer the temper tantrums and fighting over stonewalling. Well, everyone with a narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is very well aware of this and knows that giving someone the silent…
Do you sometimes feel scared of giving your heart to someone again? Does that bare thought of falling in love again scare the hell out of you? You’re probably afraid of getting hurt once again, right? You just collected all the broken pieces of your heart and glued them back together, and now, you feel…
My whole life, I was never the kind of person to fear change or shy away from a challenge. I welcomed every new opportunity to step outside of my comfort zone and was never afraid to lose something along the way. And even if I did, I was certain something better was waiting right around…
No matter what they try to make you think, narcissists are not capable of loving anyone but themselves. Their definition of love is toxic, unhealthy and dangerous and it has nothing to do with what love should really look like. You’ve heard your narcissistic boyfriend tell you how much he loves you a million times,…
“Nobody can hurt me without my permission!” Mahatma Gandhi It would be so nice if something like this was possible, right? No matter how many times you say to yourself that nobody can hurt you without your permission, it often happens that you get hurt without even knowing it. Maybe the people you thought would…
“You always blow up over nothing”, I remember my ex-partner yelling at me as we were having yet another argument over him not doing his share of the work. “I don’t understand what the big deal is, you’re the one who wanted to live in this stupid, overpriced apartment anyway,” he said pointedly as if…
When you are engaged in a relationship with a narcissist, you can feel that you are losing yourself bit by bit. You feel like you are not the same person anymore and that the person you are madly in love with feels nothing except ignorance for you. All you want is to love him and…
How many times have I wanted you to shut up. How many time have I wanted to scream at you to stop brainwashing me with your disgusting hurtful words. I never could. I just stood there in front of you, frozen, unable to move a muscle, unable to speak to defend myself. That is what…
On the contrary to physical abuse, emotional abuse is not that easy to recognize. Some people spend years living with an emotionally abusive partner , not having a clue about it. How is that even possible? It’s because most emotional abusers are attentive and kind at the beginning of a relationship. They blind you with…