4 sorprendentes razones por las que pensar demasiado es tu arma más poderosa

In most cases, you’ll hear that your overthinking is, to put it lightly, bad for you. It is a burden you can’t get rid of and something you can’t seem to control, no matter how hard you try.
I know because I am an overthinker myself. I am a girl who can’t relax and who constantly worries about every little thing.

However, instead of seeing my overthinking as my flaw, I’ve decided to accept it as a part of who I am. I’ve decided to start looking at it as one of my advantages over the rest of the world, and I advise you to do the same.

1. Amas demasiado

No estoy seguro de si ésta es su mayor debilidad o sus armas más fuertes, pero lo cierto es que los que sobrepensar también sobreamar. Aunque tu capacidad de preocuparte por los demás y de ponerlos siempre en primer lugar te trajo mucho dolor en el pasado y aunque esto es algo que probablemente te gustaría cambiar de ti mismo, la verdad es que en realidad es una bendición con la que no muchos están dotados.

Lo que te hace destacar es el hecho de que cuando amas a alguien, lo haces todo, y nunca entras en una relación sólo con una parte de tu corazón. En cambio, tu amor por tus seres queridos es siempre incondicional y no negociable, pase lo que pase. Y eso es exactamente lo que te hace tan especial.

2. Lees a través de la gente fácilmente

Una de las primeras razones por las que pensando demasiado is actually great for you is the fact that you don’t get deceived as easily as other people. Being overly careful and having trust issues may bring you a lot of trouble, but it also saves you from many wrong choices, and it helps you keep toxic people out of your life.

When you have a habit of overanalyzing everyone around you and dissecting every single word they say and move they make, it is quite unlikely for you to miss seeing when someone doesn’t mean you well. You don’t let your guard down for just anyone, and this helps you sense whether someone is right or wrong for you.

Además, eres un empático que tiene la capacidad de sentir lo que sienten las personas que te rodean. Siempre puedes saber si la persona que te importa está pasando por una mala racha, y ves cuando algo le molesta, sin que tenga que confesarte nada y a veces incluso antes de que se dé cuenta por sí misma.

3. Rara vez juzga mal

Si tienes las características de un pensador empedernido, eres alguien que medita a fondo cada decisión antes de tomarla. Aunque algunos te tachen de indeciso por esta cualidad, lo cierto es que eres lo suficientemente sabio como para no dejar que algunas malas decisiones te arruinen la vida.

Todo esto te ayuda en todas tus decisiones y juicios. Gracias a tu pensamiento exagerado, siempre tienes en mente el mejor y el peor escenario posible de cada situación, así como todos los riesgos potenciales asociados a ella.

Yes, there are situations in which your lack of spontaneity burdens you, but there are also cases when it saves you from a lot of trouble. So, I guess that not going with the flow isn’t as bad as it might seem, is it?

4. Eres de fiar

Cuando eres un overthinker, people can’t help but notice that you are always the one who stands with her feet firmly on the ground and the one whose head is never up in the clouds. Therefore, it is of no surprise that you are usually the first person everyone comes to in order to get some advice or help with their problems.

Your qualities make you an extremely reliable person. Simply, people around you believe that you’ll always tell them how things really are, even if the harsh truth is the last thing they want to hear. You are the one who will always direct them toward the right path and the one who will dedicate her time and energy to their troubles, as if they were your own.

Being someone who analyzes people, you are a person who observes everyone as the unique individuals they are. You have the ability of walking in other people’s shoes which helps you understand them more than anyone else. Consequently, this makes you a person everyone can always count on if they want an honest opinion and advice about what is best for them.