5 cosas que más temen los narcisistas
Narcissistic people love to show off and to act like they’re scared of nothing, but that is far from the truth. Narcissists are actually big babies when things get turned around on them.
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Today we bring you 5 things that will rock every narcissist’s world.
1. Rechazo y abandono
When a narcissist feels rejected, he will get mad – pardon, he will rage. He will do anything in his power to make threats to you and make you feel bad. When you reject him, this means you rejected everything he wants you to see and believe he is, and it makes him question his own existence and everything he stands for.
Also, leaving him is out of the question and he will do everything he can to make you stay. He is too afraid to confront his own emptiness and that’s why he needs you actually. He will fight tooth and nail to avoid it, even if it means he has to destroy you in the process.
2. Ser ignorado
Ignorarlo es literalmente una de las peores cosas que puedes hacerle a un narcisista. Se alimenta de atención y, sin ella, pierde su combustible narcisista y muere lentamente.
Si se siente ignorado, te dará razones para odiarle; al menos así reconocerás su existencia y una atención negativa sigue siendo mejor que ninguna atención.
3. Crítica
Criticar a todos los que les rodean es básicamente su trabajo, pero odian que les critiquen. Inconscientemente han creado un mecanismo de defensa contra todo lo que les haga sentirse imperfectos o etiquetados como los demás.
They lose rationality and common sense when their weaknesses and vulnerability are exposed – it truly terrifies them.
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4. Ser objeto de burlas
A narcissist is completely incapable of ever laughing at himself. Why? Because he has no sense of humor but you can be sure that he’ll laugh at you when you fall and break your arm or chuckle at someone else’s discomfort.
You wouldn’t believe it, but narcissists are very sensitive.
The only problem is that their sensitivity doesn’t extend toward anyone else but themselves. As he is constantly trying to present himself in the best light, poking at his facade or even worse, at his true self, will confront him with that terrifying emptiness that constantly haunts him.
5. Falta de respeto
Let’s be honest, all of the things mentioned above can be acceptable to a normal person, but being disrespected is something we’re all afraid of. Of course, a narcissist will take this to another level.
This fear hunts a narcissist all the time and just thinking about it gives him imaginary personal attacks even when they don’t exist.
Una vez más, deja al descubierto su verdadero rostro, el que intenta ocultar constantemente.
Faltarle el respeto a un narcisista dispara todos los mecanismos de defensa que es capaz de tener y utiliza la rabia, la mentira, la proyección, la negación y el falso afecto sólo para mantener esa fachada y evitar ese horror de reconocer que han perdido su verdadero rostro.
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