Cómo invitar a un chico a salir: 8 consejos (+50 ejemplos)

Aunque creo firmemente que las mujeres son el sexo más valiente, la verdad es que a la mayoría de nosotros nos sigue aterrorizando dar el primer paso when we like someone. Even if we gather the courage to do so, we still don’t know cómo invitar a un chico a salir.

We’re afraid that we might sound desperate or that our invitation may scare and drive him away.

Así que decidimos no hacer nada o quedarnos quietos y esperar a que la otra persona dé el primer paso.que es, por cierto, lo peor que podemos hacer.

The good news is that you don’t need a dating coach or relationship coaching service to help you out because, with just a few good tips, you’ll be ready to ask your guy friend or the guy you met on a dating app out. Of course, these tips are provided for you right here below.

Cómo invitar a un chico a salir: 8 consejos

Inviting a guy you’ve been crushing on forever on a first date is a big deal for you, especially if it’s the first time you’re making the first move with a man. Frankly, it’s always a huge deal for us all.

That’s why I’ve left you this tiny guide here, so you do it perfectly and get a positive reaction/answer from the other person.

1. Hazlo cuando te sientas preparado

Just because you like him and want to go out on a date with him doesn’t mean you must invite him out ASAP. You need to take that step when you feel completely ready for it.

Primero tienes que reunir fuerzas y ser sincero contigo mismo. Acepta que puede acabar de varias maneras y que puede que no te guste la respuesta que obtengas de la otra persona.

2. Don’t make it a romantic date right away

If you immediately say that you’re inviting him on a romantic date, it may make you sound a bit desperate, which could make him run away. You need to simply ask him to hang out without being too obvious about the romantic feelings you’ve caught for him.

However, you shouldn’t emphasize that it’ll only be a friendly date because he might use you as su copiloto en esa fecha. That will hurt you for sure, and that’s why you need to be careful about the way you invite him out. Of course, this is only if you like him romantically.

3. Pregunte por sus intereses

If you have any mutual friends, you should ask around about your crush’s whereabouts and hangouts. Intenta averiguar cuáles son sus intereses y qué le gusta hacer en su tiempo libre.

That’s how you’ll be able to invite him on a date he won’t be able to reject. Por ejemplo, si le gusta el baloncesto o la música en directo, puedes seguir la pista de su artista, grupo o equipo de baloncesto favorito y comprarle dos entradas para el partido o el evento.

Then you simply tell him you have a spare ticket for that game or event and ask him to join you. He’ll be delighted and won’t have any other choice but to accept your offer.

4. Incluir una hora específica

Debe concretar su invitación con una hora específica por dos razones.

First of all, it would be easier for him to answer immediately because he can check his plans for that day/time. And more importantly, you won’t make yourself too available or flexible, which is highly important when it comes to dating.

You should never make it too obvious to a man that you’re always there for him or that he can have you whenever he wants. That is a huge turnoff for almost every man, and it definitely won’t lead you anywhere but to a broken heart.

5. Puedes mencionar que tus amigos comunes también están invitados

If you think he may reject your invitation because he’s too shy to be alone with you still, you can also invite some of your mutual friends and mention to him that they’re invited too.

That way, you’ll get him to accept your offer even if he isn’t into you, and you’ll get a chance to win him over at that hangout. The more hangouts you can get him to come to, the closer you’ll be to your final goal: to win him over once and for all.

6. Hágalo en persona

Why not? Sure, it’s a lot easier to do it over text, but doing it in person will show your man that you’re brave enough to do it face-to-face even though you may be rejected, and it’ll also show him that you really care about him.

The fact is, we all don’t handle rejection very well, but forget about this tip if you’re an emotionally unstable or chica tímida. Puede que empieces a llorar después de que te rechace, y tus lágrimas son, con diferencia, lo último que necesitas mostrarle a un hombre que te rechaza.

7. Presionarle y chantajearle emocionalmente son un gran NO

Tu única tarea es invitarle a salir de forma normal y educada. Don’t pressure him into immediately answering you because, trust me, it won’t end well.

Also, don’t ever say things like “it’ll break my heart if you don’t accept my invitation” or “please say yes because otherwise, you’ll make me sad!” This is emotional blackmail, and it’s one of the things men hate the most.

8. Don’t despair if he doesn’t agree immediately

Your man may immediately accept your invitation, but he may also reject it or leave you waiting for an answer. You need to be prepared that the last two options are also on the table for as long as he doesn’t give you a real answer.

If you get one of them, you shouldn’t despair because it doesn’t have to mean that your story ends there. Maybe he’ll reach out to you after a while and accept your invitation after all.

Even if that doesn’t happen, it still doesn’t mean that the world has ended. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, and one of them will be more than happy to go out on a date with you.

¿Cómo invitar a un chico a salir por SMS? 50 ejemplos

For all of you who always choose the practical over theory, I’ve compiled this list of the best text examples to ask a guy out. With these texts and the tips above, you most definitely won’t sound desperate, and your crush will have no choice but to accept your invitation.

1. I’m going to the mall. Wanna come with me?

2. I was going to go to the art exhibit that’s in town right now. Wanna come with me?

3. ¿Quieres ir a patinar sobre hielo el viernes después de clase? ¡He oído que la pista de patinaje del centro es increíble!

4. ¿Qué días sueles tener libres? ¿Quieres quedar algún día?

5. ¿Quieres ir a tomar un café algún día?

6. ¿Quieres quedar para estudiar en la biblioteca después del trabajo?

7. Deberíamos reunirnos alguna vez.

8. ¿Quieres venir a mi casa después del trabajo?

9. ¿Qué vas a hacer esta noche? ¿Quieres ir a tomar una cerveza?

10. ¿Te gustaría venir a la bolera conmigo este sábado?

11. I’m going to go see (some band) when they come to town in three weeks. Live music is always fun, and tickets are cheap. Want to come with me?

12. ¿Quieres dar un paseo en bici por el río después del trabajo?

13. Amigo, tenemos que salir algún día.

14. It’s so nice outside I’ve decided to go for a walk. Want to join me?

15. Voy a esquiar con mis amigos este fin de semana. ¿Quieres venir con nosotros? Nos sobra un asiento.

16. Deberíamos reunirnos fuera de clase/trabajo pronto.

17. My phone’s been acting weird all day. I gotta go to the mall to see if they can fix it. Want to keep me company?

18. ¿Qué vas a hacer este domingo por la mañana? ¿Quieres que hagamos ejercicio juntos?

19. I haven’t been to the movies in forever! Let’s go someday.

20. This is pretty last minute, but I’m in your area tonight with some of my friends. Would you care to grab some drinks with us?

21. ¿Quieres venir a hacer un picnic y una hoguera en la playa? He invitado a unas cuantas personas, ¡así que será divertido!

22. ¿Quieres cenar algo este viernes?

23. Quería invitarte a cenar. ¿Qué te parece esta noche?

24. ¿Quieres venir a jugar a videojuegos? Algunos de mis amigos también se unirán a nosotros, así que será muy divertido.

25. ¿Qué vas a hacer este fin de semana? ¿Tienes planes? Estaba pensando en ir al estreno de esa nueva película, ¿te gustaría venir conmigo?

26. Am I horrible if I say my desk is the most boring place in the world? I’m going for a coffee break in about 15 minutes. You should come along.

27. ¿Quieres ir a la playa este fin de semana?

28. There’s a concert next Monday at 7. Do you want to come with me?

29. ¿Quieres ir a tomar un helado? Hay un sitio nuevo cerca del colegio que quiero probar.

30. So, tell me: how does dinner at my place sound? FYI, I’m a good cook.

31. Oye, ¿quieres ir a ese nuevo restaurante conmigo el viernes?

32. ¿Quieres quedar para almorzar el domingo?

33. ¿Quieres unirte a Ashley y a mí para tomar un par de copas después del trabajo?

34. Since it appears you may not be asking me out anytime soon, can I ask you out instead? (Only for the bravest women among you 😁)

35. Hey, I’ve got this work party I have to go to, do you wanna be my wingman for it?

36. ¿Qué vas a hacer este fin de semana? ¿Quieres ir de excursión?

37. Hey, I’m having some friends over to watch the Olympics this weekend. Feel free to join us!

38. Este viernes voy a hacer surf. ¿Quieres venir?

39. This calls for drinks! Let’s meet up somewhere Friday night to celebrate.

40. There’s a free yoga class at the park this Saturday that I’m going to. You should come with me!

41. ¿Quieres venir un rato y ayudarme a estudiar?

42. ¡Eh! Un grupo de nosotros vamos a tomar unas pizzas y unas copas este viernes por la noche. ¿Quieres venir?

43. We’ve been having some good weather lately. Good enough for a picnic. Want to meet up in the park on Sunday?

44. I’m going to the park with my new puppy, want to join me?

45. I’d kill for a coffee right now. Do you want to hit that new coffee shop with me?

46. I’m having a party on Saturday. Do you want to come?

47. Oh, by the way, I’m going to the museum in the city this weekend. Feel free to join.

48. Voy a hacer una barbacoa este fin de semana. ¿Quieres venir?

49. Hey, feel free to say no, but I’m going to an ‘80s night at this bar tonight if you wanna join!

50. ¿Quieres quedar para comer pizza y jugar?

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Al final

Now you know how to ask a guy to hang out, and you’re also equipped with the best text examples to do so. Gather the courage and finally make the first move.

Trust me, you’ll regret it if you don’t. Even if you get rejected, it may hurt in the beginning, but later on, you’ll realize that you’ve done the right thing by inviting them out. At least you know it’s not up to you.

Otherwise, if you don’t invite him out, you’ll stay curious forever about what could have happened if you were only brave enough to ask him out.

Good luck, even though I’m pretty sure you don’t even need it because you’ll sweep your man off his feet instantly. He’ll fall for your bravery and the fact you had the guts to make the first move. However, I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you. 🤞