Cómo llamar la atención de una chica y hacer que te desee ENORMEMENTE

In every single guy’s life, there are two important questions to be answered:

1. How to get a girl’s attention?
2. ¿Dónde está mi cerveza?

Mientras que la última pregunta es relativamente fácil de responder (y de conseguir), la primera es la difícil, y suele ir seguida de estas dos preguntas: Cómo seducir a una chica? Cómo seducir a la chica que quieras?

Too many how to’s and not a single answer. Do you know what? I think it’s high time we change that!

My fellow friend, I daresay that you’re in luck because if there’s anyone in the world who can teach you how to get a girl’s attention, it is a woman, or should I say – myself.

I suppose I have already captured your attention with the second question where I mentioned (almost) every guy’s Holy Liquid known as beer. (Don’t get me wrong, I’m a female and I enjoy beer just as any other Holy Liquid lover.)

So, I think we shall get along pretty well. If you wanted to get my attention, a pint of beer would (probably) do the job, BUT (“prepare for disappointment”), this doesn’t work on every girl out there (or should I say on the girl you like).

Por eso, amigo mío, tienes que intensificar tu juego y aprender lo que una chica quiere de ti y cómo puedes haz que te desee mal en persona, en Instagram, en Snapchat ¡y a través de mensajes de texto!

And, don’t worry… in case you fail at mastering the art of capturing her attention and conseguir noviaRecuerda que siempre tienes una cerveza. (Lo sé, debería dejar de intentar ser tan humorística y reconfortante).

How To Get A Girl’s Attention (And Keep It)

Impresiónala con tu estilo

If anyone ever said to you that girls don’t care much about your looks, outfits, and similar, I feel obliged to tell you that this is a BIG lie!

Pregúntate qué es lo primero que notas en una chica. ¿Su sonrisa, su atuendo y otros detalles captan tu atención?

Pues lo mismo se te puede aplicar a ti. So, if you want to get a girl’s attention, you need to make a good first impression! (I’m so excited about this sentence because it even rhymes!).

Get yourself a cool jacket, along with t-shirts and jeans. Spice your outfit up with a powerful watch, scarf, or ring (my, my… Johnny Depp surely knows how to rock those rings!).

En otras palabras: Don’t just wear the first thing that comes to your mind, but rock your own style!

This doesn’t mean that you need to follow the latest fashion, but at least make an effort to find some interesting accessories and pieces of clothing to impress the girl you like!

Haz que tu vida sea interesante y emocionante

¿Cuál es su mayor pasión en la vida? ¿Tienes alguna afición interesante? Si respondes que ver el fútbol, beber cerveza y jugar a videojuegos, entonces hay que cambiar algo cuanto antes.

Truth be told, I have nothing against any of it. I like beer, I like video games, and I tolerate football. But, do you think that this is interesting and exciting enough and that it will surely capture her attention? And… I thought so.

Si sabes tocar algún instrumento (preferiblemente la guitarra), la mitad de tu trabajo de captación de atención está hecho.

Y, si sabes cómo llevar tu propio estilo, ¡te juro que ya puedo ver a la chica enamorándose de ti a la velocidad del rayo!

Todas las chicas saben que los hombres apasionados son los mejores compañeros, así que si quieres conseguir novia en un tiempo récord, esfuérzate por adquirir nuevas perspectivas y aprender cosas nuevas. Disfruta de la vida y la harás lo bastante atractiva como para que ella quiera unirse a ti.

Encuentre su aroma característico (o simplemente huela bien)

Girls love scents! If you want to get that one girl’s attention, then you will need to find your signature scent.

Find a perfume that perfectly describes your personality and lifestyle. I think that won’t be a challenging task given that the media is doing a great job describing every single perfume and the message behind it to us.

The reason why you need to do this is to implement the scent into the girl’s mind so whenever she smells something close to your scent, it will instantly remind her of you.

However, if you’re not really sure which perfume suits you best (or if you don’t have your favorite one and you know you never will), then just smell nice.

Any scent is better than no scent. I’m sure the character from the movie Perfume: la historia de un asesino estaría de acuerdo conmigo en esto.

Haga sentir su presencia

When you walk into the room, do you have a feeling that you’re invisible and other people don’t notice you and don’t even try to do so? Perhaps there’s a valid reason behind this.

If you’re having difficulties making your presence known and felt, this will reflect on how others perceive you as well.

If you don’t let others know that you’re being there at that moment, you will not get their attention.

Peor aún, ¡no llamarás su atención! Si quieres que se fije en ti, habla con dignidad y confianza, camina con seguridad como un jefe y piensa como tal.

Show to the world that you know how to get any girl’s attention effortlessly and naturally. Until you become a master of this game, fake it till you make it!

Jugar a la psicología inversa

They say that men fall in love with a woman’s absence, and not her presence. I’m sure the same thing can be applied to women as well.

I assume you already know what I’m talking about. Yes, I’m talking about the art of jugando duro.

Llénala de cumplidos, sé todo un caballero, escucha con atención cada una de sus palabras, envíale mensajes de texto con frecuencia, y luego, sólo por un momento, un día (o unos cuantos), deja de hacer todo eso.

¿Sabes lo que pasa entonces?

She will start asking herself what she has done wrong, she will feel like she lost something she didn’t even have, and she will become the one fighting for your attention!

Aunque este juego de psicología inversa suena brillante, como soy un pensador exagerado, lo odio desde lo más profundo de mi corazón.

And, even though I perfectly know how it works, I fall into the same trap every single time. “The perks” of being a woman overthinker.

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Cuídese

No matter what your hobbies are, or what your manners are, if you don’t take good care of yourself, the girl will not notice you.

Por cuidarse bien me refiero a tener una buena higiene, dormir lo suficiente, comer alimentos sanos, hacer ejercicio y cosas similares.

If you’re feeling brave and determined, you might want to start practicing a estilo de vida holístico también.

Take a shower, brush your teeth, apply deodorant (but don’t overdo it), put clean clothes on, add a dash of perfume, and you’re ready!

You’re ready to conquer the world with your unique outfit, your great hygiene, and your aura! The thing is, taking good care of yourself will make you feel better about yourself.

Tendrás más posibilidades de captar su atención con una mentalidad positiva que con una negativa.

Hazla reír (siempre que puedas)

En cómo conseguir que una chica te bese? Entonces, aprenda cómo hacer reír a una chica!

If you ask any girl out there whether they like to laugh at a guy’s jokes, their answer will be affirmative. Yes, we like to laugh at good, witty jokes and we praise this quality in every man.

En serio, el sentido del humor juega un papel importante a la hora de captar su atención. Todos queremos pasarlo bien y reírnos a carcajadas, así que estar con alguien que nos lo pueda transmitir no tiene precio.

And, don’t worry, you don’t need to be a stand-up comedian in order to make a girl laugh.

Todo lo que tienes que hacer es ser creativo y buscar nuevas formas de demostrar tus dotes humorísticas. Pero, como con todo lo demás, asegúrate de no exagerar.

Sin esfuerzo

¿Ha visto alguna vez a una persona caminando por la calle de forma precipitada? ¿O apresurándose para responder a una pregunta? ¿Es usted esa persona?

If yes, then it’s high time you learn how to be perfectly effortless and attractive. Everything is about the little things (the way you talk, walk, treat others, and so on).

If you’re capable of doing all those things in an effortless manner, then you will be noticed. Sin duda se fijará en ti, porque es un rasgo poderoso.

There’s something truly magical about people who are capable of doing everything with little or no effort. They look spontaneous and inviting!

If you want to look that way, too, then it’s time to implement this effortless style into your daily life.

Shower her with attention (but don’t overdo it!)

A lot of guys make the common mistake where they shower the girl they like with full attention to the extent of spoiling her. Trust me, you don’t want that to happen to you.

Yes, it’s true: If you want to keep her, treat her like you’re still trying to win her. But, always make some space for her to doubt whether you’re still winning her or she’s the one winning you.

If you give a girl everything at once, she will not know how to appreciate it. The same thing goes for you guys. It’s just how human beings are wired.

You need to find the balance between spoiling her and showering her with attention. It will be hard (especially if you like her a lot), but it’s something that needs to be done.

Sé un caballero

Un caballero. Creo que los futuros diccionarios explicarán la palabra caballero como un unicornio que nadie ha visto todavía, pero que todo el mundo cree que existe.

Si quieres hacer del mundo un lugar mejor y devolver la esperanza a las generaciones futuras, sé un caballero. La moda va y viene, pero los buenos modales siempre estarán de moda.

If you’ve seen the series Peaky Blinders, then you know what I’m talking about. Ask any woman whether Thomas Shelby (from the series) caught their attention.

Apuesto a que todas las mujeres del mundo que vieron la serie (incluida yo misma) se casarían con él de inmediato si él se lo pidiera.

Being a gentleman is no longer a matter of manners, it’s about being different. In a world full of selfishness, disrespect, and impoliteness, choose to be different and treat girls like un verdadero caballero.

This doesn’t only include opening doors for them, but it also includes being honest with them, finding time for them, protecting them, and making them feel special.

This will most DEFINITELY catch any girl’s attention. I can promise you that.

Sea protector con ella

Here’s one of the most valuable pieces of consejos sobre citas de mí para ti, amigo mío: ¡Protégela! En realidad, éste está en estrecha relación con el signo anterior.

If you want to catch her attention, then protect her with both your actions and your words. Don’t let other people take her for granted… ask her how her day was and just listen to her.

Básicamente, hazle saber que si alguien intenta hacerle daño, tendrá que vérselas contigo primero. Girls LOVE that. And, how wouldn’t we?

Siempre que pienso en un tipo que es protector, me imagino al instante a alguien con esa actitud machista de no importarle lo que los demás piensen de él.

Me imagino a alguien que es a la vez sensible con los que le caen bien y un malote con los que desprecia (por razones válidas). Trust me, there’s nothing more powerful than that.

If you’re that guy (or if you become one), then you will not only succeed in catching her attention, but she will stick to you like glue!

Además, muéstrale tu lado sensible

Many guys are scared of showing their feelings because they don’t want to appear weak in front of a girl they like. But, do you know what?

Girls don’t see you that way. Si les muestras tu lado sensible, no te juzgarán, sino que se sorprenderán de lo fuerte que eres en realidad, porque hace falta valor para mostrarle a alguien cómo te sientes.

Another reason why you should do that is that you don’t want her to think that she’s dealing with an hombre emocionalmente no disponible. If I suspect that I’m dealing with such a man, I instantly run away for life.

Embrace your masculine side, but don’t be afraid to show your sensitive side as well. If you do that, then every girl will see you as a real man and not as a boy who is scared of his own feelings.

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Moléstala como un profesional

One of the fastest ways to get a woman’s attention is to tease her! No matter what she tells you and no matter how mad she is when you’re teasing her, know that she (secretly) enjoys it!

We love being teased because it’s fun and it gives us the opportunity to feel special and to pretend that we’re mad at you. Sounds silly, I know, but this is the truth.

Si quieres llamar su atención, prueba a ponerle un apodo gracioso o puedes señalar algo especial/interesante en ella.

You can also mimic her. Pretend that you’re treating her like a child, or playfully disagree with her.

Y, lo mejor de todo (obviamente mi favorito): ¡Desafíala! Desde retos mentales hasta físicos, disfrutará cuando tenga la oportunidad de demostrarle lo ingeniosa, inteligente y fuerte que es.

Demuestra tus habilidades

Porque sé que quieres hacerlo. De hecho, todo hombre quiere demostrar a una chica que le gusta lo fuerte y poderoso que es.

Quieren competir con otros hombres y, lo que es más importante, todo hombre quiere SER EL GANADOR (o al menos sentirse como tal). ¿Estoy en lo cierto? Por supuesto que la tengo.

If you want to catch a girl’s attention, you need to show her your talents, skills, and things you’re passionate about. And no, the fact that you can’t drink several beers in twenty seconds doesn’t count.

Show off your cooking skills, DIY skills, problem-solving skills, or anything else that you’re good at. If she needs help with lifting something heavy, be her Superman because I know how much you want it!

But, make sure that your showing off doesn’t turn into boasting. You don’t want girls to think that you’re superficial. Keep it classy.

Destaque entre la multitud

Y, por el amor de Dios, ¡destaca entre la multitud! I think the rhyme is not a matter of coincidence here. Let me tell you something…

Todas las chicas (a partir de la adolescencia) tienen en la cabeza la imagen de un chico conocido en los medios de comunicación como El Elegido.

Y, ¿sabe quién es ese Alguien misterioso? Alguien que hará su vida, que estará a su lado, que sabrá exactamente qué hacer en un momento determinado y que NUNCA la dará por sentada.

Alguien que sepa hacerla sentir especial y que le devuelva la fe en las citas.
Básicamente, lo que las chicas quieren es alguien que sea DIFERENTE. Alguien que las trate de forma diferente.

You can be the One, too. If you want to become that mythical creature, all you need to do is stand out from the crowd and show girls that you’re not like the rest of the guys.

La forma más fácil de hacerlo es siendo un caballero (porque esos tipos se han convertido en una verdadera escasez). Piensa en cómo puedes hacerla sentir especial, ¡y ella se fijará en ti!

HABLAR menos, HACER más

Esto suena como un anuncio para el gimnasio. En realidad, si fuera para el gimnasio, sonaría así: Habla menos, mírate menos en el espejo y levanta más peso.

Where were we? No, I’m not a certified dating coach, but I can tell you from my female perspective that women appreciate your actions more than your words!

You can tell them that you love them, adore them, that you’ll do anything for them, but if you don’t show it with your actions, then they will not believe a single word you have said to them.

So, my friend, the only way to get a girl’s attention is to do something nice for her, to keep your promises, to give her a compliment, and to do all those little things that are often overrated.

Recuerde que real men don’t make excuses. En cambio, hacen un esfuerzo. ¡Sé ese HOMBRE!

Tenga confianza

La confianza en uno mismo es muy excitante. Cuando aumenta tu confianza en ti mismo, you’ll instantly become more successful in dating (or online dating) and your love life will flourish.

Ten en cuenta que tu lenguaje corporal (o la falta del mismo) puede revelar mucho sobre tu confianza.

To show her that you’re feeling confident in your skin, you need to look into a girl’s eyes, keep your shoulders back, and keep your chin up.

Contacto visual prolongado es una de las formas más eficaces de seducir a una chica que te gusta. Esto hará que una chica se sienta especial y conectada contigo. Le demostrará lo seguro de ti mismo que eres.

How To Get A Girl’s Attention On Instagram

Síguela antes de deslizarte en sus DMs

If you want her to notice you, here’s a simple thing you can do right now: Follow her! And, if she follows back, boy, you’re ahead of the game!

Todos y cada uno de nosotros queremos tener tantos seguidores como podamos en Instagram. Aparentemente, cuantos más seguidores tienes, más popular eres.

Even though I don’t really agree with this statement, I cannot deny the truthfulness of it.
Además de contar el número de nuevos seguidores, querrá saber qué tipo de personas la siguen.

Así que asegúrate de que tu perfil de Instagram sea atractivo cuando ella lo consulte.

If you follow her before sliding into her DMs, then you’ll have greater chances that she’ll text you back because you’ll be approved and you’ll be one of her people – her followers.

Don’t like every single photo she posts

Yes, I know, Instagram abounds in attractive women of all shapes and sizes, but please, don’t like every single photo they post! Why?

Simple. Porque grita DESESPERADOS and she’ll start assuming that you’re head over heels for her. You: Pero yo sí.

Well, even if you are, you mustn’t show it to her (at least not so early). You don’t want her to friend-zone you or classify you as a creep. The thing is, women pay more attention to those who ignore them.

Not liking her every photo doesn’t exactly mean ignoring her, but it might motivate her to start asking herself why you aren’t liking her photos.

That fact will surely capture her attention! Also, she will see that you’re not desperate, but classy.

Envíale un DM atento e interesante

Y, una vez que decidas mandarle un mensaje, ¡hazlo como un jefe! ¿Qué significa esto?

It means that you shouldn’t be generic and send her corny pick-up lines like “I am not a photographer, but I can picture us together” o mensajes sexting para ella (when it’s still too early for that). Seriously? Don’t send that.

Instead, send her a thoughtful direct message where you ask her something about her life (something interesting you’ve noticed in her photos or in her captions).

By doing this, you’ll show her that you’re paying attention to details, and that you’re genuinely interested in her, not just her looks.

However, if you really “need to” send her a pick-up line, then melt her heart with frases románticas para ligar como “My friend over there thinks you’re cute, but I disagree. I think you’re gorgeous.” Text a girl in an interesting way and you’ll win her in no time!

Don’t be creepy

Please, don’t be creepy or desperate because this is a huge turn-off and I’m sure you already know that. Don’t be creepy on dating apps, social networks, in person, you name it.

Una forma segura de convertirte en un auténtico cretino en Instagram es enviarle varios mensajes sin recibir ni una sola respuesta por su parte. If she hasn’t texted you back, then there must be a reason behind it.

Since we are pros at overthinking, trust me, we’re doing everything for a reason. If you see the word “Seen,” but no response, then don’t be tempted to send her multiple texts to get her attention.

You won’t get her attention, you will only make things worse. To sum it all up: Don’t be creepy and you’ll get her attention.

Instagram abounds with creeps and other not-so-inviting people, so showing her that you’re not one of them will certainly capture her attention. Sad, but true.

Hazle un cumplido único y creativo

“Cute girl.” “Pretty.” “Beautiful.”

If a guy compliments me using one of the above words (or similar to them), I immediately think of him as being totally uncreative, unoriginal, and boring. I mean, everyone can write “pretty.” What does that even mean?

The word “pretty” has become so overused that it has almost lost its original meaning.

Sure, every girl wants to know that she’s pretty, but she also wants to feel special and noticed for other reasons apart from her physical look.

How to compliment a beautiful girl’s picture?

Pay attention to all the details on her picture like what she is doing in the photo, compliment her choice of accessory and her natural beauty (but first, make sure she’s not wearing tons of makeup in the pic.).

Y lo que es más importante, felicítala por algo que la haga destacar del resto. Así se sentirá más que ESPECIAL.

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Don’t be repetitive

Here’s another “expert tip” written by a humble female: Don’t be repetitive. Sé interesante e imprevisible. ¿Por qué? Porque a las chicas les ENCANTA.

Todas las chicas sueñan con conocer a ese chico que las impresionará por su creatividad, su interesante perspectiva y su excitante estilo de vida.

We don’t like repetitive guys, especially those who always start a conversation with “Hey, what are you up to?”

To me, there’s nothing more annoying than that in the whole wide world. Hay tantas preguntas interesantes que hacer a alguien, y tantos temas apasionantes, desde el sentido de la vida hasta el cine.

Talk about things that provide scope for the imagination (yes, I’ve been watching the series Ana Con E desde hace algún tiempo).

Don’t be superficial or shallow, but always have something exciting, thought-provoking, and funny in store.

How To Get A Girl’s Attention On Snapchat

Tome el selfie perfecto

Selfies have become the most important tool for seducing and getting someone’s attention, BUT only if you do it right.

When you’re taking a selfie, are you looking into the camera or at yourself?

If you’re looking into the camera, then you’re doing it right. Why? Because you’re focusing on the person who is receiving the picture and not on yourself.

Puedes elegir salir guapo o malote en los selfies. Las chicas prefieren ambas versiones, así que quizá la mejor opción sea darles las dos, pero no al mismo tiempo.

Don’t overdo the selfie thing. Send her one interesting selfie and wait for her to reply to you. Who knows, perhaps she will send you a cute selfie back.

Ideas originales para las historias de Snapchat

Las historias se han convertido en una forma de vida, así que seguro que tu chica publica muchas en Snapchat. ¿Adivina qué? Esta es tu oportunidad perfecta para escribir algo creativo cuando escribas una respuesta a su historia.

Avoid texting something like “LMAO” or “HAHA”. This is not funny and neither is it interesting.

Si quieres captar su atención, tienes que destacar entre la multitud. Escribe algo divertido, como un breve pie de foto para su foto o algo ingenioso que le haga pensar.

If you do that, then she will surely remember you because you’re not one of those guys throwing “haha’s” wherever they (virtually) go.

You need to show her that you’re capable of making interesting conversations, and also making her laugh. More than anything in the world, girls like to feel connected to others, so give your best to make that happen.

Métete en sus DMs

Enviar selfies es una forma estupenda de captar su atención, y deslizarte a sus DMs puede ser igual de efectivo. Pero, como siempre, no exageres.

Don’t send her multiple texts if she’s not responding. Ser coqueto, but don’t be too flirtatious because you don’t want to scare her off.

Don’t ask too many questions, but also don’t send one-word texts because you want to keep the conversation going.

Don’t give her too much info about yourself because she might lose interest in you. Keep it light with a dash of mystery and excitement.

Una vez que empiece a entablar una conversación, sugiérale que se acerque a la cafetería (o bar) más cercano y siga hablando allí. Al fin y al cabo, éste es tu objetivo principal, ¿verdad? Pues sí.

Sé creativo

Here’s one of the most valuable dating tips: Be creative! I know I repeated this multiple times so far, but I just want to make sure that you memorize the importance of being creative and original.

Cuando se trata de Snapchat, puedes mostrar tu lado creativo de muchas maneras.

You can change your voice, add some fun stickers, draw, you name it. You can play with a wide array of creative tools until your heart’s content.

Y, ahora viene la parte divertida (¡pero sólo para los valientes!). Probablemente ya conozcas Snapchat Maps, que te permite ver dónde están tus amigos en ese momento.

Well, this feature can let you know where your crush is right now, see with whom they are, and also what they’re doing.

Now, here’s the challenge for the brave ones: Puedes preguntarle si puedes acompañarla.

Perhaps she’ll like the originality of your idea and she will admire your courage. But, be prepared for potential rejection as well.

Recuerde que menos es más

Don’t send multiple snaps (especially if you know she won’t be very interested in seeing them in the first place). Be careful of the content you’re sharing with her.

If you know that she’s a feline lover, then you can record yourself playing with a cute cat, or take a selfie with that fluffy creature and send it to the girl you dig.

Si lo haces, es muy probable que se derrita al instante y te envíe un mensaje de texto del tipo “Omg, you two look so cute!”

Créeme, si una chica te dice que estás guapo, ya te la has ganado. En un mundo en el que todos los chicos intentan imitar a un macho, estar guapo es mucho más atractivo para las chicas.

It will show them that you’re different, sentimental, and that you love cats (just like she does)!

El secreto está en encontrar lo que tenéis en común. Una vez que lo encuentres, cíñete a ello y ¡seguro que consigues llamar su atención!

How To Get A Girl’s Attention Over Text

Manténgase positivo

Regla número uno: Don’t text a girl when you’re in a negative mood. Imagina que le envías a una chica que te gusta un mensaje como éste: “My day was so boring and I feel so lonely right now…”

Si me enviaras este mensaje, te respondería lo siguiente: “Okay.”

First of all, keep in mind that the girl you like is not your venting buddy, so you shouldn’t text her when you’re in a negative mood because it will also make her feel down.

Por el contrario, hay que mantener una actitud positiva. Quieres que sonría cada vez (vale, casi cada vez) que lea tu mensaje y que asocie el envío de mensajes contigo con una actividad divertida y emocionante.

Tell her about that funny situation at your job, surprise her with your unique way of thinking, or share funny GIFs (when appropriate) and you’ll get her attention (and keep it)!

Sea juguetón y coqueto

Regardless if you’re texting her on Tinder, Instagram, or something else, remember to keep things light. Stay away from serious conversations and focus on making the conversation as playful as possible.

Piensa en algunos preguntas coquetas para hacer a una chica quieres impresionar, evita ser repetitivo y mantén las cosas emocionantes.

Even if she texts you something like “How was your day?” this doesn’t mean that you should reply to her in a serious, a.k.a., boring manner.

Keep in mind that the reason why she asked you that is because she’s the one who is feeling bored at the moment and she’s waiting for you to entertain her!

Así que sé juguetón y coqueto. Entretenla y seguro que llamarás su atención.

Also, when she sees that you’re not taking yourself seriously and that you’re all laid-back and jockey, she will be more than willing to share everything with you.

If a woman is ready to share her thoughts and feelings with you, then you know you’ve done a great job, so keep up the good work.

Utilizar emojis

I completely understand the fact that guys are not chat lovers… the only reason why they decide to text a girl is that they like her and they want to get her attention.

If you want to succeed in that attempt, then consider using plenty of Emojis (but don’t overdo it!).

Honestly, whenever I’m texting with un tipo que usa Emojis, I instantly feel more relaxed and, let’s say, special because he actually made an effort to express how he’s feeling at the moment.

No todos los hombres están preparados o dispuestos a hacerlo.

Los emojis dan la impresión de que eres informal, relajado y coqueto. Tienen el poder de animar cualquier conversación, lo cual es estupendo.

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Sea descriptivo

Una forma segura de que tus textos parezcan aburridos es no utilizar palabras descriptivas. Piensa en los mensajes como si escribieras un libro.

Of course, you’re not a legit writer (or maybe you are), but still, you need to keep in mind that the girl you’re texting is your reader.

Si leyera un libro carente de descripciones vívidas, ¿continuaría leyéndolo? Supongo que no. Lo mismo ocurre con los mensajes de texto.

Describiendo las cosas con detalle, la ayudarás a imaginarse todo eso sin mucho esfuerzo. Antes de lo que imaginas, estará deseando recibir tus mensajes y responderte. Puedes aplicar esta técnica siempre que quieras ponla a tono en el futuro.

Sé espontáneo

Don’t worry too much about punctuation. Don’t be one of those people who have the uncontrollable urge to correct their every single misspelled word.

It’s okay if you do it from time to time, but doing it constantly will only let her know that you’re either seeking perfection or you’re una persona reservada.

You don’t want her to think that of you. You want her to see you as a spontaneous person who doesn’t care about one letter extra or a misspelled word.

En efecto, hay algo especial en los chicos que saben estar sin esfuerzo.

Elija temas de conversación interesantes

You certainly don’t want to talk about politics with the girl you like.

Of course, you can talk about that later once you get to know each other better, but avoid such things and similar topics when you’re texting her for the first time or if you haven’t known her for a long time.

En su lugar, elige temas de conversación interesantes sobre la vida, las mascotas, tal vez el trabajo de sus sueños, etc. Asegúrese de que su preguntas para la primera cita también son interesantes.

DON’T KEEP TEXTING HER IF:

• She hasn’t responded to your last text: If there’s one thing you should avoid when it comes to texting, it is doble envío de mensajes. If she hasn’t responded to your last text, then don’t text her again. Don’t send her multiple texts either.
• Con frecuencia te envía textos de una sola palabra: If you ask me, one-word texts exist for a reason. When you’re not interested in texting with someone, you just send a one-word text and make it impossible for the other person to keep the conversation going. If you keep sending novel-length texts even after she has sent multiple one-word texts to you, then know that you just messed up big time.
• Te dijo que no le mandaras mensajes: I think there’s no need for me to explain this one.

(And, don’t forget to) Just Be Yourself!

Dominar el arte de How to get a girl’s attention no se trata sólo de llevar el mejor atuendo o de enviarle mensajes de la forma más creativa posible, sino también de ser uno mismo.

Yes, you should definitely follow the above “rules,” but you should also keep in mind that the only way to win a girl is to be genuine. Be different. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” – Oscar Wilde