Cómo responder a Hey en Tinder: 15 respuestas impresionantes
Seldom do things really annoy me like when someone texts “Hey” on Tinder and other dating apps and sites. Seriously? What am I supposed to do with your “Hey”? Aren’t you interested in getting to know me, or are you just playing hard to get?
Therefore, learning how to respond to hey on Tinder has become a real art. I’m not the type of person who would stop texting someone just because they’re bad at it. I give everyone a chance in the hope that I won’t regret doing so.
Dicho esto, durante todos estos años de frecuentes heys en Tinder, se me ocurrieron algunas respuestas brillantes a iniciar una conversación en Tinder e impresionar a mi potencial pareja.
From funny responses to witty ones, I’m sure you’ll find a few personal favorites!
Cómo responder a Hola En Tinder
Texting back “Hey” is not a solution. You don’t want to be a boring texter because that’s against the rules of online dating like a pro. 😄 Do some of the following things to impress your Tinder date and catch their attention:
1. Devuelva un emoji
It’s more original to send back an emoji than “Hey” or “Howdy.” Today, there’s a wide array of emojis for every possible occasion. Existen emojis coquetosemojis serios y divertidos.
Puedes saludarles con la mano o enviarles un emoji de un simpático animal. Después, espera a que te respondan o pasa al siguiente paso:
2. Send them a “tutorial” on citas en línea
A mí personalmente me parece divertidísimo e ingenioso, pero ten en cuenta que también podría ser insultante. If you’re one of those brave souls with a fantastic sense of humor, then find a tutorial on YT about online dating.
En concreto, encontrar algo sobre Abridores de Tinder. Es una forma brillante de hacerles reír e iniciar un debate.
Talking about online dating is far more interesting than simply saying, “Hey, how are you?” Do you agree with me? I bet you do.
3. Hazles un cumplido único
Don’t just say, “You’re pretty.” Instead, be more specific when it comes to compliments. Ed Sheeran’s “Tenerife Sea” lyrics are a perfect example of that:
“You look so beautiful in this light
Tu silueta sobre mí
La forma en que resalta el azul de tus ojos
Is the Tenerife Sea…”
¡SÍ! Puedes comparar sus ojos al mar, su vibración en línea y su elección de palabras. Sólo asegúrate de hacerlo de una manera única y no aburrida. Y punto.
4. Hacer chistes y juegos de palabras
¿Todavía te preguntas cómo responder a hey en Tinder? No hay nada mejor que un chiste gracioso o un juego de palabras. En lugar de enviar algo aburrido, hazles reír desde el principio de vuestra conversación online.
Here’s a mini collection of perfect jokes and puns that will surely hacerles reír:
• “There are only two kinds of people on Tinder. Those who are right for you, and those who are left.”
• “My friends suggested I use Tinder to meet some cute firemen or policemen. Once it started to burn, I met so many! I even met a reporter and some lawyers!”
• “I met a chica en Bumblee íbamos a ir al gimnasio en nuestra primera cita, pero me dejó plantado.
I suppose we aren’t gonna work out.”
• “I keep seeing this quote on women’s Tinder profiles, ‘If I were meant to be controlled, I would have come with a remote.’ The jokes on them, though, I’ve been turning women off for years without a remote.”
• “The skip intro button on Netflix is so cool. I wish Tinder had it too.”
5. Hágales una pregunta interesante
Se supone que las citas en línea son divertidas, ¿verdad? Así que asegúrate de que sea divertido haciéndole preguntas interesantes y divertidas que le hagan pensar. Por favor, mantente alejado de preguntas como estas:
• “¿Qué buscas? para el Tinder?”
• “What are you up to today? Cualquier cosa divertida?”
En su lugar, sea creativo e intente preguntar estas interesantes preguntas sobre citas en línea:
• “Do you believe in química textual?”
• “I will ask you three questions, and you can choose which one you want to answer.”
No dudes en plantear tus propias preguntas para captar su atención.
Consejo profesional: Don’t ask them dirty questions in the first message because that’s a surefire way to ruin your first impression.
Véase también: Tinder Preguntas: 290+ Las mejores preguntas para hacer a tu pareja de Tinder
6. Impresiónales con tus habilidades sarcásticas
I don’t know about you, but I truly enjoy the company of people who are sarcastic by nature, like myself. Such people (not referring to myself 😂) are witty, intelligent, and hilarious. Pueden alegrarte el día en cuestión de segundos, ya sea en línea o cuando pasas tiempo con ellos en persona.
El sarcasmo también puede ayudarte a la hora de aprender a responder a hey en Tinder. Envía un mensaje de texto que contenga algunos elementos de sarcasmo y observa su respuesta.
Si se ríen, significa que tienes luz verde para seguir impresionándoles con tus habilidades sarcásticas. Just make sure not to overdo it because you don’t want to appear like you’re trying too hard. Yes, making an effort is hot, but you need to know the limits.
7. Enviar un divertido GIF
Funny GIFs will never be outdated. Whenever I want to text something fun but can’t think of anything, I send a GIF. Verdaderamente, los GIF son una forma creativa de expresar tus sentimientos, compartir tus ideas de forma divertida, etc.
You can find a GIF that says “Hello” or “Howdy.” It’s ten times more appealing than simply writing “Hello,” right? That’s what I’m talking about!
Dry texters seldom use emojis of GIFs, which is their biggest problem. Because of that, their texts look dull, and it doesn’t catch your attention. You don’t want to be a dry texter.
Quieres impresionar desde el primer texto hasta el último. Enviar GIF divertidos de vez en cuando es una forma de lograr este objetivo.
8. Jugar a un juego coqueto
Otra forma divertida de responder a hey en Tinder es jugando a un juego coqueto. Puedes sugerir jugar a un juego interesante juegos de mensajes de texto como 20 Preguntas o Preguntas de preferencia.
Después de algún tiempo, puedes cambiar a juegos más complejos y que requieran más esfuerzo para responder.
Playing flirty games isn’t only reserved for people who are dating but also for couples, so keep that in mind. 😄
9. Responde con la frase de tu película favorita
Another fun way to respond is to send them a movie line. I know what you’re thinking. A movie line?! Yeah, why not?
Encuentra una frase interesante de una película que puedas utilizar para abrir Tinder. Puede ser tu frase favorita o puedes encontrar una en Internet.
Now comes the tricky part. How will the person know that you’ve sent them a movie line? If they’re familiar with the movie, they will certainly know. If they’re not, you can always tell them that these are not your words but from a movie.
Lo hice una vez y resultó ser un gran éxito. ¿Por qué? Porque los dos habíamos visto la misma película. Supe al instante que éramos compatibles.
10. Hable de sus intereses mutuos
Talking to someone for the first time can be challenging because you literally don’t know anything about one another. So, this is a perfect time to focus on finding common ground – your mutual interests.
Before replying to “Hey,” explore their Tinder profile and pay special attention to their personality and hobbies. If they enjoy biking, here’s what you can ask them: “How long have you been biking?”
If they like hiking, you can ask them the following: “Do you go hiking often?” After asking them a question about a certain thing, make sure to mention that you’re also a fan of it.
This doesn’t mean that you should lie to them only to make it seem like you have some mutual interests. Honesty is the best policy. You can thank me later. 😊
11. Cuéntales una historia divertida
Recuerdo cuando un chico en Tinder me escribió esto: “Buenos días.! I have a funny story to share with you. Would you like to hear it?”
¡Claro que quería oírlo! Captó mi atención al instante, sin mucho esfuerzo, sólo porque mencionó la palabra FUNNY. Who doesn’t like to hear funny stories?
A todos nos gusta reír todo lo que podemos, y las personas que saben hacernos reír son sencillamente preciosas. So, yes, that’s an example of a good response, and you should try it the next time you text someone on Tinder.
Véase también: Las 100 mejores biografías de Tinder para que todo el mundo deslice el dedo hacia la derecha
12. Envíales la letra de una canción
Antes de nada, me siento obligado a advertirte de que enviar letras siempre es complicado cuando se trata de mandar un mensaje a alguien por primera vez. ¿Por qué? Porque puedes enviarles algo que les abrume o les moleste.
Sé prudente a la hora de enviar letras de canciones. It’s always best to go with simple ones like the following from Bruno Mars:
“When I see your face
There’s not a thing that I would change
‘Cause you’re amazing
Tal como eres
Y cuando sonríes
El mundo entero se detiene y se queda mirando un rato
‘Cause girl, you’re amazing
Tal como eres
Yeah…”
13. Observa algo interesante sobre su perfil
Every relationship coach will tell you that the secret is in detail and curiosity. The more you’re interested in the person you’re dating (or the person you plan on dating), the more you’ll learn about them.
Asking questions and highlighting some interesting parts on that person’s profile is a surefire way to catch their attention. If you’re still unsure how to respond to hey on tinder, just look at the person’s profile and absorb as many interesting details as possible.
Después, piensa en las preguntas más impresionantes que podrías hacerles. These questions should show that you notice the little things and that you’re genuinely interested in getting to know them better.
¿Crees que puedes hacerlo? Por supuesto que puedes.
14. Enviar un clickbait texto
If you look around, you’ll notice that there is clickbait everywhere (especially in the digital world). In case you’re unfamiliar with it, clickbait’s primary goal is to intrigue the reader so that they open an article or do some other action.
That’s exactly what you want to do when it comes to texting on Tinder. You want to impress them and make the conversation exciting.
He aquí algunos ejemplos de textos clickbait:
• “Do you know what makes people attracted to you?”
• “Do you know what makes you unique?”
• “Do you know what the first thing that came to my mind was when I saw your profile ?”
As you can see, clickbait texts are created to provoke interest. You simply can’t ignore them, and you’re dying to hear the answer.
15. Envíales un (cursi) línea de recogida
Another appropriate response is to send them a pickup line! It can be regular, cheesy, or extremely witty. Besides that, the most important thing is that it’s FUNNY.
Sin embargo, ten en cuenta que no a todo el mundo le gustan las frases para ligar. A algunas personas les resultan molestas. My personal opinion is that you can’t go wrong with sending pickup lines if they make someone laugh. Punto.
The only time you can annoy someone is when you send something insulting. So, make sure to avoid doing that, and you’ll be just fine. Since I feel extra generous today, below, you’ll find a list of awesome pickup lines to send someone on Tinder.
20 Impresionante Tinder Líneas de recogida
Los siguientes Tinder frases para ligar are perfect because they won’t leave anyone indifferent. They are creative, funny, and eye-catching:
1. “How much does a polar bear weigh? (Enough to break the ice!).”
2. “Hola, I’m writing an article on the finer things in life, and I was hoping I could interview you.”
3. “Think my thumbs need a rest from swiping and typing. Wanna get drinks tonight?”
4. “Are you my laptop? Because you’re really hot, and I’m concerned.”
5. “I think I saw you on Spotify. You were listed as the hottest single?”
6. “(Lime emoji) This is my pickup lime. How are you?”
7. “You’re seriously cute, but here’s the dealbreaker: do you, or do you not like raisins? (Whether they say yes, or no, you offer them a date instead!).”
8. “Are you French? Because Eiffel for you.”
9. “Just wanted to let you know you have some cute on your face.”
10. “Hola, I need some directions, and it looks like you know how to get to the pretty city.”
11. “I see you’re serving a life sentence for being sexy, but that’s OK. I like a bad girl/boy.”
12. “I’m researching important dates in history. Do you want to be mine?”
13. “Do you have an Instagram? My mom always told me to follow my dreams.”
14. “Is your Bluetooth enabled? I feel like we could pair.”
15. “Do you like bagels? Because you’re bae goals.”
16. “Do you ever just lie down at night, look up at the stars and think about all the messed up things in the world? Like why is there a ‘D’ in ‘fridge’ but no ‘D’ in ‘refrigerator’?”
17. “If you were a fruit, you’d be a fineapple.”
18. “So I’ve been trying to come up with a good psychology pickup line for you, but I’m aFreud I couldn’t come up with anything.”
19. “Are your parents bakers? They sure made a cutie pie.”
20. ¿Eres la vacuna COVID? Porque nunca te rechazaría.
20 Aún más increíbles Tinder Abridores
Buscar más formas divertidas para enviar un mensaje de texto a alguien en Tinder? Aquí están los 20 primeros temas de conversación garantizado para impresionar a todos:
1. “I’m all about first impressions, so tell me something interesting about yourself.”
2. “Tell me something about yourself to impress me.”
3. “How would your best friend describe you?”
4. “I like someone with a good sense of humor. The best way to my heart is through my funny bone. Can you make me laugh?”
5. “I’ll make the first move if you plan the first date.”
6. “Hey, we matched! I guess we both have good taste.”
7. “Humor is a great way to get to know someone, so tell me a joke.”
8. “Hi there. Tell me the best thing and worst thing about yourself.”
9. “Tell me the last thing you Googled. No lying.”
10. “The only thing standing between you and a delicious dinner is you saying yes.”
11. “What’s the most important thing I should know about you?”
12. “Who is the first person you think of when you think of the word ‘love’?”
13. “As a general rule, I don’t kiss on the first date, but for you, I may have to make an exception.”
14. “I don’t have a lot of good lines, but I know you look amazing and just had to say something.”
15. “I am looking for someone who is honest, caring, and fun to be around. Does that sound like you?”
16. “What’s the last thing that made you smile?”
17. “Are you a cat person or a dog person?”
18. “What destinations are on your travel bucket list?”
19. “Who is someone you admire and why?”
20. “What’s something you’re passionate about but few people know about?”
¿Es raro decir Hola En Tinder?
Generally, it’s totally weird to just say hey on Tinder without an emoji or a question. It’s somewhat reserved and cold. Also, just saying hey doesn’t help when it comes to keeping the conversation going.
Contrary to this, it’s also weird to send a novel-length text when contacting someone for the first time. Why? Because it’s boring and too long. Not a single soul will read it, no matter how interested they might be in getting to know you better.
Como siempre, la clave es el EQUILIBRIO.
Don’t send one word but also don’t send too many words in a text. Be moderate and, more importantly, be interesting and funny.
Also, stay away from online dating scammers who express their feelings too soon, even though you still haven’t met in real life.
Don’t Overthink!
If you’re still wondering how to respond to hey on Tinder, I have two words for you: Don’t overthink. It’s “scientifically proven” that overthinking can ruin your chances of dating and finding love.
Here’s the best dating advice for him and her: Be interesting enough not to lose their attention and give them enough space so that they can miss your presence. Don’t spend too much time only looking for red flags but also don’t fail to see them.
Don’t try to be something you’re not but embrace genuineness. Here’s a funny observation: Siempre que lavo mi pelo rizado, nunca sé cuál será el resultado final. Así que me lavo el pelo y espero lo mejor.
Te sugiero que pongas en práctica el mismo método. Dé lo mejor de sí mismo cuando se trate de citas en líneay espera lo mejor. Lea también verdades psicológicas sobre las aplicaciones de citas.
Buena suerte.
