Si alguna vez te enamoras de una chica ansiosa, lee esto

You have to know that anxiety consumes her. It takes every fiber of her being and it rules it. It can decide what she does and doesn’t have to do. It rules over her.

Su ansiedad es un miedo constante que la domina por completo. Tienes que saberlo; de lo contrario, déjala ir.

It’s not easy to love an anxious girl. You have to be ready to be there for her every second of the hour, every day.

Tienes que saber le cuesta confiar en la gente , even you. She could love you the most but her anxiety won’t let her show you.

Aunque le digas y le demuestres que la quieres, puede que ella no te lo devuelva, aunque lo haga. Tiene miedo y construye enormes muros a su alrededor, sin dejar entrar a nadie.

Ella nunca baja la guardia porque nunca sabe cuándo va a atacarle la ansiedad.

She can’t sit and enjoy the sun because she never knows when the raging storm is going to come, bringing those dark, stormy clouds above her.

Tienes que entender que ella ama de forma diferente. No es como los demás. Al cabo de un tiempo empezará a confiar en ti y, cuando eso ocurra, nunca te dejará.

Te querrá como nadie te ha querido nunca.

You have to know that…

Necesita sentirse segura

You have to know that she will run away if she sees even the smallest sign that you’re making her do something she is uncomfortable doing.

It’s hard for her to love you in a way that you expect to be loved, as she doesn’t know how to do that.

She would also like it but her anxiety won’t let her. It dictates her life and her feelings. You have to know that she fights it but she can’t win every time.

Tienes que saber que ella necesita sentirse segura en tus brazos y te querrá pero a su manera.

Tarda más en enamorarse

Es demasiado precavida. Sopla sobre el fuego aunque la llama ya se haya apagado.

She doesn’t want to relive her anxiety attacking her because she opened up to someone, trusted him and he betrayed her.

She always has a safety net, something to rely on, just in case because she has been burned too many times. You have to know that she doesn’t fall in love very easily.

You will have to work twice as hard to get her to trust you and relax but once she does, you won’t regret even one minute spent trying to win her over.

Tiene problemas de confianza

Su ansiedad le hace abrir mucho los ojos para buscar posibles amenazas por todas partes.

She constantly overthinks things because she is scared of what kinds of scenarios can happen and she knows she can’t affect any of them.

She doesn’t trust anyone because she has been betrayed too many times and each time, her anxiety came knocking on her door, taking her into situations and states which she could not control.

Tiene miedo de que vuelva a ocurrir.

Ama con todo su corazón

You should know that when she loves, she goes all in. When she finally opens up to you and lets you into her heart, you’re going to be there forever.

But it won’t be easy. Her mood will constantly change and she will need someone to be by her side and help her get through it.

She’ll need someone who’ll help her fight that anxiety away from her.

Sólo tienes que ser paciente y comprensivo y ella te lo devolverá con su amor incondicional.

Tiene miedo a la confrontación

She can’t always fight. Her anxiety often doesn’t allow her to because she knows that she’ll lose each argument she gets involved in.

She can’t stand someone yelling at her. Every harsh word buries her deeper in the ground, every nasty look makes her want to cry.

Cada confrontación evoca un horrible episodio de ansiedad. Tienes que tener paciencia porque esa es la llave de su corazón.

Si la amas, debes saber que es una persona hermosa por dentro que tiene miedo de salir.

Tiene miedo de este mundo cruel y frío, tiene miedo de que la juzguen, tiene miedo de que la gente la mire de otra manera.

Continúa siendo su luz al final del túnel porque estás haciendo un gran trabajo. Encuentra la fuerza para seguir ayudándola a ganar la lucha de su vida.

And in the end, she’ll see that you never wanted to hurt her and she’ll turn into a happy and smiling girl, the girl she is deep inside.

Whenever she’s around you, she’ll kick her anxiety to the ground because you will give her the strength to do so.