14 cosas ingeniosas que hacer cuando no te contesta en días

Es muy difícil saber qué hacer cuando lleva días sin responderte y ya estás perdidamente enamorada de él.

You’re not sure if you should contact him on social media or call him. You start thinking: ¿Está esperando a que le mande un mensaje primero?

You are struggling to find answers to so many questions that are running through your head, but you can’t find any solution.

Detener la frustración. Enviarle ESTOS TRES MENSAJES lo hará tuyo todo el tiempo que quieras.

You’re seeking relationship advice in all the places you can think of, but you still don’t know what to do.

You want him so much, but you don’t know if it is a good idea to call him or text him.

Así que te sorprendes a ti misma mirando la pantalla vacía mientras él probablemente esté en algún lugar divirtiéndose y sin pensar en ti en absoluto.

You don’t know when the last time was that you felt like this and, no matter how hard you try, you simply can’t stop thinking about him.

Pero no se preocupe más, porque todos los problemas tienen solución.

I will just name some of the cleverest things you can do when he doesn’t text back for days. So, let’s get down to it!

1. Don’t text him under any circumstances

If a guy hasn’t texted you back for days, you will probably freak out and want to know what is happening with him. I know you will think about calling or texting him, but trust me, that is the worst thing you can do.

If he hasn’t texted for days, you shouldn’t be the one to break the ice and call him like crazy. Instead, leave him alone and let him text you back when he decides to do so.

No estoy diciendo que debas preocuparte por él y correr hacia él en cuanto te llame.

I am just saying that you shouldn’t lose your dignity and run after a guy who doesn’t give a damn about you. If you mean anything to him, he’ll make sure to text you because he knows that you’re thinking of him.

But if he doesn’t even have time to make a single phone call, it is obvious that you are just a fling to him and that he probably has someone else. So, when he finally calls or texts, you’ll know what to do.

Lo único que puedes decirle es que debería haber hecho algún esfuerzo y que su comportamiento no es algo que vayas a tolerar en una relación.

Debes hacerle saber que no eres alguien a quien pueda hacer girar alrededor de su dedo meñique, que puede seguir adelante con su vida porque no piensas perder ni un minuto de tu precioso tiempo con él.

2. Don’t even think about him

Si un chico ha dejado de responder a tus mensajes, deberías saber que algo no va bien. Si te interesa una chica, querrás pasar todo el tiempo que puedas con ella.

You will call her and text her to see what she is doing. You will make some effort to win her over. You will do nice things for her so she’ll feel special.

Pero cualquier hombre que deja de hacer cosas agradables como estas no está interesado en una mujer.

So, if he is not thinking about you, why should you think about him? Why would you bother your pretty little head over a man who can’t decide what he wants?

Sé que será difícil dejar de pensar en alguien por quien sentías algo, pero tienes que pensar en ti y en tu vida.

¿Dejarás que una hombre tóxico destroy all that you were building so far? I don’t think so. Life is not all about one man. Life gives you so many opportunities and you should choose the best one for yourself.

Thinking about what happened and why he hasn’t texted won’t solve your problem. It will just take away the peace you have and you will feel like shit.

And that is not what you deserve. You don’t deserve to stare at that empty screen.

You deserve a man who will love and accept you just the way you are. So, please don’t settle until you find a man whose love feels like home.

3. Diviértete y asegúrate de que él lo sepa

Si a guy doesn’t text you back for days and you don’t know what is happening, you should know that it is his fault. Unless aliens kidnapped him, he doesn’t have an excuse to stop texting you.

But if he lost interest and doesn’t want to text you anymore, you shouldn’t worry because it is not a big deal. If he hurt you and you feel awful, don’t let him see it. Instead, have some fun and make sure he knows it.

Puedes publicar algunas fotos locas de tu noche de fiesta en las redes sociales o puedes hacer locuras delante de sus amigos. Seguro que le cuentan que te han visto y que te lo has pasado bien.

Tal vez ese horrible sentimiento de él perdiendo interés en ti won’t go away just like that, but at least you will have some fun and you will forget about him for a while.

In case he texts you once he sees you are having a good time without him, don’t be available just like that.

Hazle esperar igual que tú le esperaste a él. Probablemente le volverá loco, pero es lo mínimo que se merece después de tratarte tan mal.

Show him that you have other options and that you can walk away too. Whatever you do, don’t let him see you suffering because you don’t want him to think that you still care and that he hurt you.

Show him that you are good on your own and that you don’t want a man who doesn’t know what he wants from his life.

4. Céntrate en ti mismo

The best thing you can do when he doesn’t text back for days is to céntrate en ti mismo. Si le importara, se aseguraría de que lo supieras.

Pero si dejó de enviar mensajes de texto out of the blue, it means that he wasn’t as interested in you as he was saying in the beginning. And frankly speaking, there isn’t much you can do about it.

You can decide to move on or you can hold onto something that wasn’t real from the start. That’s why you need to deja de pensar en él y empieza a pensar en ti.

Tienes que entender que has perdido tu precioso tiempo mientras estabas con él y ahora es el momento de pensar sólo en tus necesidades.

If someone doesn’t make you feel good, you should let them go. I know it might be a bit hard in the beginning, but after some time, you will thank yourself for coming to the right decision.

Life is beautiful and there are so many nice things you can do or try. Don’t let one bad man’s behavior make you cry yourself to sleep. Don’t let that jerk steal your inner peace. Trust me, he’s not worth it.

Instead of staying at home and wondering why he hasn’t texted, go out with your friends and enjoy life. And no problem, you can thank me later.

5. Make sure you don’t text him while you are drunk

I know, I know, you can really affect this when you are drunk, but that’s why you have your friends to take care of you when you are not able to do that.

I am sure you will always tell your best friends what is going on in your life and if you ask them to make sure that you don’t text him, they will do it.

Quieren lo mejor para usted y harán todo lo que esté en su mano para devolverle esa hermosa sonrisa. Mensajes de texto en estado de embriaguez es lo que hacen la mayoría de las chicas cuando pasan por una ruptura, pero eso es lo peor que puedes hacer.

If you do that, you’ll just show him that you do not give a damn about yourself and will accept all his rules.

Enviando mensajes borracho, le harás creer que tenía razón, que puede desaparecer durante días sin que sepas dónde está y salirse con la suya.

Just know that this won’t make you feel good about yourself and that this kind of behavior is not normal for una relación estable y sana.

6. Ignóralo si alguna vez te llama

One of the smartest things you can do when he doesn’t text back for days is to completely ignore him once he eventually remembers you.

No matter if he calls or texts you, don’t answer.

Show him that he can’t behave like that with you and that you cherish yourself enough to burn all bridges between the two of you.

Ignorándolo, le dirás más que hablando con él.

Puede que escuche algunas de tus palabras y puede que ignore otras, pero en cuanto empieces a darle la callada por respuesta, se dará cuenta de lo que ha hecho.

I know that situations like this can hurt a lot, but if you think about it, you’ll realize that it’s better if this happened before anything serious.

If you two were married with kids and he did something like this, it would hurt you so much. However, if you’re at the beginning of your relationship, you will get over him faster than you think.

So, don’t be sad – life is ahead of you and there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Whatever you do, don’t lose faith in love because love is the most beautiful thing in the whole world. Just because one man was bad, doesn’t mean that the rest of them are the same.

Cuando sanes adecuadamente, estarás lista para alguien nuevo. Pero antes de que todo suceda, date tiempo para sanar adecuadamente.

7. Enséñale lo que ha perdido

Si quieres vengarte de un chico que ha dejado de enviarte mensajes de texto, puedes hacer un par de cosas. La forma más fácil de hacer que se arrepienta perderte es mostrarle lo que perdió. ¿Qué significa eso?

Significa que debes ser la mejor versión de ti mismo. Vístete para matar, diviértete como nunca y disfruta de tu vida. Si le ves en un club o en una cafetería, actúa como la persona más feliz del mundo.

Trust me, your happiness will hurt him more than anything else you might say to him. Don’t let him see your puffy face from all the tears you cried for him.

Don’t let him see the sorrow in your eyes because you really cared about him but he took you for granted.

Whatever you do, don’t give him the pleasure of seeing how much you hurt because he wasn’t there. If he was stupid enough to walk away, you should be clever enough to déjalo ir.

A man who doesn’t see how amazing you are at the beginning of your relationship doesn’t deserve to have you.

Él nunca sería capaz de hacerte feliz. Con él, nunca experimentarías ese tipo de amor vintage y siempre buscarías algo que nunca podrías tener.

Así que, en lugar de darle otra oportunidad, sólo seguir adelante with your life and leave him to suffer once he feels what it’s like to live without you.

8. Diviértete con otro hombre

A good way to show him that you are over him when he doesn’t text you back for days is to simply replace him with another man.

If you want him to feel bad just like you did while he wasn’t there, just make sure he knows that you have someone else in your life and that you are not planning to sit in your room and cry all day.

Demuéstrale que seguirás adelante con tu vida y que encontrarás a un hombre al que realmente le importes.

You can post photos of you and your new man on social media sites so your ex can see them and realize that he actually wasn’t able to hurt you.

Demuéstrale que, a pesar de todo lo que te ha hecho, tienes el valor y la fuerza para seguir adelante como si nada hubiera pasado.

Finge que estás superocupada y que tienes muchas cosas que hacer porque eso le hará pensar en lo que pasa en tu vida.

Los mejores consejos sobre relaciones es seguir adelante con tu vida después de que algo así ocurra.

A veces, todo lo que necesitas hacer para que pague por todo lo que te hizo es sé feliz. Tú te sentirás genial y él se sentirá como una mierda porque te perdió antes de tenerte de verdad.

9. Aceptar el hecho de que perdió interés

Si you haven’t heard from him durante días, tienes que aceptar lo que ha pasado. Debes saber que los chicos nunca ignorar a una mujer si están interesados en ella.

Only those who don’t want to have anything with her will behave like this. So, if he is one of those who started something and now he isn’t texting back, just know that he lost interest.

But even if he did, it is no big deal. He doesn’t actually know what kind of woman you are because he didn’t spend enough time getting to know you better.

It’s his loss, trust me, and you shouldn’t sweat the small stuff. Instead, you should just accept it as a sign and move on with your life in the best way you know how.

Don’t bother your head about why that happened. Don’t think it was all your fault. It isn’t. He’s just someone who couldn’t decide what he wants and that’s why this happened in the first place.

Déjale que siga con su vida y tú haz todo lo que esté en tu mano para disfrutar de la tuya.

10. Conoce tu valía

If you are facing a situation where he doesn’t text you back for days, the last thing you should do is blame yourself. You shouldn’t think that it’s all your fault and that you’re the problem in the relationship.

Think a little bit about him and the things he has done (or better said, hasn’t done) for you. If he made some effort, you definitely wouldn’t be standing there thinking about what went wrong.

Because of all those things, you should know your worth. If you know what kind of woman you are, you won’t suffer that much. I know it will be hard to get over him, especially if you two dated for some time, but it will be fine eventually.

If you have enough self-esteem and courage to let him go, you will be just fine. Only if you think you can’t move on without him will you end up in una relación infeliz where your voice won’t be heard.

And that is the last thing you want happening. So, instead of crying and worrying about why he left you and why he doesn’t contact you, move on as if nothing happened.

Cuanto antes te acostumbres a este tipo de situaciones, más fácil te resultará.

11.  Don’t let him make a fool out of you

Even if he’s stopped texting you, he can still try to make a fool out of you and tell you that he was trying to reach you but that he couldn’t.

If you let him get away with a story like this, just know that he will see that he can use you and he’ll do that every time he wants to.

Some guys are really good manipulators and are so experienced in what they do. They don’t have a problem looking you in the eyes and lying.

Dominan esa habilidad y no hay forma de ver que están estirando la verdad.

Si tu chico es así, intentará convencerte de que estaba intentando localizarte en el móvil, pero que nunca cogiste el teléfono.

He will make up a story that will seem so plausible that you’ll start asking yourself if you are going crazy. Just know that this is a tactic all manipulators and narcissists use and you should beware of it.

Whatever you do, don’t believe a word that comes out of his mouth.

A man who vanishes for days and acts completely normal once he comes back doesn’t deserve a place in your life nor in your heart.

12. Don’t argue with him

I know it hurts when he doesn’t text back for days, but the last thing you need is to argue with him. Just think about it.

If you call him and start arguing, he will accuse you of all the problems you had and tell you that he needed some space and that’s why he didn’t text you.

You will lose control, get upset, and start yelling at him. But when you think about it more, you really don’t need that stress in your life.

Why would you waste your precious time and nerves on a man who doesn’t deserve you?

Why would you do harm to yourself even if you know that it won’t change absolutely anything? So, just drop it, okay?

Don’t stoop so low and fight with him because that is what he wants. He wants to manipulate you and make you feel bad about yourself.

But I know you are cleverer than that and that you won’t let him do that. Instead of arguing with him, just ignore him because to people like him, ignorance is the best revenge.

Just leave him alone and don’t let him intimidate you. I know that is what he wants, but you should be smarter than him and don’t let him play his game.

Show him that he can’t mess around with you and that you won’t buy his shit just like that.

When he sees that you’re not going to be one of his victims that he can abuse emotionally and mentally, he will back off and let you live your life in peace.

Y créeme, eso es todo lo que necesitas para ser feliz.

13. Don’t even accept meeting him in person

Si ha decidido ponerse en contacto contigo después de tanto tiempo para conocerle en persona, mi consejo es que no lo hagas.

It is too late to fix things now that it’s convenient for him. He should have been there for you when you desperately needed him.

Debería haber estado ahí para responderte cuando mirabas la pantalla vacía preocupada por si estaba bien.

Don’t let him treat you like shit and don’t accept his stupid excuses. If he wanted to be with you, he would do so.

But if he went incognito for some time and decided to contact you when he didn’t have anyone to have fun with, don’t be available.

Because if you do, you will send him a message you really don’t want. If you accept all his lies, you will just let him know that he can have whatever he wants when he wants it.

Créeme, eso no es lo que una mujer debería recibir de un hombre con el que mantiene una relación.

Every woman needs respect, love, affection, and understanding. If you don’t have it now, you won’t have it later on either. Please, don’t ever forget that.

14. Sigue adelante con tu vida

The very best thing you can do when he doesn’t text back for days is to just move on with your life.

If he doesn’t want you to be a part of his life, that is totally okay and you shouldn’t make a big fuss about it. Why should you worry about a guy who doesn’t even call to tell you that he doesn’t feel anything for you?

He should have done that if he cared about you, but it was easier for him to just vanish without an explanation. That’s why you should forget all about him and move on.

I know it won’t be easy to get him out of your mind, but there are so many things you can do to make this process easier for yourself.

The biggest problem will be to make a decision that you don’t want anything to do with him. But but once you do that, things won’t be so bad.

You will learn to live without him. You’ll go out with your friends and finally do all those great things you always wanted to try.

You won’t be focused on him anymore; the main focus will be on you currently. And trust me, that is the best thing that can happen to you.

Una vez que aceptar el cambio en tu vida, por fin serás feliz.