Odio esperar... Por eso soy tan mala en las citas modernas
Las citas modernas parecen tan sencillas, pero son tan complicadas. El camino que lleva de las citas a una relación real es tan largo y agotador que te agota incluso antes de empezar un romance.
Patience is not one of my strong suits…especially when it comes to modern dating. I hate playing games and acting like I don’t care when I actually do.
Odio todos los cálculos y la planificación cuando se trata de mensajes de texto. ¿Quién envió primero el mensaje? ¿Debería retrasar mi respuesta? Si envío esto, ¿pareceré demasiado necesitado? etc.
That’s why I send a reply right away if I feel like it. I text first without giving it a second thought. I ignore when something doesn’t sit right with me.
No tengo miedo de admitir lo que siento aunque eso me haga parecer raro. Me gusta hablar las cosas y saber a qué atenerme. De lo contrario, siento que estoy perdiendo el tiempo.
I get accused of moving too fast and being too clingy when I am just being realistic. Shouldn’t you know after a month of dating if you want to enter a relationship or not?
En las citas modernas, parece que no. Se tarda varios meses, o en el peor de los casos años, en determinar si se está en una relación exclusiva o no.
It takes riding emotional roller coasters with men who don’t know what they want…who are afraid of relationships and any sort of commitment.
Hay que pasarse los días y las noches hablando, enviando mensajes de texto y snapchat a alguien, y dejarle entrar en tu corazón sólo para que pueda fantasmear contigo como si nunca hubieras existido y dejarte preguntándote qué pasó y dónde te equivocaste.
Isn’t it better to know where you stand with somebody as soon as possible?
It doesn’t have to be on your first date, but a month of dating, calling, texting and browsing through social media accounts should be more than enough if you ask me.
The longer the courtship or the dating game, the more you get attached to a certain person. You get so involved and so hooked, and if it doesn’t work out, it’s so much harder to get over them.
The more time you had with them, the more memories you created, and you felt like you are actually with them. But deep down, you know you have been strung along into something ‘almost’.
I hate that. I had that, and I don’t want to waste my time on anyone who is dándome largas.
I want to know what I mean to someone, and I want to know it as soon as possible. If we are compatible, if we’ve clicked and want to give ourselves a chance to start a relationship, why not try it right away?
What’s the point in waiting for forever when you know those things right away? You feel them from the start or you don’t feel them at all.
I am impatient; I know. But after I know that I am somebody’s girlfriend, I will slow down my pace without even trying. I will feel safe around that special somebody, and there will be no need to rush.
I won’t picture going down the aisle or having kids so early on. I am not that type. I want to build a relationship. I want to see if we can be happy together. I want to know if we can solve any obstacle that comes our way.
That’s the point at which I want to take things extra slow. I want to enjoy every second of it. If we don’t make it, at least we tried. We were brave enough to give ourselves a chance for love.
We weren’t ocultar nuestros sentimientos...enviando señales contradictorias, jugando con nuestras mentes o complicándonos la vida. Nos armamos de valor y nos lanzamos a por el amor.
Bluntness, clarity and knowing that I am walking on the same path with somebody. That’s all I want and all I am not getting in this modern dating world.
I know I suck at modern dating, and I know that’s mostly due to the fact that I am impatient and wear my heart on my sleeve. I know, and I don’t care. I am who I am, and I won’t change.
I hate waiting, but I am going to wait for someone who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid of saying it aloud.
Voy a esperar a alguien que apeste en las citas modernas tanto como yo.
