Odio aspettare... Ecco perché faccio schifo negli appuntamenti moderni

Gli appuntamenti moderni sembrano così semplici, eppure sono così complicati. La strada che porta da un appuntamento a una relazione vera e propria è così lunga ed estenuante che vi sfinisce prima ancora di iniziare una storia d'amore.

Patience is not one of my strong suits…especially when it comes to modern dating. I hate playing games and acting like I don’t care when I actually do.

Odio tutti i calcoli e le pianificazioni quando si tratta di sms. Chi ha mandato il primo messaggio a chi? Devo ritardare la mia replica? Se lo invio, sembrerò troppo bisognoso? ecc.

Pensare e ripensare a ogni tua mossa è frustrante. E uccide il divertimento negli appuntamenti.

That’s why I send a reply right away if I feel like it. I text first without giving it a second thought. I ignore when something doesn’t sit right with me.

Non ho paura di ammettere quello che provo, anche se questo mi fa sembrare strano. Mi piace parlare delle cose e sapere qual è la mia posizione. Altrimenti mi sembra di perdere tempo.

I get accused of moving too fast and being too clingy when I am just being realistic. Shouldn’t you know after a month of dating if you want to enter a relationship or not?

Negli appuntamenti moderni, a quanto pare, non è così. Ci vogliono diversi mesi, o nei casi peggiori anni, per stabilire se si è in una relazione esclusiva o meno.

It takes riding emotional roller coasters with men who don’t know what they want…who are afraid of relationships and any sort of commitment.

Bisogna passare i giorni e le notti a parlare, mandare messaggi e snapchatt a qualcuno e lasciarlo entrare nel proprio cuore solo perché poi possa ignorarti come se non fossi mai esistito e lasciarti a chiederti cosa è successo e dove hai sbagliato.

Isn’t it better to know where you stand with somebody as soon as possible?

It doesn’t have to be on your first date, but a month of dating, calling, texting and browsing through social media accounts should be more than enough if you ask me.

The longer the courtship or the dating game, the more you get attached to a certain person. You get so involved and so hooked, and if it doesn’t work out, it’s so much harder to get over them.

The more time you had with them, the more memories you created, and you felt like you are actually with them. But deep down, you know you have been strung along into something ‘almost’.

I hate that. I had that, and I don’t want to waste my time on anyone who is mi sta prendendo per i fondelli.

I want to know what I mean to someone, and I want to know it as soon as possible. If we are compatible, if we’ve clicked and want to give ourselves a chance to start a relationship, why not try it right away?

What’s the point in waiting for forever when you know those things right away? You feel them from the start or you don’t feel them at all.

I am impatient; I know. But after I know that I am somebody’s girlfriend, I will slow down my pace without even trying. I will feel safe around that special somebody, and there will be no need to rush.

I won’t picture going down the aisle or having kids so early on. I am not that type. I want to build a relationship. I want to see if we can be happy together. I want to know if we can solve any obstacle that comes our way.

That’s the point at which I want to take things extra slow. I want to enjoy every second of it. If we don’t make it, at least we tried. We were brave enough to give ourselves a chance for love.

We weren’t nascondere i nostri sentimentiche ci mandano segnali contrastanti, che fanno giochi mentali o che incasinano le nostre vite. Abbiamo raccolto il nostro coraggio e ci siamo buttati a capofitto nell'amore.

Bluntness, clarity and knowing that I am walking on the same path with somebody. That’s all I want and all I am not getting in this modern dating world.

I know I suck at modern dating, and I know that’s mostly due to the fact that I am impatient and wear my heart on my sleeve. I know, and I don’t care. I am who I am, and I won’t change.

I hate waiting, but I am going to wait for someone who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid of saying it aloud.

Aspetterò qualcuno che fa schifo quanto me agli appuntamenti moderni.