7 Razones por las que estás deprimido porque estás enamorado (Sí, es posible)

Por fin has encontrado a esa persona increíble que te quiere, te respeta y te cuida bien. Deberías estar delirantemente feliz, pero...

You’ve started feeling blue and decided that there must be something wrong with you to feel this way when you have all that you have.

Hold on… don’t jump to conclusions. It’s possible that your wonderful love is exactly what’s causing your sad, nostalgic feelings.

Things have changed for you, and you’re learning how to deal with it. Take a look at these 7 possible reasons why you’re depressed because you’re in love.

1. Salir con una persona agradable para variar te asusta

You’ve finally broken the awful pattern of dating toxic people, congratulations!

Now, being with someone who is nice, who treats you like you’re special, loves you, nurtures you, and is careful about what they say and do to you can feel strange.

Puede que en tu vida haya habido mucho caos que de repente ha desaparecido.

Everything you’re feeling right now probably just points to the fact that you need some time to get used to the new normal because this has obviously been a huge change for you.

2. Pensaste que tu relación resolvería todos tus problemas

Hay muchas personas que esperan que una vez que encuentren a su persona para siempre y mantengan una relación sana, llena de amor y respeto, todos sus problemas simplemente desaparecerán.

De ninguna manera una relación puede curar todos tus sentimientos de tristeza o vacío, ni resolver tus problemas más profundos, como la baja autoestima o la ansiedad.

Puede cambiar algo estar en un lugar seguro con una persona a la que quieres, pero para resolver de verdad tus problemas y crecer, tienes que trabajar en ello tú mismo.

3. Lack of drama bores you or you can’t get used to it

Puede que en tus relaciones anteriores hubiera mucho drama y ahora te sientas completamente perdido sin él.

The peace you’re feeling might be confused with boredom, don’t let yourself think that way.

It’s perfectly normal for it to take some getting used to, but don’t start thinking that you need all the drama in your life to be happy.

4. Tus sueños de persona para siempre se han cumplido

Algo te preocupó durante cierto tiempo: encontrar a tu persona para siempre. Ahora, cuando ya tienes a esa persona especial en tu vida, pareces menos ilusionado de lo que deberías. ¿Por qué?

This doesn’t mean that the person you’ve chosen isn’t right. It simply means that reaching your goal has left you somewhat aimless. It happens whenever we reach a goal in life and it’s perfectly okay.

Tu cerebro necesita estímulos y retos, así que debes encontrarlos en otras áreas de tu vida.

5. Establecerte te asusta por completo

It’s not that you’re freaked out by committing to that special someone. It’s just that settling down in general freaks you out – you just don’t like the idea.

Te hace sentir que tu vida se va a volver muy aburrida de repente.

The most important thing to remember is that your relationship doesn’t have to be like anyone else’s. It can be as exciting and thrilling as you want it to be.

The kind of life you consider less of a thrill than you need isn’t there waiting for you, it’s you who makes the decision how to live your own life.

6. You’ve lost yourself

Enamorarse es increíble, pero perderse en ese amor apesta por completo.

If your partner is the one who controls everything in your relationship, determining its course and you’re letting him, that can’t feel very good.

Puede que sientas que tus sueños están esperando mientras das todo lo que tienes a tu relación.

If you can’t remember the last time you did something you actually enjoyed, it’s time for you to change things.

Just because you’re in a loving relationship doesn’t mean you should abandon your personal interests.

7. Echas de menos la soltería

Now, this is absolutely normal. Just because you truly love someone doesn’t mean that a part of you doesn’t miss being single.

En primer lugar, la gente casi siempre siente que la hierba es más verde al otro lado.

Secondly, it’s a possibility that you didn’t really live life to the fullest while you were single and now you’re starting to regret that.

The best way to deal with this is to realize that there’s no reason you can’t have fun and truly live life to the fullest during your relationship days as well.

Being in a committed relationship shouldn’t mean that the fun ends there. If you’re with a partner who thinks otherwise, then you might want to reconsider your relationship.