Una asesora sentimental conmociona a todo el mundo al decir por qué las mujeres se quedan con hombres infieles 

Aunque para muchos la infidelidad es un motivo de ruptura, algunas personas deciden seguir con su pareja por muchas razones diferentes. 

Si nunca lo has experimentado, puede que te resulte difícil entender por qué alguien se quedaría con una pareja infiel. However, it’s more complicated than it seems.

Some people say it’s because the person has low self-esteem and they think they can’t do much better. But then, why the hell would Beyonce stay with Jay Z? That woman is the epitome of confidence!

Un TikTok me hizo reflexionar sobre todo este tema, pero también me provocó, para ser sincera. En el vídeo, un entrenador de relaciones dijo algo que provocó un gran debate.

“Women that accept cheating men are cheating women”

Sadia Khan (@sadiapsychology) has a totally different view on cheating that’s quite controversial. She was in a podcast where she talked about women who stay in a relationship even if they get cheated on.

Según ella, no son mejores que sus parejas, ya que dice que también son infieles. Lo explicó diciendo:

“Women that accept cheating men are cheating women. And women who don’t accept cheating men are the loyal ones.”

También añadió que ninguna mujer leal aceptaría ese comportamiento:

“Only unfaithful women are okay with that deal. I promise you. I work with them every single day.”

Well, this will ruffle some feathers for sure! I don’t think it’s really fair to generalize women since I know a lot of them who got cheated on but were always loyal. I’m sure hay mujeres a las que les puede parecer bien, ¡pero definitivamente no a todas!

Sadia explained her point by saying why loyal women would never stay and tolerate infidelity. However, women in the comments weren’t happy with her explanation and said she was completely wrong. 

La verdad sobre las mujeres que deciden quedarse

According to the relationship coach, loyal women can’t tolerate and handle cheating because they could never betray their partner like that.

Como dijo Sadia:

“What happens is that the woman that’s actually loyal and really loves you, she can’t handle the anxiety of it, she can’t do it ‘cause she’s too loyal, she’s too loving. She disappears, she makes her life hell, she’s horrible but she tends to be loyal.”

Por otro lado, a las mujeres infieles no les importa si su pareja las engaña because they’re usually in the relationship for other benefits:

“A woman who’s there for a paycheck and who is there sneaky accepting this and the other, I promise you, she’s plotting her revenge.”

I think it’s much more complex than that. My friend stayed with her boyfriend because she believed he made a mistake and regretted it. She realized later on she should’ve never forgiven him.

Y luego, como comentó un usuario, hay mujeres que se quedan por sus hijos and because they don’t want their families to fall apart.

One user even said she stayed because she had nowhere to go since she couldn’t financially support herself. And this is a pretty common situation. Another user commented:

“I disagree. Sometimes u stay in the hope the other person will change or because u can’t see yourself start over again. Ppl think they know it all this days.”

Only a few people agreed with Sadia and one even admitted she’s one of the women that tolerates cheating because of other things that relationship provides for her. She wrote:

“I’ve been cheated on. I stayed not because of love but because of all the other benefits. And yes, I’m plotting my revenge.” 

As I said, Sadia was definitely right about some women but her point can’t be applied to every toxic relationship since cada persona tiene una situación y un punto de vista diferentes sobre la infidelidad. 

Ultimately, deciding whether to stay or dump them is never easy. Whatever someone decides, we can’t judge them since we don’t know their full story.

However, tolerating disrespect and betrayal shouldn’t be normalized. This is why conversations about boundaries and self-respect will always be important. If you’re currently with a cheating partner, just know there’s always a way out and you deserve someone who’ll truly love you!