13 señales reveladoras de la culpa del marido infiel
Si estás buscando signos de culpabilidad de un marido infiel, ¡estás en el lugar adecuado!
El engaño es una de las comportamientos destructivos más frecuentes of married couples and it’s really easy to miss all the red flags and warning signs that have literally been in front of you the entire time.
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Y las redes sociales se lo han puesto más fácil a todos los tramposos (léase cónyuges tramposos) para perfeccionar su juego.
So, given that you’re here looking for signs of guilt from your possibly cheating husband, I assume you’ve already imagined all the worst case scenarios in your head.
I suppose you’ve already imagined el proceso del duelo and horrible pain of realizing that you’ve been cheated by your loved one and now you’re here to finally face the real truth.
Now, I’ll be completely honest with you.
Si ya tienes esa corazonada que te dice que tu marido te engaña y ha notado un cambio repentino en su comportamiento, ¡lo más probable es que su marido sea realmente un infiel!
But, sometimes – and I really mean sometimes – our feelings can be deceiving, forcing us to imagine things and assume the worst.
¿Sienten culpa los infieles?
Normalmente, tramposos feel guilt after some time but there are also those who don’t. It all depends on their type of personality and whether they still have feelings for you.
Let’s say that every cheating husband tends to exhibit signs of guilt at some point in marriage (if he has a soul, of course). So, the easiest way to find out what’s really up is by paying close attention to your husband’s behavior.
Perhaps your significant other is just going through a phase or has some problems that he simply doesn’t want to share with anyone.
Perhaps he has just locked himself in a “man cave” and needs some time to process his feelings and whatever he’s going through.
Now you’re probably wondering how the hell then you’re supposed to know what really is going on here.
Si usted nota cualquiera de los signos de culpabilidad marido infiel, puede ser el momento de tener una conversación seria con su cónyuge porque lo más probable es que he’s a cheater in disguise!
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¿Cómo saber si alguien es culpable de engaño?
Una de las mayores señales de que alguien es culpable de engaño es que evite las muestras públicas de afecto, actuar distanteser demasiado protector con su teléfono, evitar el contacto visual y cosas similares.
Hay muchos otros signos de que alguien es culpable de engañar y la mayoría de ellos incluyen actuar reservado y cambios drásticos en su estilo de vida y vida sexual hábitos también.
Someone who is guilty of cheating will be super stressed or upset most of the time (if they feel like they’ve done something terrible).
If the person doesn’t feel remorse, chances are they will not exhibit signs of being stressed but they will only act distant. If you need more signs of cheating husband guilt, you’ll find them all below!
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Signos de culpabilidad del marido infiel
He’s acting weird or distant
El mayor signo de culpabilidad de un marido infiel is a drastic change in his behavior – constantly acting weird or distant.
It’s because cheating partners have this tendency to cover up their sinful deeds and guilty conscience by avoiding eye contact, constantly being sad around you “for no reason,” and the like.
Todos estos signos son prueba de que se siente culpable por haberse desviado a otro lugar (si sabes a lo que me refiero).
Él gaslighting, ignoring you, and acting weird are a part of his defense mechanism strategy – to avoid reality, admitting “the crime,” and dealing with the problem.
Te colma (de repente) de cumplidos y regalos
Another common sign of a cheating husband’s guilt is him suddenly showering you with extra attention, tons of compliments, and regalos caros.
The only reason why he might be doing this out of the blue is because he feels guilty for doing things behind your back. He feels remorse for hiding the new relationship from his significant other – you.
Y ahora su conciencia le obliga a compensar su aventura siendo más atento, no faltando ni un día para decirte lo guapa que eres y volviéndose loco con la tarjeta de crédito.
Guilty people feel an internal pressure to treat their victims right, even though they know they’ve been acting like douchebags in secret. Strange, right?
He comes back home smelling fresh as a daisy after a “long day at work”
If your husband comes back home smelling fresh as a daisy, yet you know for a fact that he’s worked all day and after that kept sweating in a subway toward home, it’s a telltale sign that something’s really fishy.
Perhaps he decided to take a shower with his fellow coworker after some time they spent in a hotel because of “too much work” that couldn’t be delayed for another day.
Si prolonga constantemente el tiempo de trabajo poner excusas such as ‘he won’t make it because they have so much to finish and deadliness are killing them’, chances are he’s having an extramarital affair.
Also, that’s a perfect excuse for being unable to answer your phone calls.
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He’s overly jealous and accuses you of cheating
Cuando alguien tiene mala conciencia, siente el impulso de acusar a los demás de los mismos delitos.
So, one of the biggest signs of cheating husband guilt is him accusing you of cheating on him, even though he’s the only one being unfaithful in the first place.
La razón más frecuente por qué la gente engaña se debe a su baja autoestima y a la necesidad de sentirse más digno, lo que explica perfectamente su comportamiento celoso e inseguro.
And when you combine this with the feeling of guilt, there you have it – a recipe for lunacy, where he’s desperately trying to convince himself of something that is completely untrue.
He’s constantly complaining about your habits or appearance
Quejarte constantemente de tus hábitos y apariencia es otra señal de que he’s seeing someone else e involucrado en un incidente físico o aventura emocional.
By doing this, he’s trying to make you feel guilty for his selfish choices and using your “flaws” to justify his physical or infidelidad emocional.
So, if you notice that he all of a sudden has serious problems with your words or actions, beware – he might be doing it just because he’s looking for vindication for his cheating nature.
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He’s suddenly obsessed with the gym
If you know that he’s never been the gym type of man – that whenever you tried to motivate him to be more active in the past, he would simply choose to ignore you – yet now he’s suddenly obsessed with the gym, this could be because of the following reasons:
a) Ha cambiado de verdad y ha empezado a llevar una vida sana.
b) He’s cheating on you y quiere estar lo mejor posible para su nueva compañera.
c) He’s cheating on you and because of that, he has the need to “sweat the guilt” in the gym.
Si sabes a ciencia cierta que es imposible que la primera razón sea cierta porque conoces a tu marido hasta la médula, entonces ahí lo tienes.
Te presta más atención en las redes sociales
He likes your every post, comments how beautiful you are on every selfie, follows your every move on social media, and doesn’t seem to cease.
And when you go back to the past, you can’t remember the last time he liked anything on your profile, let alone left you a comment.
If this is happening to you, chances are your husband is feeling guilty for cheating on you and that’s the only reason why de repente te presta más atención en las redes sociales.
He wants to make it up to you and make himself feel better about what he’s doing behind your back. (Lame, I know.)
He’s overly protective of his cell phone
¿Su marido esconde su teléfono móvil like it’s something utterly confidential and you have no right to know what’s going on in his life?
Does he accuse you of overreacting every time you demand he tells what’s going on and why he keeps being so protective of his teléfono móvil?
If yes, your husband is probably involved in the cheating business and that’s why he can’t let you near his personal belongings, because he wouldn’t survive if you finally caught him in the act.
He wouldn’t be able to handle you knowing what he’s been doing behind your back all this time because he feels irreversibly guilty about it.
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He’s often unreachable and avoids spending time with you
If your husband is unreachable from time to time and always has a valid excuse for it, you shouldn’t really worry about it.
But, if he constantly refuses to answer your phone calls and most of the time you have no idea where he really is, he might be hiding things from you and that’s why he avoids spending time with you.
Todo tramposo es un maestro en ocultar su paradero real porque tiene que tener una coartada sólida que cubra perfectamente su infidelidad.
Y todo infiel sabe también que apagar el móvil y estar ilocalizable es una de las formas más fáciles de evitar preguntas sobre su paradero.
They also know that turning off their cell phone is a perfect cover when they’re “in the middle of the action.”
De repente deja de decir te quiero
¿Cuándo fue la última vez que su marido le expresó su amor con esas tres palabras? Te quiero? ¿Está buscando activamente signs he doesn’t love you ¿Ya no?
If you can’t remember the exact time, then it’s probably been a while since the last time he actually said it.
Verás, este es uno de los mayores signos de culpabilidad del marido infiel porque los infieles suelen dejar de decir esas tres palabras cuando se sienten extremadamente culpables por hacer cosas a tus espaldas.
If they said it, it would sound really wrong because their initial feelings for you are now scattered all over the place and they literally have no idea what they’re doing.
There’s a sudden change in your sex life
El cambio repentino puede incluir más sexo del habitual o nada de sexo.
If your husband has a sudden thirst for making love with you and simply can’t get enough of it, it may be because otra mujer ha despertado su pasión.
Or perhaps he feels extremely guilty for what he’s doing to you and he’s trying to make it up to you in bed.
If this is the case with him, also pay attention to whether he’s suggesting new hot positions and other things that you haven’t done before – he’s probably doing it because he learned it elsewhere.
Also, if you can’t remember the last time you made love, chances are he’s never initiating it because he’s already doing it with someone else.
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Empieza a adoptar comportamientos poco saludables
When we’re feeling guilty about doing something, it’s likely that we’ll start looking for pacifiers and something to help us cope with the feeling of confusion and guilty conscience.
So, if your husband has never been a fan of smoking, drinking, or consuming drugs, and now he’s doing it, the trigger for his unhealthy behavior could be guilt caused by him cheating on you.
Probablemente espera que este nuevo hábito poco saludable le ayude a superar todo esto sin sentir muchos remordimientos, pero al final, todos nos derrumbamos cuando nos enfrentamos a la verdad real y a sus consecuencias.
Amenaza con terminar la relación
This often happens during a fight, so pay close attention to whether he ever says it when you’re having a disagreement.
Si amenaza con poner fin a la relación, he probably can’t stand his guilty conscience any longer. However, it could also mean that he’s not afraid of you leaving him because he now has a replacement for you.
In most cases, it is a mix of both: being unable to stay in the current relationship because of guilt-ridden feelings, as well as feeling encouraged to end the relationship because he’s already safe – he already has someone else.
Así que, si su marido nunca le ha sugerido poner fin a la relación hasta ahora, tal vez quiera tener una conversación seria con él y preguntarle qué está pasando exactamente.
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¿Cómo actúan los infieles cuando se les confronta?
One of the most famous sayings by cheaters when confronted is the following: “You’re being paranoid.” If you confront a cheater, he will at first act like they have no idea what you’re talking about.
Negarán la existencia de una aventura y también podrían acusarte de ser demasiado insegura y celos en una relación.
Serial cheaters will do their best to successfully send you on a guilt trip. They will try to make you feel like you’re doing something bad just by suspecting their loyalty (even though you have every right to do so).
No todos los infieles reaccionan de la misma manera cuando se les confronta, pero aquí hay algunos dichos comunes que son populares entre los infieles:
- “I swear to you that it didn’t mean anything.”
- “I did it because you were acting distant all the time.”
- “I actually don’t know why I did it.”
- “It just happened.”
- “Wait, wait, it’s not what it looks like!”
- “It was just sex, I swear.”
- “I didn’t want to herirte.”
- “He/she came to me!”
- “I’m not in love with you anymore.”
- “This happened a long time ago and it’s over now. I want you and not them.”
- “I’m not happy with you.”
Here’s my personal experience regarding cheaters. After my ex-boyfriend cheated on me, I’ve noticed that he’s experiencing severe cambios de humor todo el tiempo.
Well, back then I didn’t suspect anything because I thought it was connected with his stressful job. After some time, I asked him openly to tell me if there’s something I should know.
Lo hice porque empecé a notar otros signos de engaño, como que protegía demasiado su teléfono y cosas similares. Él negó todas las acusaciones, me llamó paranoica y todo eso.
But a few days later, the feelings of guilt took their toll on him and he admitted that he’s been having an affair for some time now. No, we’re no longer together.
¿Cómo saber si está arrepentido de haberte engañado?
The easiest way to tell if your husband is remorseful after cheating is by observing his overall behavior. If he’s remorseful, he will take responsibility for his actions, be honest about what happened and give his best to rebuild trust again.
Here’s how you’ll know that he’s showing real remorse after cheating:
Será responsable de sus actos
You know he’s showing real remorse if he takes on the full responsibility for what happened. He will answer all your questions and he will not try to blame anyone for his actions.
En su lugar, le hará saber que su la decisión de hacer trampa fue su elección and he’s truly sorry for that.
He will not try to accuse you of anything but he will show shame and he will let you know that it’s totally okay for you to be mad and disappointed in him.
Un hombre que muestra remordimiento intentará ver las cosas desde otra perspectiva. Se pondrá en tu lugar y comprenderá que tienes todo el derecho a... sentirse herido y traicionado.
Será paciente contigo y comprensivo
He won’t tell you things like: You’re overreacting. It didn’t mean anything to me. He certainly won’t tell you to get over it because he understands the seriousness of his actions.
Instead, he will listen to you and tell you that he’s there for you. He will share the pain you feel and he will not force your recovery from this traumatic event and betrayal.
Será completamente honesto contigo
He will be completely honest about what happened. He won’t try to justify his behavior but he will tell you exactly how betrayal happened.
No, he won’t tell you that they were good friends and she needed support, so things went in the wrong direction. He also won’t tell you that he doesn’t know how it happened.
En lugar de eso, te dará respuestas concisas y sinceras sobre la aventura. Compartirá todos los detalles y usted no tendrá que cuestionar su honradez. You will see in his eyes that he’s telling the truth.
Hará un esfuerzo por avanzar
No se limitará a contarle los detalles de la aventura, sino que hará un serio esfuerzo por seguir adelante. Puede que te sugiera terapia de pareja, terapia psicológica, leer libros sobre relaciones, etc.
Y lo que es más importante poner un serio esfuerzo en ti. He will not expect you to just get over it and leave him alone. You will not have to beg him to prove to you that he’s willing to make things right this time and compensate for his mistakes.
No jugará al juego de echar las culpas a otros.
He won’t tell you that your lack of effort and attention motivated him to do such a stupid thing. He also won’t tell you that he felt neglected in a relationship and because of that decided to be with another woman.
He will know that he can’t find a valid excuse for his past behavior. If the problem was your relationship, he could have told you to talk about it and try to fix things together.
If the problem was a lack of effort and attention, he could have told you that he wasn’t happy and something needed to change. He didn’t do any of that but he chose to cheat on you.
Because of that, he doesn’t have the right to play el juego de las culpas. All he can do is accept the consequences for his actions and hope that one day you’ll be able to forgive him (assuming that he’s truly sorry for that and he’s trying hard to win your trust again).
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Será un libro abierto
Dado que la traición rompe la confianza, debe estar dispuesto a compartir contigo cosas sobre su paradero y su vida cotidiana. Si un hombre está realmente arrepentido de lo ocurrido, a partir de ahora será un libro abierto contigo.
Él no jugar o dejarte pensar demasiado las cosas. Sabrá que llevará tiempo crear confianza de nuevo y ser un libro abierto es la única manera de hacerlo.
También podría darte las contraseñas de sus cuentas en sus dispositivos para demostrarte que no tiene nada que ocultar y que puedes confiar plenamente en él.
Not every man will do this, but if he does, then you can be one hundred percent sure that he’s showing real remorse after cheating.
He’ll openly express remorse for his actions
He won’t just tell you I’m sorrypero hará más que eso. Expresará su remordimiento de múltiples maneras, desde escucharte hasta hacerte sentir especial.
He will openly express that he’s terribly sorry for lastimándote and betraying your trust and he will not say it only once. He’ll repeat it over and over again until you tell him to stop.
His actions will show you that he really means it. He will not solely rely on his words but he’ll make damn sure to do everything in his power to win your trust again.
That’s how you know that a man is truly sorry for his mistakes and that he’s determined to make things right this time.
Compensará (cuando sea posible)
Feeling remorse doesn’t only mean saying I’m sorry y fingir que todo va bien. Requiere mucha comprensión y aceptación del hecho de que la traición es algo más que pérdidas emocionales.
La pérdida de tiempo también debe tenerse en cuenta. Dado que desamor can’t be reversed, the best way to compensate is to give you his time, patience, and a promise that he won’t give up winning your trust again.
He will know that he can’t mend your broken heart overnight but he can help you feel better and he can put an effort into improving your relationship. He will know that giving you his time is the least he can do right now.
Nunca exigirá la reconciliación
Cuando un hombre está realmente arrepentido de sus actos, tu felicidad se convierte en su prioridad. No será egoísta ni exigirá una reconciliación. En lugar de eso, te pedirá perdón y esperará que seas capaz de perdonarle, al menos parcialmente, por el momento.
That is how you know that this time he doesn’t only think about himself. A man who feels remorse will never force you to forgive him.
He will give you enough time to recover from what happened and he will let you know that he’ll be there for you in case you want to talk to him.
A man who feels remorse will never demand reconciliation but will do his best to prove to you that he’s worthy of una segunda oportunidad.
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Reflexiones finales
If the majority of the signs of cheating husband guilt ring true and you’re suspecting your husband is having an affair, please don’t do anything stupid or jump to conclusions yet before having a serious talk with him. After that, give yourself some time for recuperación de la aventura.
I know it’s hard to stay sane in the situation you’re in. It’s hard to prevent yourself from not bursting into tears.
But instead of doing all of that, it’s better to speak to your husband – tell him everything that’s on your heart and demand answers for his suspicious behavior.
Recuerda que, sea cual sea el resultado, ¡tú sales ganando!
If he tells you that he is feeling off lately but has never cheated on you and apologizes to you for even making you think that, you’ll save yourself the agony of uncertainty and find a way to work things out.
If he admits that he’s been cheating on you, you will no pierdas ni un segundo más en alguien que no es digno de estar contigo (a menos que te demuestre lo contrario).
And, remember, it’s all in the eyes! Pay attention to his body language, the way he’s expressing himself, and especially his eyes – they tell more than words could ever say! (I’ve learned all this the hard way.)
