Si te quisiera, no te daría motivos para dudar de Él

Cuando te encuentras en una relación malsana, intentas justificar todo lo que la otra persona te está haciendo.

You make excuses for the bad treatment you keep receiving and you try to find love in places where it clearly doesn’t exist.

Y en este proceso, olvidas cómo debería ser el amor verdadero. Te olvidas de cómo debe comportarse un hombre que realmente se preocupa por ti.

And you refuse to see the fact that the man you are with now obviously doesn’t love you enough, as soon as he treats you the way he does.

Porque si te quisiera, nunca te haría dudar de él, de sus intenciones o de sus sentimientos.

Nunca te daría una razón para dudar de él o de vuestra relación. Y esto es exactamente lo que sigues haciendo.

Déjame decirte una cosa—no estás loca por sentirte así. No estás imaginando cosas y te sientes inseguro en tu relación por una razón.

Porque si tu hombre realmente te amara, nunca jugaría estos juegos mentales que está jugando contigo.

He would never make you chase him and he wouldn’t pretend to be hard to get.

He wouldn’t make you second-guess his emotions or look for hidden meanings behind his words and actions.

He would never give you a reason not to trust him or to seek hidden clues of his love. He would never make you dig deep to find his emotions, which he isn’t showing.

When a man cares for you, he doesn’t have a problem showing it to you.

He doesn’t pretend to be this tough guy who isn’t in touch with his yo vulnerable and he certainly doesn’t act like he is scared of letting you in, when he is clearly isn’t.

If a man loves you, he isn’t emotionally unavailable and you don’t sentirse emocionalmente abandonado. Todo lo demás son tonterías y excusas.

He doesn’t leave you waiting for his reply and he doesn’t put you through more sleepless nights in which you are trying to decode what he meant when he said or did something.

He doesn’t make you wonder if he sees you as something temporary or if he considers your relationship as something that has the potential to last a lifetime.

If this man loved you, you wouldn’t be this scared of him leaving you.

You wouldn’t be aware that the two of you don’t have a future together and you wouldn’t be preparing yourself for him walking away from you any day now.

You wouldn’t feel alone in your relationship, the way you are feeling now. You wouldn’t wonder why you aren’t enough y nunca dudarías de su nivel de compromiso.

When a man loves you, he is always there for you; he doesn’t come and go as he likes, expecting you to always be there, where he left you, patiently waiting for him to come crawling back.

He doesn’t call you only when he needs you and he doesn’t treat you as convenient.

The man who loves you won’t text you only when he is drunk and when he’s run out of all other options.

He doesn’t give you a reason to doubt his fidelity and he makes it clear that you are the only woman he could ever be with.

Because when you love someone, you don’t walk out on them at the first glance of a problem. You don’t make them doubt if they can rely on you and you never leave them hanging.

You don’t blame the other person for all the problems that you guys have and you take responsibility for your words and actions.

Luchas por esta relación porque también es importante para ti.

Y para ser honesta, así no es como se comporta este tipo. Así no es como te trata y tú lo sabes muy bien, aunque te niegues a admitirlo.

Entonces, ¿por qué sigues conformándote con su amor a medias, cuando sabes que no es el de verdad?

¿Por qué sigues entregándote por completo a alguien que te hace sentir así?

Porque la verdad es que te mereces mucho más. Te mereces una relación estable y sana y una conexión profunda.

You deserve a love that you know will stay and a man who won’t make you doubt him.