15 señales obvias de que un hombre Acuario te está utilizando (¡cuidado!)
Una cosa es segura. Si un hombre Acuario es serio acerca de usted, él no va a jugar juegos mentales. En su lugar, se asegurará de expresar su afecto de varias maneras.
Por desgracia, no todo es blanco o negro. Sometimes it’s really hard to realize whether an Aquarius guy is falling for you or if he’s actually usándote.
Their charming nature can fool you into thinking you’re their number one priority when in reality, you’re just an option.
La forma más fácil de saber lo que realmente está pasando es comprobar las siguientes señales de que un hombre Acuario te está utilizando. Si la mayoría de estas señales coinciden contigo, ya sabes a qué atenerte.
15 Señales de que un hombre Acuario te está utilizando
If he has difficulty keeping his promises or prefers superficial conversations with you, then you know he’s not genuinely in love with you. Here are all the most common signs an Aquarius man is using you, so beware.
1. Evita pasar tiempo de calidad contigo como la peste
Los hombres Acuario son curiosos y abiertos por naturaleza. Lo mismo se aplica a las mujeres Acuario.
This means they always make sure to come up with creative date ideas regardless if it’s your first date or 5th.
So, if he’s not genuinely interested in you but is only interested in using you, he will avoid spending quality time with you like the plague.
En otras palabras, no sentirá la necesidad de esforzarse e impresionarte con sus tendencias románticas. To him, Netflix and chill is enough because he’s not interested in connecting with you on a deeper level.
He’ll also avoid maintaining eye contact because he’s not interested in pursuing you like a hombre de verdad pero usándote como un niño inmaduro.
2. Sólo te dice lo que quiere que sepas
Do you know that feeling when you’re with someone you’re crazy about, and you can’t help but ask them a million questions to get to know them better?
Well, the problem arises when you’re that person, but they aren’t. If he only tells you what he wants you to know, consider this a red flag.
If he’s unwilling to share his personal life with you, including his likes and dislikes, it means he doesn’t want you to be part of his world.
He’s only interested in keeping you at a distance so that he can come to you whenever it’s convenient for him.
3. His friends and family are a “forbidden realm” for you
Cuando un El hombre Acuario está enamorado de ti, he can’t wait for you to meet his friends and family. He wants to share you with the whole world because he’s so proud of being with you.
Hace todo lo posible para que te sientas parte esencial de su vida. Well, if he doesn’t do any of that, you can be sure his intentions with you are not romantic.
If he always makes excuses about why you can’t meet his friends and family, know that he’s not even trying to make this happen. Why?
Because he doesn’t want you to be in his close circle. That way, it’s harder for him to manipulate you. Also, it will scream something serious, which he’s definitely not ready for.
4. Te ataca cuando menos te lo esperas
Como sus compañeros signos de aire (Géminis y Libra), Acuario es un pensador, un comunicador y un hacedor.
Un hombre Acuario se lo piensa dos veces antes de decir algo porque analizarlo todo es su rutina. (Y no, en el fondo no son perfeccionistas como Virgos.)
What I’m trying to say is that Aquarians don’t normally lash out at someone out of the blue if they care about the person. Sin embargo, si lo hacen, ni siquiera se molestarán en activar sus tendencias empáticas y comprensivas.
If you notice that he’s constantly criticizing you or gets annoyed by little things you do, know that he’s not really focused on how his actions influence you.
Su intenciones tóxicas are what motivate him to act badly towards you. And no, he doesn’t feel remorse no matter what he does or says to you.
You could tell him that his behavior hurts you, but he will only tell you that you’re overreacting and imagining things.
5. Cumplir sus promesas es misión imposible
He says that he’ll pick you up at 5, but he comes half an hour later. He says that next week you’re going on an adventure, but this never happens.
Sea lo que sea lo que te prometa, no puede cumplirlo. Why? The answer is simple: Because he’s not even trying to.
If an Aquarius guy has a deep affection for you, keeping his promises will be his holy duty. He won’t have a problem doing so because he respects you and cares about how you feel.
Remember that. You know an Aquarius male is using you if he doesn’t really care whether he keeps his promises or not. The only thing he cares about is himself.
6. Comprometerse es imposible
¿Los hombres Acuario tienen problemas para comprometerse con los demás? Sí, los tienen. ¿Sabes quién más es malo en el compromiso? Taurus, Capricornioy Leo hombres.
La forma más fácil de saber si le gustas o no a un hombre Acuario es poner a prueba su capacidad de compromiso. As a matter of fact, you don’t even need to test this because he will let you know either way.
Let’s say that you want to go for a walk and he wants to have a movie night. Do you think he would say something like, “Okay, we can go for a walk now, and tomorrow we can watch a movie”?
Of course, he wouldn’t! And I bet there are many situations similar to this that you’ve already experienced with him. Otra cosa sobre los hombres Acuario: Son tercos como el infierno.
Regardless of whether you’re trying to compromise with him or explain something to him, he will have a hard time understanding it. (Especially if he doesn’t care that much about you.)
7. Fantasmas frecuentes
Most of the time, you have no idea where he is, what he’s doing, or what exactly is going on in his life. Fantasmas frecuentes se ha convertido en la nueva normalidad.
A veces, ignora tus mensajes de texto durante días, semanas e incluso meses. ¿Y tú qué haces? Sigues buscando nuevas excusas para justificar su comportamiento.
If he tells you that he’s busy, you never question it. Sea sincero consigo mismo.
Do you truly think someone can be so busy that they don’t have a few seconds or a few minutes in their day to text you back?
He does have time to tell you that he’ll text you or call you later. He does have time to reassure you that everything is fine but that he’s a bit busy at the moment.
But he doesn’t do it. Why? Because he obviously doesn’t care about you the way you care about him.
He doesn’t feel the need to keep you updated about his whereabouts and current situation because it’s easier to ghost you and use you when he needs you.
8. Su egoísmo está presente en todos los aspectos
Selfish men are some of the biggest destroyers of a woman’s mental health. I’ve dealt with several, one of them being the famous Aquarius.
I was convinced that he was into me because everything went smoothly, well, until it didn’t. The first red flag I noticed was his selfishness. Once he hooked me, he just decided to stop paying me attention but didn’t stop asking for it.
Así que, mientras yo me desvivía por complacerle, su egoísmo crecía como un cáncer. Además, era un desagradecido. (Hablando de señales legítimas un hombre Acuario te está usando).
Si todo esto le resuena, sepa que el hombre que conoció inicialmente no era el verdadero él. Fingió que le importabas sólo para conseguir lo que quería de ti: toda tu atención.
Ahora que lo tiene, se siente libre para mostrar su verdadero rostro sin preocuparse de que algo cambie. Bueno, ¿lo hará? Mientras apruebes tu socio egoísta’s behavior, nothing will ever change.
Reconoce que este hombre te ha estado utilizando para sus fines egoístas que nada tienen que ver con el verdadero amor o afecto.
9. Su relación es principalmente sexual
¿Te ve sólo por sexo o hay algo más? ¿Está interesado en conocerte mejor o sólo finge estarlo?
Al igual que Sagitario, an Hombre Acuario le gustan las conversaciones profundas y estimulantes, y es de mente abierta. When they date someone they’re into, they can’t help but make it as meaningful as possible.
Esto incluye hacer montones de preguntas que inviten a la reflexión, sugerir nuevas aventuras y conversaciones filosóficas hasta altas horas de la madrugada, en fin.
If he doesn’t act this way but is only interested in sexual activities devoid of meaning and passion (something Piscis, Escorpioo Aries hombres no pueden entender), entonces su relación no tiene futuro.
It’s definitely not easy to say, but he’s just using you for sex and other things he can freely get from you.
He’s not interested in any kind of emotional investment but in hookups and fleeting romances that have no future.
10. You can’t rely on him even if your life depended on it
If you can’t rely on “your” Aquarian man, know that this is a huge red flag. Of course, canceling plans can happen to anyone from time to time, but si esto se convierte en la norma, entonces deberías preocuparte.
• “I’m sorry, but I won’t be able to make it today. Can you, please, cancel our dinner?”
• “I know I said I’ll do it, but (something) happened, and I couldn’t.”
• “Sorry, but now is not the right time.”
• “I’m afraid I can’t help you with this.”
Do any or all of the above statements sound familiar to you? If yes, then you know who you’re dealing with.
Your man is someone you definitely can’t rely on regardless of the circumstances. His ability to make excuses is outstanding, and it seems like it is never the right time for anything.
Regardless of whether you need some advice or only for him to listen to you, he won’t be there for you. He’ll be busy doing other things and not caring about you at all.
11. Prefiere conversaciones superficiales contigo
Signos zodiacales de Acuario are people who need constant intellectual stimulation. They’re usually not interested in small talk or any type of superficial conversation.
Entonces, ¿por qué un hombre Acuario prefiere conversaciones superficiales contigo? You see where I’m going with all this.
La única razón por la que preferiría este tipo de conversación es que he’s playing games with you. If he wanted something serious with you, he would initiate intellectual convos all the time because it’s in his nature.
He knows he can’t be with someone who’s not on the same page as him when it comes to these things. So, if he doesn’t Pon a prueba tu compatibilidad intelectual, you can be sure he’s just wasting your time.
12. No le gusta hablar del futuro
While his body language might reveal that he’s interested, if his actions don’t match, then you know he’s not worthy of your time.
Another clear sign he’s not into you is him avoiding conversations about the future, and not only that, he’ll also avoid making plans in advance.
La principal razón por la que evita hacerlo es para no tomarse las cosas demasiado en serio contigo. It’s clear that he doesn’t see a future with you at the moment (or he never will), but he’s not ready to lose you.
Well, he’s not ready to let you go because there is still something you’re giving him without expecting anything in return. Think about what that thing is, and you’ll have your answer.
Perhaps it’s sex, emotional support, or enjoying your company without him needing to make an effort to deserve it. Needless to say that you deserve better.
13. He doesn’t support or respect you
You could talk to him about your life goals and passions for an hour, and he wouldn’t even bat an eyelid. He pretends that he’s listening to you when in reality, he’s thinking about new ways he can get what he wants from you without earning it.
It’s clear ni te apoya ni te respetacuáles son los mayores signos de que un hombre Acuario te está utilizando.
Well, if he respected you, he wouldn’t make you question things, and you wouldn’t be here today reading my humble words.
Don’t get me wrong. It’s good that you’re here today, but his behavior towards you definitely isn’t, and you deserve someone who will be there for you no matter what.
If your intuition is telling you that this man is not even trying to treat you like a woman deserves to be treated, then that’s all you need.
14. Hacerse el duro es su pasatiempo favorito
Acuario es el signo zodiacal del portador de agua. Pueden ser bastante impredecibles tanto en las relaciones como en la vida en general.
A veces, un hombre Acuario optará por hacerse el difícil sólo para llamar su atención y ver si realmente se preocupan por él. But if he does this frequently or all the time, then you know he’s not really into you.
Tengo algunas preguntas que hacerle:
• Do you constantly feel like you’re in the middle of a hot and cold game?
• Does he change his behavior when you start chasing him?
• Does he act like he’s totally disinterested in you only to change his opinion minutes/hours later?
Dear lady, you’re in the middle of a roller-coaster game that Aquarius plays when they’re only interested in using you and not caring about you.
Créeme, nada cambiará si tú también decides hacerte el duro. Ignorar a un hombre Acuario puede captar su atención durante un tiempo, pero a la larga, todo seguirá igual.
15. Tus emociones son lo que más le gusta para jugar
If an Aquarius man has a crush on you or is in love with you, he’ll see you as his best friend, lover, and a special person. Your emotions will matter to him, and he will not want to play with you in any way.
If your emotions are his favorite thing to play with, know that he’s not interested in pursuing your heart but is interested in following his selfish tendencies.
He obviously doesn’t care about how his ghosting, harsh words, or lack of empathy affect you.
He plays with your heart and emotions while knowing that you don’t deserve this treatment but instead someone to take care of you wholeheartedly and selflessly.
¿Cómo saber si un hombre Acuario está mintiendo?
La forma más fácil de saber que un hombre Acuario está mintiendo es cuando intenta cambiar de tema y desviar tu atención hacia otra cosa.
So, if you start questioning his lies and demand answers, he’ll think of something neutral that doesn’t give you much to overthink.
After that, he’ll ask you a question only to make you forget what you even asked him in the first place. They use this tactic to make their lies less important than they are.
When an Aquarius man is lying, he’ll try to cover it in various ways. At first, he’ll try to make the situation less serious than it is and then bombard you with different questions.
If you don’t fall for it, then he’ll accuse you of overreacting and imagining everything. So, that’s how you know he’s a liar.
Para concluir
Una de las mayores señales de que un hombre Acuario te está utilizando es que evita tener conversaciones profundas y sólo te dice lo que quiere que oigas.
He will do his best to always keep you at a distance so that he can return when it’s convenient for him. His intentions are solely directed to his selfish needs.
Un hombre Acuario te utilizará tanto tiempo como se lo permitas. Ahora, la pregunta es, ¿quieres o cuánto tiempo se lo permites?
If you truly care about him while he’s only playing games, then your relationship has no future. He knows this, too, but the main difference between you and him is that he doesn’t really care.
