15 segni evidenti che un uomo Acquario ti sta usando (attenzione!)
Una cosa è certa. Se un uomo Acquario fa sul serio con voi, non farà giochetti mentali. Al contrario, si assicurerà di esprimere il suo affetto in vari modi.
Purtroppo, non tutto è bianco o nero. Sometimes it’s really hard to realize whether an Aquarius guy is falling for you or if he’s actually utilizzando voi.
Their charming nature can fool you into thinking you’re their number one priority when in reality, you’re just an option.
Il modo più semplice per sapere cosa sta succedendo è controllare i seguenti segni che un uomo dell'Acquario vi sta usando. Se la maggior parte di questi segni vi corrisponde, allora sapete dove vi trovate.
15 segni che un uomo dell'Acquario ti sta usando
If he has difficulty keeping his promises or prefers superficial conversations with you, then you know he’s not genuinely in love with you. Here are all the most common signs an Aquarius man is using you, so beware.
1. Evita come la peste di passare del tempo di qualità con voi.
Gli uomini Acquario sono curiosi e aperti per natura. Lo stesso vale per le donne Acquario.
This means they always make sure to come up with creative date ideas regardless if it’s your first date or 5th.
So, if he’s not genuinely interested in you but is only interested in using you, he will avoid spending quality time with you like the plague.
In altre parole, non sentirà il bisogno di fare uno sforzo e di impressionarvi con le sue tendenze romantiche. To him, Netflix and chill is enough because he’s not interested in connecting with you on a deeper level.
He’ll also avoid maintaining eye contact because he’s not interested in pursuing you like a uomo vero ma usando te come un ragazzo immaturo.
2. Ti dice solo quello che vuole che tu sappia
Do you know that feeling when you’re with someone you’re crazy about, and you can’t help but ask them a million questions to get to know them better?
Well, the problem arises when you’re that person, but they aren’t. If he only tells you what he wants you to know, consider this a red flag.
If he’s unwilling to share his personal life with you, including his likes and dislikes, it means he doesn’t want you to be part of his world.
He’s only interested in keeping you at a distance so that he can come to you whenever it’s convenient for him.
3. His friends and family are a “forbidden realm” for you
Quando un L'uomo Acquario è innamorato di te, he can’t wait for you to meet his friends and family. He wants to share you with the whole world because he’s so proud of being with you.
Fa del suo meglio per farvi sentire una parte essenziale della sua vita. Well, if he doesn’t do any of that, you can be sure his intentions with you are not romantic.
If he always makes excuses about why you can’t meet his friends and family, know that he’s not even trying to make this happen. Why?
Because he doesn’t want you to be in his close circle. That way, it’s harder for him to manipulate you. Also, it will scream something serious, which he’s definitely not ready for.
4. Si scaglia contro di voi quando meno ve lo aspettate.
Come i suoi compagni segnali aerei (Gemelli e Bilancia), l'Acquario è un pensatore, un comunicatore e un esecutore.
L'uomo Acquario ci pensa due volte prima di dire qualcosa, perché analizzare tutto è la sua routine. (E no, non sono perfezionisti nel cuore come Vergine.)
What I’m trying to say is that Aquarians don’t normally lash out at someone out of the blue if they care about the person. Tuttavia, se lo fanno, non si preoccupano nemmeno di attivare le loro tendenze empatiche e di comprensione.
If you notice that he’s constantly criticizing you or gets annoyed by little things you do, know that he’s not really focused on how his actions influence you.
Il suo intenzioni tossiche are what motivate him to act badly towards you. And no, he doesn’t feel remorse no matter what he does or says to you.
You could tell him that his behavior hurts you, but he will only tell you that you’re overreacting and imagining things.
5. Mantenere le promesse è una missione impossibile
He says that he’ll pick you up at 5, but he comes half an hour later. He says that next week you’re going on an adventure, but this never happens.
Qualsiasi cosa vi prometta, non può mantenerla. Why? The answer is simple: Because he’s not even trying to.
If an Aquarius guy has a deep affection for you, keeping his promises will be his holy duty. He won’t have a problem doing so because he respects you and cares about how you feel.
Remember that. You know an Aquarius male is using you if he doesn’t really care whether he keeps his promises or not. The only thing he cares about is himself.
6. Il compromesso è fuori discussione
Gli uomini Acquario hanno problemi a scendere a compromessi con gli altri? Oh sì, ce l'hanno. Sapete chi altro non sa scendere a compromessi? Toro, Capricorno, e Leone uomini.
Il modo più semplice per sapere se un uomo Acquario è interessato a voi o meno è quello di testare le sue capacità di compromesso. As a matter of fact, you don’t even need to test this because he will let you know either way.
Let’s say that you want to go for a walk and he wants to have a movie night. Do you think he would say something like, “Okay, we can go for a walk now, and tomorrow we can watch a movie”?
Of course, he wouldn’t! And I bet there are many situations similar to this that you’ve already experienced with him. Un'altra cosa sugli uomini Acquario: Sono testardi da morire.
Regardless of whether you’re trying to compromise with him or explain something to him, he will have a hard time understanding it. (Especially if he doesn’t care that much about you.)
7. Frequente ghosting
Most of the time, you have no idea where he is, what he’s doing, or what exactly is going on in his life. Frequente ghosting è diventata la nuova normalità.
A volte ignora i vostri messaggi per giorni, settimane o addirittura mesi. E voi cosa fate? Continuate a trovare nuove scuse per giustificare il suo comportamento.
If he tells you that he’s busy, you never question it. Siate onesti con voi stessi.
Do you truly think someone can be so busy that they don’t have a few seconds or a few minutes in their day to text you back?
He does have time to tell you that he’ll text you or call you later. He does have time to reassure you that everything is fine but that he’s a bit busy at the moment.
But he doesn’t do it. Why? Because he obviously doesn’t care about you the way you care about him.
He doesn’t feel the need to keep you updated about his whereabouts and current situation because it’s easier to ghost you and use you when he needs you.
8. Il suo egoismo è presente in ogni aspetto
Selfish men are some of the biggest destroyers of a woman’s mental health. I’ve dealt with several, one of them being the famous Aquarius.
I was convinced that he was into me because everything went smoothly, well, until it didn’t. The first red flag I noticed was his selfishness. Once he hooked me, he just decided to stop paying me attention but didn’t stop asking for it.
Così, mentre io mi facevo in quattro per compiacerlo, il suo egoismo cresceva come un cancro. Inoltre, era anche ingrato. (A proposito di segni legittimi che un uomo Acquario ti sta usando).
Se tutto questo vi colpisce, sappiate che l'uomo che avete incontrato inizialmente non era il vero lui. Ha fatto finta di interessarsi a te solo per ottenere quello che voleva da te: la tua attenzione totale.
Ora che ce l'ha, si sente libero di mostrare il suo vero volto senza temere che qualcosa cambi. Ebbene, lo farà? Finché approvi il tuo partner egoista’s behavior, nothing will ever change.
Riconoscete che quest'uomo vi sta usando per i suoi scopi egoistici che non hanno nulla a che fare con il vero amore o affetto.
9. La vostra relazione è principalmente sessuale
Ti vede solo per fare sesso o c'è qualcosa di più? È interessato a conoscerti meglio o fa solo finta di esserlo?
Proprio come Sagittario, un Uomo Acquario ama le conversazioni profonde e stimolanti e ha una mentalità aperta. When they date someone they’re into, they can’t help but make it as meaningful as possible.
Questo include fare tonnellate di domande che stimolano la riflessione, suggerire nuove avventure e conversazioni filosofiche fino alle ore piccole, e così via.
If he doesn’t act this way but is only interested in sexual activities devoid of meaning and passion (something Pesci, Scorpioni, o Ariete uomini non possono capire), allora la vostra relazione non ha futuro.
It’s definitely not easy to say, but he’s just using you for sex and other things he can freely get from you.
He’s not interested in any kind of emotional investment but in hookups and fleeting romances that have no future.
10. You can’t rely on him even if your life depended on it
If you can’t rely on “your” Aquarian man, know that this is a huge red flag. Of course, canceling plans can happen to anyone from time to time, but Se questo diventa la norma, allora c'è da preoccuparsi.
• “I’m sorry, but I won’t be able to make it today. Can you, please, cancel our dinner?”
• “I know I said I’ll do it, but (something) happened, and I couldn’t.”
• “Sorry, but now is not the right time.”
• “I’m afraid I can’t help you with this.”
Do any or all of the above statements sound familiar to you? If yes, then you know who you’re dealing with.
Your man is someone you definitely can’t rely on regardless of the circumstances. His ability to make excuses is outstanding, and it seems like it is never the right time for anything.
Regardless of whether you need some advice or only for him to listen to you, he won’t be there for you. He’ll be busy doing other things and not caring about you at all.
11. Preferisce conversazioni superficiali con voi
Segni zodiacali Acquario are people who need constant intellectual stimulation. They’re usually not interested in small talk or any type of superficial conversation.
Allora, perché un uomo Acquario dovrebbe preferire conversazioni superficiali con voi? You see where I’m going with all this.
L'unica ragione per cui preferirebbe questo tipo di conversazione è che he’s playing games with you. If he wanted something serious with you, he would initiate intellectual convos all the time because it’s in his nature.
He knows he can’t be with someone who’s not on the same page as him when it comes to these things. So, if he doesn’t verificare la vostra compatibilità intellettuale, you can be sure he’s just wasting your time.
12. Parlare del futuro è un grande no per lui.
While his body language might reveal that he’s interested, if his actions don’t match, then you know he’s not worthy of your time.
Another clear sign he’s not into you is him avoiding conversations about the future, and not only that, he’ll also avoid making plans in advance.
Il motivo principale per cui evita di farlo è per non prendere le cose troppo sul serio con voi. It’s clear that he doesn’t see a future with you at the moment (or he never will), but he’s not ready to lose you.
Well, he’s not ready to let you go because there is still something you’re giving him without expecting anything in return. Think about what that thing is, and you’ll have your answer.
Perhaps it’s sex, emotional support, or enjoying your company without him needing to make an effort to deserve it. Needless to say that you deserve better.
13. He doesn’t support or respect you
You could talk to him about your life goals and passions for an hour, and he wouldn’t even bat an eyelid. He pretends that he’s listening to you when in reality, he’s thinking about new ways he can get what he wants from you without earning it.
It’s clear non vi sostiene né vi rispettaquali sono i segni più evidenti che un uomo dell'Acquario vi sta usando.
Well, if he respected you, he wouldn’t make you question things, and you wouldn’t be here today reading my humble words.
Don’t get me wrong. It’s good that you’re here today, but his behavior towards you definitely isn’t, and you deserve someone who will be there for you no matter what.
If your intuition is telling you that this man is not even trying to treat you like a woman deserves to be treated, then that’s all you need.
14. Fare il duro è il suo hobby preferito
L'Acquario è il segno zodiacale dei portatori d'acqua. Possono essere piuttosto imprevedibili sia nelle relazioni che nella vita in generale.
A volte, un uomo Acquario sceglierà di fare il difficile solo per attirare la vostra attenzione e per vedere se vi interessa davvero. But if he does this frequently or all the time, then you know he’s not really into you.
Ho alcune domande da farle:
• Do you constantly feel like you’re in the middle of a hot and cold game?
• Does he change his behavior when you start chasing him?
• Does he act like he’s totally disinterested in you only to change his opinion minutes/hours later?
Dear lady, you’re in the middle of a roller-coaster game that Aquarius plays when they’re only interested in using you and not caring about you.
Credetemi, non cambierà nulla se anche voi deciderete di fare i difficili. Ignorare un uomo Acquario potrebbe attirare la sua attenzione per un po', ma a lungo andare tutto rimarrà come prima.
15. Le vostre emozioni sono la sua cosa preferita con cui giocare
If an Aquarius man has a crush on you or is in love with you, he’ll see you as his best friend, lover, and a special person. Your emotions will matter to him, and he will not want to play with you in any way.
If your emotions are his favorite thing to play with, know that he’s not interested in pursuing your heart but is interested in following his selfish tendencies.
He obviously doesn’t care about how his ghosting, harsh words, or lack of empathy affect you.
He plays with your heart and emotions while knowing that you don’t deserve this treatment but instead someone to take care of you wholeheartedly and selflessly.
Come si fa a sapere se un uomo Acquario sta mentendo?
Il modo più semplice per capire che un uomo Acquario sta mentendo è quando cerca di cambiare argomento e di spostare l'attenzione su qualcos'altro.
So, if you start questioning his lies and demand answers, he’ll think of something neutral that doesn’t give you much to overthink.
After that, he’ll ask you a question only to make you forget what you even asked him in the first place. They use this tactic to make their lies less important than they are.
When an Aquarius man is lying, he’ll try to cover it in various ways. At first, he’ll try to make the situation less serious than it is and then bombard you with different questions.
If you don’t fall for it, then he’ll accuse you of overreacting and imagining everything. So, that’s how you know he’s a liar.
Per concludere
Uno dei maggiori segnali che un uomo Acquario vi sta usando è che evita di avere conversazioni profonde e vi dice solo quello che vuole che sentiate.
He will do his best to always keep you at a distance so that he can return when it’s convenient for him. His intentions are solely directed to his selfish needs.
Un uomo Acquario vi userà finché glielo permetterete. Ora, la domanda è: lo farete o per quanto tempo glielo permetterete?
If you truly care about him while he’s only playing games, then your relationship has no future. He knows this, too, but the main difference between you and him is that he doesn’t really care.
