Te mereces a alguien que te mande un mensaje de "buenas noches" todas las noches

I know you’re tired of men who’re good for nothing. Tired of the texting games, being ignored and taken for granted. 

I know you’re exhausted from giving your best and getting the worst in return.

Sé que quieres algo más. Deberías querer más. Mereces más. 

Te mereces estar con alguien que siempre se acuerde de enviarte un mensaje de buenas noches. Así de simple. Complicado para la mayoría de los hombres. 

Verás, un mensaje de buenas noches del hombre con el que estás parece un gesto minúsculo, pero lo significa todo. 

Eres el principal pensamiento en su mente antes de irse a dormir.

He’s thinking of you. He cares. He wants you in his life. You are his priority. 

Yes, that’s all hidden beneath that small yet thoughtful and mensaje romántico de él. 

You need someone like that. Someone who doesn’t complicate simple things such as a text goodnight.

Someone who won’t hide his feelings and play hard to get. 

You don’t need a man who plays games and leaves you deciphering his actions or lack thereof.  

Podrías prescindir de alguien que te da largas y te hace sentir que tu relación es más de lo que realmente es.

Alguien que está más centrado en acercarse a ti entre las sábanas que en acercarse a tu corazón. 

You don’t need a guy who’s cheap with texts because he will be cheap in everything else. 

He will be cheap with his feelings, time, affection, warmth, and love – and that’s not how things are supposed to be. 

He’s supposed to shower you with kisses. He should hug you long and tight so that you feel like you’re where you belong. 

Your man should show you respect and understanding. He should let you know that you’re the only one for him and that his feelings are genuine. 

Si no lo hace, te fallará a ti. 

Necesitas un hombre que sea lo suficientemente valiente como para demostrarte que te quiere en su vida. 

He’s the only one who will make you feel safe. He won’t make you question his intentions.

He’ll be so honest and open that you won’t have any mixed signals to decipher. 

He will reassure you and silence your overthinking, show you that relationships shouldn’t be painful, and demonstrate that love doesn’t equal hurt. 

That’s not so hard. All he needs to do is send at least a text goodnight on his busiest day. 

Con ese simple mensaje, te demuestra que siempre encuentra tiempo para ti, incluso cuando el mundo se agita. 

With that one simple text, he says you are important to him and he can’t imagine ending his day without hearing from you.  

So don’t allow anyone to convince you that you’re needy if you want him to text, show up, and make an effort.

You’re not asking for too much – it’s nothing less than you yourself are willing to give.

It’s nothing out of this world. It’s showing you care in the plainest possible way. 

If you are investing, he should too. The relationship needs two people. Love has to come from both sides. If it doesn’t, it’s not true. 

La mayoría de las mujeres somos culpables de un error gigantesco: Damos demasiado y nos conformamos con muy poco del hombre de nuestra vida. 

We become too available. We drop everything to be with them. We initiate texts all the time. We even send a followup text when he doesn’t reply.

Nos olvidamos de nuestra vida y nos centramos en ellos. Ignoramos nuestras necesidades y priorizamos las suyas. 

Even though we hate to admit it, we do it. And it’s high time we stop.

Not just because it’s making your man pull away, but because this approach will never make us happy. 

Sí, las mujeres también necesitan enviar un mensaje de buenas noches – we need to make the effort. But only if we have the right man who we can do it for. 

Sólo un hombre que se encuentre contigo a medio camino es digno de tus esfuerzos, un hombre que esté dispuesto a demostrar con hechos que se preocupa por ti y te respeta. 

You need reciprocity in every step of your relationship, from the beginning to the end. You need to get back what you’re willing to give, otherwise it’s pointless. 

So, don’t believe a man who says he’s too busy to text you goodnight (or to enviarte un mensaje primero). 

Nobody is that busy. If he cared, he would text – and not just goodnight, but textos de buenos días y también grandes textos vespertinos. 

You deserve a man like that. One who makes texting, loving, and being there for you seem effortless. Don’t settle for less.