Un chico que hace estas 5 cosas no merece una segunda oportunidad

Las cosas pasan, las relaciones atraviesan pruebas dolorosas y la gente comete errores.

That’s the course of life. So it’s really not the end of the world if your man has made a mistake or hurt you completely involuntarily.

Estas cosas pasan en la vida, y aprender a dejar ir y seguir adelante es la clave para una vida exitosa, feliz y saludable.

¿Cuántas veces te ha pasado que has hecho algo de lo que te has arrepentido totalmente poco después?

How many times did you wish you could turn back time and not do a certain thing, but couldn’t?

That’s what I’m talking about here.

Hay personas que cometen errores y después sienten un auténtico remordimiento que significa que son conscientes de lo profundamente que te han herido y de lo sinceramente arrepentidos que están.

Y esas personas merecen una segunda oportunidad.

But there are some people in this world who are the exact opposite. People who’ll do you wrong and not feel sorry.

Personas que te herirán profundamente y te harán sentir que te lo merecías.

Gente que te hará sentir culpable por su comportamiento de mierda y egocéntrico.

Those people are toxic, manipulative sociopaths, and they for sure don’t deserve a second chance to ruin your life.

Watch out for these assholes in disguise. Learn to read between the lines. Don’t buy into their ‘’sorry’’, knowing they actually don’t give a shit about what they did.

If you’ve got a guy who keeps doing these 5 things, be sure that he doesn’t deserve a second chance.

Lo único que debería obtener de ti son las indicaciones para llegar a tu puerta y un ¡adiós de por vida!

1. Nunca se responsabiliza de sus actos

This guy refuses to own up to any of his shit. In his mind he’s faultless, and any shit he’s ever done to you – you had it coming.

He has a justification for every misdoing, and his charming, convincing personality actually makes you feel like what he’s saying is true—like you DID bring it upon yourself.

But guess what? No, you didn’t. If you were at fault in any way, you’d know it and own up to it.

Él es un manipulador tóxico¡y deberías abrir los ojos y ver a través de sus mentiras!

2. He NEVER says he’s sorry

This is a red flag you can see from a mile away. Being able to say you’re sorry is necessary to function properly in society, let alone in a committed relationship!

Si nunca dice eso, ¿sabes lo narcisista que eso lo hace? ¿Quién en este mundo nunca ha cometido un error?

Who in this world never did anything wrong? Yeah, there’s no such thing!

So if your guy can’t apologize when an apology is due, cut him loose!

It’s difficult to comprehend the level of narcissism one must reach to think of oneself as flawless, but one thing’s for sure. You don’t want to be anywhere near that.

3. Nunca deja de mencionar todos tus defectos

A guy who keeps pointing out your flaws whenever he’s caught red-handed is the ULTIMATE scumbag. Steer clear.

Don’t be near a man who so selfishly turns it all back to you once he has no escape plan.

Don’t be near a man who can stoop so low and hurt you as if you were nothing to him.

You’re human. You have feelings. Don’t let him walk all over you.

Esto es un claro indicio de lo bajo que está dispuesto a caer y lo poco que te aprecia, así que devuélvele el favor y déjalo ir.

4. He doesn’t make you feel good in your own skin

When you’re near him… you just can’t relax. You don’t feel like your authentic self.

He doesn’t let you be quién eres, and if you even thought about just being your true, unedited self, you know he’d scold you.

He’s not supportive of your actions. He doesn’t make you want to be a better person. He makes you want to hide a part of yourself.

All he does is diminish you as a human being, disses you when you speak your mind, and tries to mold you into who he wants you to be. It’s uncomfortable, unnatural, and you don’t like it.

So don’t even think about giving this ass of a human being a second chance to stomp all over you.

You know you deserve much better, and you’ll sure as hell find it!

5. Invalida tus sentimientos

¿No es repugnante? Hacer que una persona se sienta mal por tener ciertos sentimientos.

Hacer que su mujer se sienta baja y sin valor por expresar sus pensamientos y problemas. ¿Qué te dice con esto?

He tells you that your feelings don’t matter. He tells you that you should keep whatever it is you feel to yourself, and let HIM take care of your needs.

It’s not enough that he’s a narcissistic manipulator, now you can’t even have feelings?

Honey, don’t let a guy tell you how to feel at any point in your life.

Your emotions are your own, and you’re NEVER wrong for feeling any type of way!

Only a weak, insecure man would make you feel this way because it’s his only way to control you.

And I KNOW you’re not the type of woman who will let this fly. 

Siente tus sentimientos y dale una patada ya sabes dónde después de enseñarle la puerta. ¡Chico, adiós!