Let your feelings show.
You have the tendency to bottle up all the emotions you feel and go and do pretty much anything, instead of facing what’s ahead. Let’s be honest, this year hasn’t been easy on anyone. In fact, it was probably the toughest one yet in all our lives.
This year, try and do something a bit different. Instead of running away from what you’re feeling, stop and think about how you feel. It will catch you up sooner or later anyway.
Work on your relationships.
This is not your strongest suit. Instead of saying what you feel to the people you care about, you keep your mouth shut. Try to focus on your interaction with other people, and tell them how you really feel.
‘I love you’ is not so bad to say.
You don’t have to be scared of it. You don’t have to feel vulnerable if you confess your feelings toward someone. Those three little words mean a lot to both you and the people who hear them.
Silence is golden.
Sometimes you just need to keep your mouth shut.
Listen for a change.
Sometimes people just need a helping hand. They need someone to listen to them. You don’t have to always give your opinion or advice. Maybe they haven’t come for that. Maybe they need you to just shut up and listen.
Focus on the present.
Stop worrying about the future. In that way, you’re losing the sense of the present. By thinking about what will happen, you’re not living now, in the moment you’re supposed to. This year, stop and smell the flowers.
Find the things that excite you.
Actually, you already know the things that excite you. You’ve learned them last year. But now that you know them, give your absolute best to make those things come true. Live your life the way you deserve.
Let go of the people who hurt you.
There are always going to be people in your life who’ll use you. People who’ll manipulate you. People who are toxic. You need to identify those people and get rid of them. You need to do yourself a favor by cleaning out your life of bad people.
Think about yourself.
Put yourself first. You’ve been always choosing others over yourself. You’ve always given so much love to everyone but yourself. Choose yourself this year, and make it a year to remember.
Go on a trip you’ve been canceling for so long.
You’ve always coming up with new excuses not to go on that trip. Everything is settled; you just have to go. Don’t overthink it, and just leave already. You’ll figure out the rest when you get there.
Give up on the things you don’t like.
If you’re stuck at a job you hate, quit. There are a lot of other things you can do, and who knows, maybe you’ll discover you like doing something you never thought you would. Don’t be the one who stands in the way of your own happiness.
Wake up and live your life!
Don’t miss out on amazing opportunities because you’re insecure. Go with the flow, and accept everything that life has to offer you.
Keep your ex in the past.
Let go of the memories. Let go of the past. Move on with your life because if you don’t, you’ll never find someone new to love. And your ex? They are probably with someone else by now. They have moved on. So should you.
Leave if you want.
Don’t be scared to leave the town you’re living in. Don’t let the routine of doing the same things in the same place every day stop you from trying something new. The reason you’re unhappy and alone is the fear of leaving. There is someone out there for you. You just need to leave to find them.
Stop being a people pleaser.
You’re the one who comforts a friend when they are hurting, but you hold your own tears back. You don’t have to be strong all the time. It’s okay to fall apart sometimes. It’s okay to think about yourself for a moment and leave everyone else behind.
Learn to be responsible.
When you mess something up, be brave enough and deal with the consequences. Stop blaming others for your problems. You’re the only one to blame. Excuses you’re making for yourself will only drag you down to the bottom.
Fulfill your goals.
Wake up! Stop dreaming about it, and do something to make those dreams come true.
Be more positive.
Stop thinking negatively. When you think negatively, bad things start happening to you. Change the record your life is ,and turn it into a happy tune. Everything else will fall to place.
Rome wasn’t built overnight.
Be patient. You’re going to be rewarded for all your hard work. You just have to wait a bit longer. But don’t think that no one is noticing what you’re doing and how much effort you’re putting into everything you do.
Forgive who needs to be forgiven, and move on. That grudge you’re holding inside is eating you alive. It’s making you feel worse. One ‘sorry’ is all you need to feel better and happier. If you don’t do this, you’ll never find peace.
You love others, but you have to love yourself, too.
In your eyes, you’re the worst. You’ll give absolutely anything to those around you. You’ll give them your attention and all the love you have, but you’ll leave yourself nothing. Be kind to yourself; don’t be miserable.
Let go of the grudges.
Scorpios can hold a grudge forever. But by doing that, you’re only making yourself worse. Your peace is disturbed, you don’t feel well and all because of a fight. Forgiveness is the only way to go.
It doesn’t matter what others think of you.
You pretend to be something you’re not because you’re scared people won’t like you. You’re afraid that someone is going to take advantage of your vulnerability, so you put on a mask to protect yourself. But be careful because while pretending to be something you’re not, you can easily lose your true self.
Stop worrying so much.
Your anxiety is over the roof. You overthink your every step, and if even the slightest thing doesn’t go the way you planned, you freak out. Stop worrying, and let life take its course. You just follow it, and enjoy as much as you can.
It’s okay to show your emotions.
You don’t have to be strong all the time. You don’t have to pretend that nothing gets to you. Showing emotions and being vulnerable doesn’t mean you’re weak. You have to open up if you want to get to know people and one day, meet that special one you’ve been waiting for for so long.
Don’t fear love.
By now, all you ever gotten of love was pain and tears. You’re scared to love again because it never ended the way it was supposed to. But, there is no reason to be afraid of love. All of those things you’ve experienced, none of it was love. You’ve yet to see what real love really is, and it doesn’t hurt, ever.
Don’t be hard on yourself.
You’re not the Almighty. You can’t be in two places at the same time. Your goals are set high, but don’t be sad when you fail to complete them. You’re expecting too much of yourself, and you keep on failing. Set smaller goals, fulfill them, and then set bigger ones.
Go and travel.
Nothing must stop you. Go where you want to go, and see every corner of the world you want to see. If you don’t do this now, you’ll regret it later in life. You’ll regret not doing what you wanted to do.
Hang on to things that excite you.
If you’re getting up in the morning with a very little will to live, then something is terribly wrong in your life. Let go of anything or anyone that puts pressure on you. You deserve only the best things, and you deserve to be surrounded by the people who make you feel so much better.
It’s okay to start all over again.
You are never too old to change your life completely. If you’re unhappy or there is something new you’d want to try, don’t be afraid to do it!
Don’t sit around and wait for things or people come to you.
If there is something or someone you can’t stop thinking about, go and get them. There is no point in sitting around, feeling sorry for yourself. You’re not doing yourself a favor. This way, if you chase it, either you’ll get it or you’ll have the experience of what not to do the next time you try.
Try saying ‘I love you’.
If you want to be loved, you have to love. It’s okay that you’re scared of love; you’ve been badly hurt. But if you never let yourself love anyone ever again, then no one will love you. Just try saying, ‘I love you’. This time it won’t hurt.
Be good to others.
That is the greatest reward you can get—seeing someone else feeling better or happier because of something you did. And not to mention that there is karma. All the good things you do will come right back to you.
People are not meant to hurt you.
You’re afraid to get hurt because you give all of yourself to a relationship. You’re an open book, and you let everyone in. You love unconditionally, and that’s the reason why you usually get hurt. But unconditional love pays off eventually. You’ll meet someone, they are going to love you back and you won’t be sorry you ever loved unconditionally.
You’re not the one to blame every single time.
When someone leaves you, don’t blame yourself. When someone does something bad to you, once again, it’s not your fault. Stop taking responsibility for other people’s actions.
You’re meant to do great things.
You’re not an average person. You know that you’re meant for great things. You know that inside is what matters and not the outside. You’re a dreamy person full of love and compassion which you so easily give to everyone around you. And because of that, when people get hurt, when they feel lost, they know they can always turn to you.