16 trucchi psicologici che gli faranno sentire una mancanza pazzesca

Notizia di cronaca: Fare in modo che un uomo senta la tua mancanza is actually a piece of cake… that is, if you know what you’re doing. It’s actually all a game, and you have to use different techniques to end up the winner.

That’s exactly why I’ve brought you 16 psychological tricks that will make him miss you like hell.

1. Giocare duro per ottenere

Let’s face it: this guy could have you back in the blink of an eye. It would be enough for him to wink at you or mantenere un contatto visivo profondo che tu corra di nuovo tra le sue braccia.

However, this realization won’t make you attractive. He doesn’t have to know this. Instead, dovrebbe pensare che deve lottare per voi.

That’s why you’ll play hard to get. Even if he comes to you saying how much gli manchi, don’t behave like that’s what you’ve been waiting for all along.

On the contrary, act like you’re having second thoughts. Deve guadagnarsi il vostro amore, il vostro rispetto e la vostra attenzione.

In fin dei conti, la maggior parte degli uomini sono solo dei bamboccioni. They want what they can’t have, and that’s basically the only reason behind this psychological trick.

I won’t lie to you: this behavior is pretty toxic. But hey, if you stop using it after you make a man miss you, I’ll let it slide this time!

2. Scatenare l'istinto dell'eroe

Il secondo di questi 16 trucchi psicologici che gli faranno sentire una mancanza pazzesca è anche un gioco che potete fare con il vostro interlocutore.

Here’s some important relationship advice: A tutti gli uomini piace essere eroi. Lo si vede nelle favole e nelle commedie romantiche per un motivo.

That’s why your next step is to trigger this man’s hero instinct. Credetemi, c'è un ragazzino nascosto dentro di lui, un ragazzo che sogna di diventare il Principe Azzurro.

It’s your job to make it happen.

Don’t worry, nobody thinks of you as incapable of living your life without a man by your side. However, being independent and autosufficiente didn’t get you anywhere, did it?

Well, that’s about to change. Without being too pushy, ask your guy a favor. It won’t be anything huge – focus on the little things.

I know you’ve got it, but I’m not asking you to seek his help because of you. I recommend doing so because it’s how to make this man feel needed and wanted.

3. Ridurre la disponibilità

I know what your first instinct is: to jump to your feet every time this guy calls. After all, if he reaches out to you, it must mean he misses you as well. And that’s exactly what you wanted all along.

Nevertheless, here’s the harsh truth: this kind of behavior is what brought you here in the first place. You being eccessivamente disponibile è il vostro errore numero uno, e questo deve cambiare.

Con il tempo, quest'uomo ha iniziato a darti per scontata. Gli avete dimostrato che poteva avervi quando e come voleva.

So, does he have a chance to miss you? Well, if he is aware that you’re just a call away – definitely not.

That’s why you have to reduce your availability. Don’t be within arm’s reach. Don’t let him see you all the time, and even if he calls, tell him you’re busy.

Dimostrate a quest'uomo che deve guadagnarsi la vostra presenza nella sua vita.

4. Bombardare d'amore e poi sparire

I’ll be honest with you: out of all the 16 psychological tricks that will make him miss you, this one is the most toxic. But hey, you won’t apply it in a healthy relationship – it’s just one of the simple ways to get what you want.

Stadio #1: La prima fase consiste nell'inondare quest'uomo di amore e di trattandolo come un re. You’re there when he needs you, buy him gifts, and compliment him. Basically, you do whatever he wants and please him in every possible way. You bomba d'amore lui.

Per essere precisi, ci si comporta come every man’s dream girl. Evitate le discussioni, vi prendete cura di lui e gli date tutto quello che vuole.
Prima che ve ne rendiate conto, he’ll become addicted to the love and attention he’s been getting. He’ll find comfort in it. But he’ll also start taking it for granted.

Stadio #2: And that’s when the second stage appears. All of a sudden, you have to cut it off. It’s necessary per fargli perdere le tracce o semplicemente smettere di comportarsi come hai fatto.

Let the girl of his dreams disappear. That’s when he’ll start appreciating everything you did for him.

And that’s also when he’ll realize that he’s perdutamente innamorato di te.

The only problem with this tactic is that it might backfire on you. While you’re making him miss you, you’ll probably end up missing him.

Don’t let your weaknesses get the best of you. Get it together and wait for the final result!

5. Show him you don’t need him

C'è un'enorme differenza tra desiderare qualcuno e bisogno di loro. When you’re wondering how to make someone miss you, you have to show him that you don’t need him – you want him to be a part of your life.

So che pensate che questo non sia vero. You’ve been in love with this guy since your first date, and you feel that you need him like you need air to breathe.

However, he mustn’t know that. Every relationship expert will tell you the same thing: the moment a man sees you can’t live without him is the moment he changes his ways.

It’s one thing to trigger his hero instinct. Nevertheless, don’t forget that at the end of the day, you’re an donna indipendente who does her own things without anyone’s help.

Make it clear that you consciously chose him to be your partner. But that doesn’t mean your existence would be in vain if he left you!

6. I social media sono i vostri più grandi alleati

Are you going on a night out with your best friends? Traveling abroad? Don’t forget to post photos on social media!

Even if your ex doesn’t follow you, I’m sure some of your mutual friends will tell him what’s going on in your life.

The same goes for all other scenarios. If it’s time to go no contact, scomparire dai social media.

You don’t have to delete or block him for good. It would be enough for you to stop posting updates on your daily activities.

Trust me, before you know it, he’ll be desperately scrolling through your page, expecting news.

Naturalmente, potete usare i suoi profili anche a vostro vantaggio. Cosa sta facendo? Esce con qualcuno di nuovo? Sta cercando di attirare la vostra attenzione? Spiatelo senza lasciare il vostro divano!

7. Una donna misteriosa

If you want to make a man miss you, psychology says you must trigger his curiosity. It’s one thing to far innamorare un uomo di voiMa il trucco è far sì che lui rimanga innamorato di voi.

Making this guy miss you is a piece of cake – you just have to be constantly present in his thoughts. And the most efficient way to do it is through a bit of mystery.

I know you’re an honest woman who wants to put all your cards on the table, but sometimes, that’s just not possible. If you want to intrigue him, don’t tell him everything about your life.

Invece, lasciarlo indovinare. Dategli qualche informazione quando passate del tempo insieme.

Fatelo lavorare prima di conoscere la vostra vera identità.

Don’t get me wrong – I’m not recommending lying to him or pretending that you’re someone else. I’m just asking you not to reveal too much.

8. Migliorare il gioco degli SMS

Gli appuntamenti moderni si basano su messaggi di testo! La vostra strategia di messaggistica vi aiuterà molto a far sì che un uomo senta la vostra mancanza come un matto.

Prima di tutto, lasciate perdere i messaggi doppi o tripli. So che avete l'impulso di scrivere paragrafi lunghi come saggi, soprattutto se state litigando. Tuttavia, fidatevi di me quando vi dico che questo vi farà sembrare solo disperate.

Instead, let him text you first. I’m not saying you shouldn’t respond to his messaggi di testo ma lasciate che aspetti un po' la vostra risposta.

Riflettere bene prima di rispondergli con un sms! Ogni vostra risposta dovrebbe essere provocatoria.

The key is to strike a balance: he has to see that you’re interested, but at the same time, don’t act like you’ve been dying to hear from him.

Utilizzare le emoji but don’t exaggerate. Most importantly: always be the first to end this texting game.

9. Rendersi memorabili

Ecco alcuni trucchi di livello superiore per far sì che un uomo si accorga di voi: distinguetevi dalla massa! Per essere insostituibili bisogna essere unici. E per riuscirci, bisogna rendersi memorabili.

Prima di tutto, trovate un profumo caratteristico. In questo modo, ogni volta che sentirà lo stesso profumo su un'altra donna, gli ricorderà voi.

Sarebbe ancora meglio se poteste mettere quel profumo sulla sua camicia o giacca preferita, in modo che pensi a voi la prossima volta che la indossa.

Lo stesso vale per linguaggio del corpo. Instead of copying every other girl’s body language, be your true self.

Ridete nel modo che più vi aggrada, usate frasi rare, non indossare mutandine se ne avete voglia, e fate tutto il possibile per non confondervi con la massa. A prima vista sono piccole cose, ma credetemi, vi aiuteranno moltissimo.

10. Il lavoro autonomo è obbligatorio

Molte volte, le donne si lasciano talmente coinvolgere da un uomo che riescono a perdersi in the process. Well, every relationship expert will tell you the same thing: it’s probably the worst mistake you can make.

So instead of spending time stalking your man, focus on yourself. First of all, it will make you feel better. You’ll see your worth and immediately start attracting good things.

Of course, your ex will see it too. Once he notices how much you love yourself, he’ll follow and treat you with more respect.

Besides, I promise you he’ll fall back in love with this new, improved version of you.

Prima di tutto, avere sempre un bell'aspetto. Andate in palestra, cambiate l'acconciatura e investite di più nel trucco. Aggiungete anche qualche novità al vostro guardaroba.

Don’t worry, you can do all of this even if you’re on a budget. Get some clothes in thrift stores, exchange dresses with your best friends or remodel your old clothes.

If you can’t afford the gym, just work out at home. Trust me – you’ll feel much better in no time!

But what’s even more important than to look good is to sentirsi sempre al meglio. Più facile a dirsi che a farsi, vero?

Well, I’m begging you not to disregard your mental health. Don’t let all of this ruin your self-esteem!

So che lo desideri ardentemente, ma ricorda che hai una relazione a lungo termine più importante da coltivare: quello con se stessi.

11. Lasciarlo sempre desiderare di più

Il passo successivo è lasciare che il vostro uomo voglia sempre di più. Fategli sentire che può ottenere ancora molto da voi.

But there is something important about this strategy: he can’t have it unless he works for it!

Remember I told you to be the first one to stop responding when you’re texting? Well, do the same with phone calls: hang up first.

Whenever you get together, keep your encounters short and sweet. Don’t let him be the one who suggests taking you home.

Most importantly, don’t move your schedule around to suit him. See him and talk to him only when you’re really available instead of making yourself available to him.

This is one of the simple ways to put him in a constant state of missing you. I know it’s probably not relationship advice for a healthy relationship, but this is the only way to intrattenere alcuni uomini.

12. Sorprenderlo

Se si chiede agli uomini come si comportano i loro fidanzata perfetta should behave, they’ll all tell you that they want a woman they always know where they stand.

Well, that’s how things roll in theory. In practice, it’s a bit different.

Invece di fornirgli sicurezza, devi dare a quest'uomo delle emozioni. Non potrà mai essere sicuro di voi.

You must keep on surprising him. But hey, I’m not talking about romantic surprises and gestures here.

Invece, dovete metterlo in uno stato in cui non sa mai cosa aspettarsi da voi.

Cosa farete domani?

Will you act like he’s the love of your life, or will you ignore him for the rest of the day? Will you send him a cute text or start a long-distance relationship with some random ragazzo che hai conosciuto su un sito di incontri online?

Well, obviously, I’m exaggerating, but you get the point. Don’t be consistent and giocare con la sua mente!

13. Don’t be a “yes girl”

Let’s get one thing straight right away: I’m not here to judge. If you feel like sleeping with your ex – fine with me. But I have to warn you: you were in a long-term relationship with this guy, and the last thing you want is to turn it into a relazione senza titolo.

But why would he say “no” to that? After all, it means you’re giving him girlfriend privileges even though he’s no longer your boyfriend.

So che quest'uomo la attrae incredibilmente. Inoltre, lei vede l'intimità fisica come un modo per ricostruire il vostro legame emotivo con lui. Ho capito.

However, trust me, it’s not the way to do it. How can he miss you if he has you around all the time?

Come può sentirne la mancanza, se lei accorre ogni volta che lo chiama?

So instead of becoming a “yes” girl, become a “maybe” girl. Don’t reject him. Tease him, but don’t give him what he wants just yet!

14. Lasciare le proprie cose in giro

I’m sure you’ve already left some of your stuff in this man’s car or place if you two were spending time together. Well, don’t ask for your things back just yet.

Trust me – every time he looks at your earring or hair clip, he’ll think of you. Don’t worry – he won’t throw any of it away. Instead, he’ll probably use it as an excuse to reach out to you.

But what if there aren’t any of your things laying around his apartment? Well, the next time you see him, leave something of yours there.

Of course, it doesn’t have to be his place – his car is more than enough.

15. Let the “green-eyed” monster do your dirty work

Lasciate che vi riveli un po' di segreto sulla gelosia: it is primarily connected with the ego. Therefore, even if this man has no more feelings for you, he won’t be able to stand seeing you with some other guy. Male logic, I know.

Well, instead of getting annoyed about this, use it to your advantage. That’s right – fatelo ingelosire!

You don’t have to tell him that you’re in a real relationship because that might scare him away. It would be enough to drop hints every now and then that you’re back in the dating pool.

You can tell your mutual friends that you’ve met someone new, you can ask your uomo BFF to like and comment on your photos (if you’re certain that your ex will see this interaction), or you can post mysterious Instagram or Snapchat stories implying that there is someone in your life.

Posso garantirvi una cosa: il mostro dagli occhi verdi ottenere il meglio dal vostro ex! Before you know it, he’ll go crazy about you.

He’ll even start competing with this imaginary guy, and he’ll do everything in his power to regain your attention.

16. Farsi una vita

Okay, this might sound harsh, but it’s crucial for you to have your own life while implementing these 16 psychological tricks that will make him miss you.

Naturalmente, cura di sé è la vostra priorità numero uno. But I’m not talking about that only.

So, you’re trying to get him to miss you – there is nothing wrong with that. However, don’t let that become the center of your life.

Go out, hang out with new people, and if you meet someone you like, go out on a date with him – without any promises made. Who knows, maybe you even forget your ex along the way.

Besides, trust me on this one: he’ll feel that you’re focused on yourself. He’ll feel that you’re not sending him the same vibe and energy, and he’ll miss your presence in his life!