5 segni che sei sua madre, non la sua fidanzata

Le donne hanno quel naturale istinto materno che dovrebbe essere una cosa buona, ma a volte le cose sfuggono di mano.

In qualsiasi relazione, i partner dovrebbero prendersi cura dell'altro partner., but if instead of nurturing your relationship, you start nurturing your partner—you have a problem! If you are not sure whether you’re crossing the line already, read these certain signs:

Pulire dopo di lui

Always running after him and picking up his shirts and socks all over the apartment will make the term “hot mama” too literal.

Inoltre, pulire ogni volta che mangia o si rovescia la birra significa viziarlo.

He is a grown man—he can do all these things on his own!

Lasciate gli argomenti irrisolti

Every relationship has fights but it’s crucial to solve and not bury them. If you leave an argument unresolved, the only thing you’re gonna feel is anger.

Ricordate come litigavamo con i nostri genitori quando eravamo bambini? Ora tutto ha un senso, giusto?

Nelle relazioni di coppia, la soluzione dei litigi dovrebbe essere l'opposto di quando eravate bambini, perché ora i ruoli sono uguali.

Lo assillate costantemente perché faccia qualcosa

You don’t need to give him a list of chores to do like a child—do the dishes, take out the garbage, clean up your stuff.

Nagging him won’t get him to do what you want him to do, it’ll only make him feel more like he’s back living with his mom.

If he can’t do those things on his own, if he is so irresponsible, do yourself a favor—dump him.

Controllo assoluto

Alcune persone amano semplicemente essere al comando.

There are limits, but if your partner expects you to be in control of everything, or if you’re doing that precisely because you don’t trust him, then you have a problem.

Affinché la relazione duri, dovreste essere entrambi responsabili in egual misura.

You personally feel like he’s more your child than your partner

Stop for a second, and ask yourself: Is this guy really someone to whom you’re emotionally and passionately attached?

Is he really someone who you want to be next to you when you need him the most? Or is he just a needy child who can’t stand on his own feet?

One day, you’ll have your own child, and caring for two babies at once is something you have to think about very carefully.

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