6 bugie comuni che potete sentire dal vostro ex

Il più delle volte, gli ex fidanzati entrano di soppiatto nella nostra vita e vogliono tornare a farne parte.

Sometimes it’s not even about second chances, it’s about reminding you that they are still there and that they have an influence on your life.

They might be doing it on a subconscious level but deep down they can’t really process the fact that you could actually be happy without them. They thought you couldn’t live without them.

Hell, even you thought you couldn’t but look at you, living and everything.

Anche se siete andati avanti con la vostra vita, fate attenzione perché alcune emozioni potrebbero ancora essere rimaste indietro e potreste cadere nelle loro bugie.

Ecco l'elenco delle bugie più comuni che potete sentire dal vostro ex:

1. “How are you?”

Dopo mesi e mesi di assenza di contatti, all'improvviso si interessa al vostro benessere. Sì, è vero. Dov'era quando hai passato tutte quelle notti a piangere fino ad addormentarti perché si comportava come un idiota?

Anche se potrebbe dire che si sta solo informando su di te o che vuole rimanere in contatto, probabilmente sta sondando il terreno. Vuole solo vedere se può ancora riaverti indietro, se lo desidera. Se rispondete a un messaggio, non fate altro che aumentare il suo ego.

2. “Can I come over? I just want to talk.”

Booty call alert. If all he wanted to do was talk he would ask you out to a public place. If he wants to come over, especially at night, you don’t have to think too hard about his intentions.

He is probably lonely and he might even miss you, but that doesn’t mean anything has changed. Sure, you can spend a great night together and he will probably go the next morning but that’s not something you want or need.

3. “I miss you.”

If you get this text at 2 a.m. know that he is just drunk and alone. He’s emotional and he might be regretting losing you. Those feelings of his are temporary.

Se fosse l'uomo di cui avete bisogno, non avrebbe bisogno di sentirne la mancanza perché non vi perderebbe mai.

 

4. “Nobody gets us.”

He is probably thinking about your friends and family and all the accidental bystanders who keep telling you, “You are better off without him.” Probabilmente sta cercando di vendervi una storia insulsa. che quello che avevate era speciale e che nessuno poteva capirlo se non voi due.

Of course, there are tons of people who had a special relationship with their ex, but no, that doesn’t mean they are getting back together. There is a reason exes are in the past.

5. “I just want to be friends.”

Classic. It’s like saying, “I am not cut out to be your boyfriend. I am not ready to commit but I want you in my life.” Probably because you were his greatest support and someone who knew how to listen and understand.

If he hasn’t been a good boyfriend, he sure as hell doesn’t deserve to be your friend.

6. “I am really happy you are in love again.”

Of course, he is not happy for you. Ever since he saw your relationship status change, he can’t stop picturing you hooking up con qualcun altro. Somebody who isn’t him.

Pensava di avere il possesso del vostro corpo e della vostra mente per tutta la vita, anche se non fa più parte della vostra vita. Questo è solo il suo modo di entrare nella tua testa.