7 motivi per cui il vostro ex continua a tornare strisciando da voi

When you break up a relationship that didn’t bring you anything other than pain and misery, you kind of want that person to disappear out of your life forever, right? But for some reason, they continuare a strisciare verso di te.

At first, it might seem like it’s all about love and appreciation, because they keep telling you how much they’re missing you. But the possibilities for that are quite impossible.

Of course it’s possible that you might go back to your ex, you might realize that the relationship you had was everything you wanted.

Ma se il vostro ex era un manipolatore tossico and he comes back to you asking for forgiveness, you need to know the possible reasons why he’s coming back to you.

Gelosia

He might have seen you hanging around with another man and that triggered his jealousy. A man can’t stand it if you start seeing another man because that hits him right in the guts and he finds it to be disrespectful.

You’re happy before he finds another woman? For him, there’s nothing happy about it.

Also if you’re happy without him, if you’ve dedicated yourself to make your future better, he will get jealous and come crawling back to make it miserable again.

Il sesso

Può darsi che abbiate fatto sesso regolarmente e che ora, senza di esso, lui sia sessualmente frustrato. Inoltre, se ha una nuova compagna, potrebbe non essere brava come voi tra le lenzuola.

Il sesso è di solito una grande motivazione per un uomo a tornare strisciando dalla sua ex. Insomma, siete stati insieme per un po' e lavorate bene insieme.

You know what he likes and he simply doesn’t want to waste time teaching someone else the things that you do perfectly.

Ha paura della solitudine

This is especially true if you’ve been together for a long period of time. He simply isn’t used to essere soli e il pensiero lo spaventa.

He also may have tried other relationships but he got dumped or it didn’t work out and he wants you because it feels familiar.

This won’t work out, because you probably know that you can’t love someone unless you love yourself.

Rimpianto

Che ci crediate o no, il vostro ex, anche quello stronzo, può imparare la lezione e tornare da voi chiedendovi una seconda possibilità perché si è pentito di avervi lasciato e di avervi trattato in quel modo.

Regret doesn’t really mean that he has changed though, just that he wants to see what’s going to happen if you start again.

Also, he simply didn’t want to deal with difficulties in your relationship but he realized that those things weren’t that bad and that you could’ve gotten over them.

Controllo

È lui che se n'è andato? Se sì, è molto probabile che ami controllare ciò che fa e ciò che fanno le persone intorno a lui.

If he left you, it represents an act of power and also he thinks that he can come back at any given time, knowing that you’ll be there to welcome him with widespread arms.

I ricordi

You know that you get emotional flashbacks because of old memories too, so you can’t actually blame him. Gli manchi and he’s aware of the mistakes he made.

Lui ti amava davvero e avete passato davvero dei momenti fantastici insieme. Quindi perché non ascoltare quello che ha da dire?

Rifiuto

La scena degli appuntamenti di oggi è piuttosto spaventosa per chi è appena uscito da una relazione. Potrebbe avere paura del rifiuto!

He knows that he can always come back to you and be happy in your arms but putting himself out there and getting his pride hurt isn’t an option for him.

Also, he might have low self-esteem that doesn’t allow him to find someone else. This isn’t really a good motivator to restart a relationship and you know that.