An emotional affair is something that happens often nowadays. We live in a world where it is very easy to reach out to someone—even if you are not physically next to them. The fact is that it is really hard to see if your partner is having an emotional affair or not, but if you pay attention to his body language and the words that come out of his mouth a little bit more, you can easily find out if your man is faithful to you or he is thinking of someone else when he is with you.

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1. Porta il telefono ovunque

You know that your man always used to leave his phone all over the house, but recently, he takes it away even when he goes to the toilet. Maybe he doesn’t want you to see texts that he can receive while he is not around or he doesn’t want the other person to wait a long time for a response. Whatever the reason, that is not a good sign, but before you accuse him of anything, make sure you have the real proof that he was unfaithful to you.

2. Non fa il suo nome

If you are talking with your man about his job and he starts telling you a story about his coworker (that is btw a hot, young lady), he doesn’t say her name during the whole story but he addresses her as ‘she’. That is a sign that something is not right because he call every other woman by her name. If you see some other red flag sign except this one, you can be positive that your man is having an relazione emotiva.

3. Non fate più sesso con la stessa frequenza di prima

Vedete che il vostro partner ha preso le distanze tra voi due. Non va più a letto alla vostra stessa ora solo per evitare di fare sesso con voi. Dice di essere stanco e passa più tempo al telefono o a guardare la TV da solo. Tutti questi possono essere segnali di una relazione sentimentale, quindi assicuratevi di parlarne apertamente con il vostro partner. Forse potete ancora salvare la vostra relazione se reagite in tempo.

4. Si comporta in modo riservato

If your man keeps some things as secrets from you but the rest of his friends know about them, it is a sign that something is not right anymore. He doesn’t want you to know important things in his life and he rather spend time with others than with you. Also, hiding his phone or changing his passwords on your shared PC is a sign for an alert.

5. Vi sta criticando

Lo fa perché vi paragona alla persona con cui ha una relazione sentimentale. E nel caso in cui voi diciate qualcosa che possa offendere leggermente quella persona, lui si metterà sulla difensiva nei suoi confronti. Potrebbe mettervi in difficoltà perché non siete come la persona con cui ha una relazione.

6. Si comporta in modo distante

Se trascorrete del tempo con lui ma avete la sensazione che sia presente solo fisicamente, potete essere certi che qualcosa non va bene. It doesn’t need to be a sign of an emotional affair, but there is some problem. Try to talk to him and make him open up to you. Maybe the situation will not be so bad afterwards.

7. L'istinto vi dice che qualcosa non va

Women are blessed with a sixth sense and if you feel that something is wrong, it probably is. You can admit to your man that you don’t feel so close to him anymore and that you don’t want to feel like that because it scares you. Pay attention to his reaction to find out if he is having an affair. If he gets mad about it, it is a surefire sign that he is hiding something. On the other hand, if he explains calmly to you that everything is fine, be patient and listen to everything that he has to say.