7 verità sull'essere un pensatore eccessivo con un cuore amorevole e fragile

1. L'amore è il vostro obiettivo principale

L'amore è il vostro pensiero più frequente e il vostro desiderio più grande. Se siete completamente onesti, desiderate così tanto l'amore che a volte può essere opprimente.

You don’t need fake emotions and half commitments, you need the love that’s genuine and true. You need the love you are ready to give.

But at the same time, you are afraid of getting hurt again. You fear that something will end before it had the chance to properly begin. That’s why you guard your already fragile heart.

2. Prendete tutto a cuore

You are affected by other people’s opinions. Even if it’s positive criticism, you will think about it for days and dissect every little detail. You will question yourself and look back at your every step.

Things would be so much easier if you could accept someone’s critique, learn and grow from it without wasting too much time overthinking it.

On the other hand, everybody’s entitled to their own opinion, and it doesn’t mean they are always right. Listen to your gut feeling, and if you know you are on the right way, just carry on.

3. You either care too much or you don’t care at all

Arrivate agli estremi e non c'è una via di mezzo quando si tratta dei vostri sentimenti e della vostra devozione.
Quando si è veramente interessati a qualcosa o a qualcuno, ci si butta a capofitto.

You won’t hold back because you don’t know how to. You will always go an extra mile. You don’t believe in almost, half, and mediocre. That’s why when you don’t care, you are not there at all. It’s all or nothing with you.

4. Avete difficoltà ad addormentarvi

Non appena la testa tocca il cuscino, si viene travolti dai pensieri. Ci si sorprende di quanto i pensieri si spingano lontano.

It’s not only things from your past that occupy your mind. There are also future hypothetical situations you think of that are keeping you wide awake, and before you know it,, it’s dawn and you haven’t had any sleep at all.

5. Si continua a cercare significati nascosti

You find it hard to let things be. You search for meaning in everything. You want reasons and explanations for someone’s behavior or course of action. Sadly, you don’t always get them.

Try to remember that sometimes there’s really no behind-the-scene story. Sometimes you are happier not knowing. And even though it’s hard for you not to overthink, try to ease up a bit. You will do yourself good.

6. You are too hard on yourself but “too easy” on other people

You are your worst critic and most fierce judge. You don’t cut yourself any slack. But when it comes to other people, you forgive too easily.

That’s why that loving heart of yours became so fragile. People walked all over your love, kindness, and understanding too many times.

Cercate di essere più gentili con voi stessi e più giusti con gli altri. Perdonate, ma tenete presente che non tutti meritano il vostro perdono o una seconda possibilità.

7. Sometimes, you can be “too much” for other people

Più volte di quante ne possiate contare, avete sentito le persone etichettarvi come troppo emotive, troppo analitiche, troppo romantiche, troppo bisognose, troppo tutto.

It’s hard for some people who are unlike you to accept you and see where you are coming from. And that’s ok—they don’t have to.

There are people out there who won’t have any problem with your overthinking nature. People who will understand. People who will focus on loving you so much that your fragile heart will become stronger.