8 consigli comprovati su come incontrare uomini nella vita reale
Dopo ogni appuntamento andato male, ogni donna torna a casa davanti al suo computer e inizia a cercare su Google il modo migliore per incontrare uomini idonei, visto che nulla sembra funzionare.
After a while of trying out a certain way to meet guys, you come to a point where you realize that you need to change something, because what you’re doing right now, clearly isn’t working.
You’re home from another insanely bad date, in your sweats, covered in chocolate chip ice cream, frustrated and contemplating giving up on men altogether. I mean, what’s the point really?
Ci si veste di tutto punto, si mette in mostra la propria faccia migliore, ci si agita, così sicuri che questo sarà un grande successo, si deve be, but here you are. And you don’t even know what to do anymore or what to change. Hope is seriously starting to get lost.
You need a new routine. Going to bars or coffee shops and waiting for a guy to strike up a conversation is proving to be a quite unsuccessful way to meet a nice guy, as you’re slowly running out of excuses to talk.
You just know that there is a great guy out there waiting for you, you just don’t know how to find him anymore! But not all hope is lost.
Ci sono modi per migliorare la tua ricerca infinita di ragazzi fantastici, gentili e single con un tasso di successo molto più alto!
Follow these 8 steps to meet the man of your dreams, and don’t be afraid of stepping out of your comfort zone. Nothing new and exciting can possibly happen if you’re not brave enough to try something new.
Questi sono metodi comprovati su come conoscere nuovi uomini, leggete attentamente, metteteli in pratica il prima possibile e buona fortuna!
Chiedete alla vostra cerchia di amici se hanno qualche amico single e carino per voi!
I know this one sounds so obvious, but it’s actually a proven way how to meet guys that don’t suck and will actually turn out to be buono per te!
Who knows you better than your close friends, right? So that by itself is a good indication that they won’t just throw any single guy they know into the mix.
Si preoccupano per voi, quindi esamineranno attentamente tutti i ragazzi carini e single che conoscono e cercheranno di trovare quello con cui andreste d'accordo!
They will make sure to show them your cutest photo and talk about you like you’re a goddess from another planet!
You don’t have to worry about getting stuck with some boring, annoying, uninspiring douche because your girls would never do that to you, am I right, ladies?
Essi ti amo and they really want what’s best for you. So if they do end up thinking of a guy to set you up with, trust their judgement and give it a go! This is a really great way of finding your guy.
Imparate a dire SÌ alle cose che vi spaventano!
Ok, questa è un'altra ovvietà, ma ascoltatemi!
Think about all the times you were asked to do something or asked to go somewhere that was unfamiliar to you and you weren’t sure if you were going to enjoy it so it was just easy to say NO.
Now think about what could’ve happened had you said YES. That time your friend from work invited you to go to a barbecue he was organizing with his pals in his backyard, and you thought about it for a second, but then you declined, because you thought you would find it uncomfortable to be the only outsider.
But what if that little get-together was full of cute, nice, ambitious single guys who could’ve blown your mind had you decided to go?
The man you dream of right now could’ve been at that gathering, but you were too scared to go so you said NO, and now you’ll never know.
Do you see where I’m going with this? Next time you get invited somewhere new with people you don’t know that well, GO! New experiences and new people can only enrich your life and make you break out of your shell.
La vostra paura dell'ignoto potrebbe benissimo essere ciò che vi impedisce di trovare la vostra felicità. Quindi, d'ora in poi, dite SÌ! Alle cose nuove, alle persone nuove, alle opportunità nuove. Potrete solo crescere grazie ad esse e chissà cosa potrebbe accadere.
The point is, get over your irrational fears and go out there and do something new for yourself. If you don’t, you’ll never know what you might be missing out on.
Dedicatevi a un nuovo hobby che vi permetta di incontrare facilmente uomini single!
If you’re a busy lady, it’s understandable that you don’t have much time to get into too many hobbies and spontaneous adventures.
But if you really want to meet a great guy and you’re sick of essere singleAllora trovare un hobby che vi permetta di raggiungere questo obiettivo con facilità è la cosa migliore per voi.
Decide to join a gym! Gyms are full of nice guys who obviously take care of themselves and find personal health and fitness important. So, there’s a plus from the get-go!
Also, working out and making eye contact with a guy who’s doing the same thing can be so hot and flirty, that he just might end up approaching you and asking for your number. So don’t shy away from browsing around.
Another solution could be going to sports bars. Gather your girls, brush up on your knowledge on football or basketball and go to a popular sports bar when there’s a game, and cheer your team on with great passion.
That will surely attract the attention of the men there, as you’re probably going to be the only girls there, so there won’t be any competition – yay!
But don’t be too obvious. Have drinks with your girls, scream every now and then when you hear them getting annoyed about bad calls, and don’t pay too much attention to them.
Saranno loro a venire da voi, di questo potete essere certi. Una ragazza al bar dello sport, che tifa appassionatamente per una squadra per la quale, guarda caso, tifa anche lei. Bingo!
You’ll strike up a conversation about the team, chat a bit and then start getting to know each other, exchange numbers and before you know it, you’ll be in need of a hot, new first-date outfit.
La musica dal vivo è un modo sicuro per incontrare nuovi uomini offline!
There is always something going on in your local area! If you live in a small town, I’m sure there is a gig or a concert in a nearby city, so just find someone who can drive you, gather your girlfriends and go on an adventure!
Live music is the best way to meet men! Especially if it’s an intimate gig, with not a lot of people around, that is a great opportunity to strike up a conversation with new people without it seeming too forward.
Go check online where there’s a gig soon and make arrangements to go and let yourself just enjoy it. Don’t be on a constant lookout for cute, nice guys, just enjoy the show.
Quando finalmente vi rilassate e smettete di guardarvi intorno per un minuto, qualcuno potrebbe attaccare bottone con voi e alla fine potrebbe piacervi davvero.
Sometimes, you just need to let go and give yourself a chance to breathe and enjoy the moment. It’s not worth it if you constantly have to look around yourself and making sure that a cute guy didn’t just pass you by.
There will always be new opportunities for meeting guys, but you only live once. And you will see that once you stop searching everywhere you go, you will stumble upon a guy in the least likely places, such as a grocery store, a library or literally walking down your street. You never know, and that’s what’s so exciting. Your guy could be just around the corner.
Volunteering – the kindest and most unselfish way to meet men!
Even if you weren’t looking for ways to meet men, this would still be an amazing thing to do. It’s selfless, kind, and you’re helping someone who really needs your help.
Ask around your town and find out about local charity organizations. There are so many that could use your help! Local animal shelters, soup kitchens, Red Cross, centers for abandoned children… there are so many!
You can’t go wrong with any of them. All of these places are genuinely oriented toward a greater good, so any men you might end up meeting there, you immediately know that they are kind and unselfish people.
Sono disposti a offrire il loro tempo libero e una mano a chi ne ha bisogno. Per me, personalmente, non c'è niente di più attraente di un uomo che aiuta chi ha bisogno, senza volere o aspettarsi nulla in cambio.
Questo è il tipo di uomo che ogni donna dovrebbe desiderare come partner e come padre per i suoi figli, se ciò dovesse accadere in futuro.
Il volontariato è un ottimo modo per conoscere nuove persone e mantenere amicizie con valori di base incredibilmente gentili. In questo modo finirete sicuramente per arricchire la vostra vita, indipendentemente dal fatto che incontriate o meno l'uomo dei vostri sogni.
Dog parks – a genius way to meet new people with the help of your furry friend!
Dog parks are really something else. This could end up sealing the deal for you, even if you don’t have a dog!
I parchi per cani sono un luogo ideale per portare i vostri cani a socializzare, giocare e divertirsi al sole con il resto della loro banda pelosa, mentre il proprietario si prende una meritata pausa, si siede su una panchina e guarda i suoi animali divertirsi.
Potete portarci il vostro cane e dare un'occhiata in giro alla ricerca di eventuali ragazzi nuovi e carini.
Lanciate al cane una palla nella sua direzione, poi seguitelo e inventate una scusa per parlare con lui se guarda verso di voi.
Comment on his dog and say how well trained and obedient he seems, and then you’ll start chatting about all topics regarding your pets and there you go. Great ice-breaker!
Before you know it, you’ll change subjects and start talking about each other and if you get the feeling he’s single, don’t hesitate and ask him if he wants to set up a playdate for your dogs sometime soon!
See, it’s so easy, because even if he says no, you won’t feel bad, as you didn’t directly ask him out, and if he says yes, then hell yeah, your dog got you a cute date!
And in case you don’t have a dog, that’s okay, too. You can go there, and observe dogs, play with them and chat a guy up about how you have been meaning to get a dog and ask for advice!
So, it’s a win either way. Other than being il tuo migliore amico, your dog can truly bring you so much joy to you, in more ways than one. Learn to take advantage of that! Life’s too short not to.
Meet men the old fashioned way – through their stomach!
If you’re just not the kind of girl to go to sports bars, as sports are the last thing you can bring yourself to like, then there a new solution for you.
Potete fare una degustazione di vini o partecipare a un corso di cucina! Anche in questo caso, l'opportunità di conoscere un nuovo ragazzo single è altrettanto buona! Anche i ragazzi hanno bisogno di mangiare. Inoltre, a loro piace cucinare! Lo so per esperienza, visto che il mio ragazzo è il padrone della nostra cucina.
There is nothing he can’t make, and I literally just sit there, enjoy looking at him in the kitchen, and basically have my cake, and eat it, too.
In questo modo si può facilmente incontrare qualcuno di nuovo. Ci sono più ragazzi appassionati di cucina di quanto si possa pensare!
Potreste incontrare l'uomo perfetto, con una personalità forte, di bell'aspetto e che allo stesso tempo sa preparare un piatto perfetto!
Chi può resistere che? Oh, and even if you don’t somehow meet anyone you’re interested in there, you will still end up learning new tricks in the kitchen, and improving your skills. And there is nothing men love more than a girl who can make his favorite meal and at the same time look so hot making it.
Si divertirà a guardarvi al lavoro e poi vi mostrerà il suo apprezzamento in camera da letto. Gnam!
Ma in nessun caso dovreste essere l'unica a sapere come funziona una cucina. Un uomo che pensa che tu debba essere l'unica a cucinare nella relazione ha chiaramente capito male.
You do love to cook, but you’re nobody’s servant. If he can’t at least make you breakfast every once in a while, he’s not worth the trouble. Any guy who loves his lady should be willing to at least try and make an effort in the kitchen.
If all else fails – online dating could do the trick!
Sometimes, you’re just too busy with work and life to find time to meet men offline. Thank God there are dating apps for that. Who has time to frequent all these new places in hopes of finding l'uomo perfetto?
For those with a little lighter workload, that can be the solution, but those who don’t have as much free time on their hands, online dating can do the trick.
It’s a pretty cool concept if you think about it. You go on a dating site, write down all your details and preferences and you can skip all those men that aren’t to your liking and go straight to those the site deems compatible with you!
Quanto sarebbe bello se gli appuntamenti nel mondo reale fossero così? Risparmiereste così tanto tempo e denaro. Quindi, cercate il miglior sito di incontri di vostra scelta e iniziate a cercare.
Se non altro, ci avete provato, senza perdere tanto tempo a prepararvi per poi tornare a casa delusi, ancora una volta.
If you see a guy online that you don’t like, you can just skip his profile, but if you did that in real life, feelings would end up hurt.
If you’re into this, give it a whirl. There is nothing to lose, and you might meet a man who is seemingly compatible with you on paper, who actually ends up good in real life, too!
Life can really be awesome if you let it. Just don’t be scared of exploring new options. There is a way for all of us ladies to meet someone. You just have to find the way that works best for you and give it your all.
