Perché allontano le persone: La verità dietro le tue paure

Allontani le persone, è una tua caratteristica, vero?

Despite this, you keep asking yourself why you can’t let people in, and yet, whenever somebody gets near you, you do the same thing again. You shut everything down, and you push them even further away.

Si costruiscono di nuovo i muri e quel qualcuno rimane senza di te.

You don’t even bother explaining because you often catch yourself not knowing why you do it in the first place. So it’s easier just leaving without a trace than explaining something you’re not sure of.

Tu allontanare anybody who could care for you—why is that?

“You can’t always be pushing people away. Someday, nobody will come back.”- The Dear One

Nessuno può essere duro con voi quanto voi potete esserlo con voi stessi. Nessuno può abbatterti quanto lo fai tu con te stesso.

You’ve been through way too much. Nobody can possibly fathom the trauma and loss you had to endure in your young life.

Nobody knows those things because you don’t let anyone see what you are trattare con.

Non permetti mai a nessuno di starti così vicino.. The minute somebody steps too close, you take a step back. Always creating a gap between you two, aren’t you?

Regardless of what you’ve è stato attraversato nella vita, si cerca di vedere il bene nelle persone. Fate del vostro meglio per credere che vi aspettino giorni migliori, ma non vi concedete mai abbastanza spazio per farli entrare davvero.

Sometimes, it’s just not possible to look brightly on the things that are coming towards you. There is always a dose of scepticism and doubt inside you.

You’re the type of person that thinks about everyone but herself. You’re always the last person on your priority list.

You’re the type of person who’s there for everyone in the blink of an eye, and the first one to make the rest of the world happy, even if they don’t deserve it.

You weren’t abbastanza buono per le persone che avete amato durante la vostra crescita.

There was always that ‘something’ they expected of you, and no matter what you did, it just wasn’t enough. Nobody told you that all this is not your fault.

Hai continuato a pensare (e continui a pensare) di meritare il dolore che ricevi nella vita.

You somehow feel you caused it for yourself—you must have done something wrong, so now God is ‘returning the favor’, and you never dare question it.

You feel like you need to pay the price for something, but you just can’t wrap your mind around what that is.

Così, quando vi ritrovate da soli con la vostra oscurità, continuate ad annuire quando quell'oscurità viene ad abbracciarvi e la abbracciate con la tristezza negli occhi.

You just don’t let people see it.

Si rifiuta di fare la vittima. Avete deciso di non farvi vedere da nessuno in ginocchio. Così, qualsiasi cosa la vita ti lanci, la affronti da solo.

Nessuno potrà mai vedere le tue lacrime perché continuate a credere che se dimostrate una cosa, nulla vi impedirà di mettere a nudo la vostra pelle.

If you let it all out, you are frightened you’ll never be able to stop, and it will only push people away even more… and that’s what scares you the most.

You don’t want to scare people away. You can’t live with that. You’d rather push them away. That’s something you can live with.

It’s never the right time.

There is always something more important than relationships, from bonding with people. You always have so much on your plate, and you just can’t handle anything else. It’s better to wait.

There’s always that one little thing that prevents you from letting anyone in.

There is always a small flaw or an imperfection, and because of that flaw, you simply can’t let that person into your life. It just creates a wall between the two of you that is insurmountable.

The real truth is you’re scared.

You’re just too scared to admit it or you’re just too scared to let people in. You keep finding these stupid excuses to comfort yourself with.

Scuse che fanno sentire meglio l'allontanamento di tutti. Ma non è mai così.

You keep rationalizing your actions when in fact, they have nothing to do with reason. It’s all about your heart, and your heart is scared.

You don’t want to be like that. You don’t want to be scared, and you don’t want to push people away. It’s just way less painful to push them away prima che farli entrare e vederli andare via da soli.

The thing is, and you wouldn’t admit it for anything in this world, you just want someone to tell you it’s OK.

And it is OK. For real, it’s fine.

Arriverà qualcuno a dimostrarti che ti sbagli, ok?

Somebody who will show you that the world isn’t as dark and twisted as you make it seem in your head.

Ci sono così tante opportunità straordinarie là fuori per voi, e voi vi rifiutate di vederle. Ci sono così tante persone che sono buono per te and your soul—you just need to open your eyes to see them.

There will come a person who’ll be able to see your worth and who’ll let you see how worthy you are.

He’s going to be the one to prove to you that there are people out there who deserve you, and people who can make you happy. There is someone out there who won’t hurt you, you know.

Bisogna solo resistere ancora un po'.

You’ll know when the ‘right’ person enters your life—just don’t push this one away.

Quando arriverà quella persona, farà sembrare tutto migliore. Avrà un modo per farvi sentire forti, potenti e belle.

E quando questa persona entra nella vostra vita, concedetevi il privilegio di essere amati nel modo in cui meritate di essere amati.

Don’t push this one away because he is going to be the one who finally makes everything seem worthwhile.