8 spaventosi segni che lui è un manipolatore emotivo

Che cos'è la manipolazione emotiva?

Al giorno d'oggi si sente ripetere questo termine, ma sapete esattamente cosa significa? Sapete cosa vi succede quando venite manipolati emotivamente?

La manipolazione emotiva è un comportamento che fa cambiare a qualcuno il suo atteggiamento e il suo modo di pensare. metodi abusivi.

If you have ever found yourself in a situation where you did nothing wrong, but after the harsh discussion and harmful words you somehow find yourself apologizing to the person who did you wrong, you’ve been emotionally manipulated.

You’ve been a victim of psychological control.

You’ve all probably been emotionally manipulated at some point in your life, but don’t beat yourself up because it’s not your fault—you didn’t see it coming.

Most of us don’t because emotional manipulators are very cunning and they are so hard to spot. They hide behind their ‘good faces’ for as long as it suits them and once they have you sotto il loro controllo, mostrano il loro vero volto.

But, don’t worry, there is a way for you to try to stop anyone from doing this to you after all. Read these signs that will warn you he is a manipulator that wants to take control of your life:

All'inizio vi mostrerà rispetto

He will be delightful and charming. He will let you speak and talk about your life, about things you like and don’t like and he will listen to you very carefully, taking in every word that you say. This is the trick.

You think he’s listening to you because he cares. Actually, he is listening to you to absorb the pattern of your behavior and the way you think, so he can take advantage of that later on.

Vi ascolterà perché deve sapere come comportarsi con voi per potervi controllare in seguito.

Fa una cosa e ne dice un'altra

Vi prometterà qualcosa, ma non andrà mai fino in fondo. Dirà una cosa e ne farà un'altra.

And when you face him for being an ass, he will assure you that whatever you’re asking from him is insane and impossible, so you’ll find yourself satisfied with his answer and maybe even apologizing to him for asking it in the first place.

È così che vuole minare la tua fiducia nella tua sanità mentale e, quando ci riuscirà, avrà la tua fiducia infinita perché hai perso la fiducia in te stesso.

Vi farà sentire in colpa

When you want to do something for yourself, for example: go out with your friends, he won’t object about that, but he will guilt trip you into staying at home.

He will be all sad and act like his world has fallen apart just because you’re doing something he isn’t a part of. Of course, the next thing you do is stay at home because you feel sorry for him. But, don’t be fooled.

Questo è il suo preferito tattica per averti fatto fare esattamente quello che voleva. Farvi stare a casa era quello che voleva fin dall'inizio e vi ha manipolato per farvelo fare.

È indiretto

He doesn’t have the guts to face you, so he will talk behind your back. He will manipulate your friends and people you know into telling you things he actually wants to tell you.

He will never confront you because he doesn’t have the guts to do so. He will hide behind his manipulations because that is when he is the strongest.

Fingerà di essere utile

He will turn on his charm and offer you to help you, but only when he is positive that you don’t need any help and you’re going to say no.

La posta in gioco è che lui pensa solo a se stesso, è assolutamente egoista e vi manipolerà, ancora una volta, per farvi fare quello che vuole.

Un altro scenario è che si offra volontario per un lavoro maggiore, ma mentre fa quello che gli avete detto di fare, mostrerà di esserne insoddisfatto.

Tuttavia, lo farà comunque e quando gli direte di smetterla, vi assicurerà che vuole davvero farlo e che in qualche modo lo farà a modo suo.

Userà l'umorismo per ferirvi

He will use sarcasm or snarky comments to put you down. This is his way of making you insecure and less worthy. He will use every chance he’s got to make you feel bad.

Mettendovi in cattiva luce, lui si rivela migliore di voi e dopo un po' iniziate a crederci anche voi.

Vi giudicherà costantemente

He will try to maintain his superiority by making you feel bad and making you feel like you are not good enough for anything. You’ll get the feeling that everything he does, he does better than you.

After a while, you won’t even bother trying to do anything because you will be sure you’ll fail. This is what he’ll manipulate you into thinking.

He’ll play the victim

Qualunque cosa accada tra voi due, troverà in qualche modo il modo di dare la colpa a voi. In ogni discussione che farete, sarà lui ad essere la vittima.

He will manipulate you into thinking that you made him feel bad and you’ve maybe crossed the line.

After a while you’ve completely forgotten what you were fighting about and you’ll find yourself apologizing to the man who attacked and cornered you in the beginning.