A tutte le ragazze che non sanno decidere tra ciò che vuole il cuore e ciò che dice la mente

Da sempre, la vostra mente e il vostro cuore non sono riusciti a trovare una via di mezzo.

The two could never reach a compromise and you were left in the middle to try and get them on the same page. Well, you’re not the only one.

Fin dall'inizio del mondo, le persone hanno lottato con lo stesso dilemma: Devono fare la cosa giusta o vedere dove le emozioni li portano?

You’ve been asking yourself this question the most in terms of romantic love.

Chi scegliere per essere il vostro partner di vita? Should you be with the man who gives you butterflies or with the one you’re compatible with? Is amore sufficiente e ne vale la pena, anche quando vi procura un sacco di mal di testa?

A dire il vero, nessuno ha mai trovato una soluzione perfetta. Some will advise you to go after your heart’s desires, to forget about the rules and to follow your gut.

They will tell you that it’s the only way not to regret your decisions because even if they’re wrong, at least you’ll always have the satisfaction that at one point, you were brave enough to do what you truly wanted.

Sounds quite romantic, doesn’t it? From one point of view, this really is the right attitude; after all, you only have one life and you certainly shouldn’t waste it by killing your desires and shutting off your emotions.

At the end of the day, that’s what happens in the movies and novels all the time, right?

The characters go against all possible laws of logic and society and blindly follow their heart’s desires, even if their lives depended on not doing so.

Ogni volta finiscono per vivere felici e contenti, ma la vita reale è molto diversa dalle favole.

Cosa succede quando le conseguenze delle vostre azioni bussano alla vostra porta?

What happens when it turns out that your choices weren’t good for you and when they leave painful traces on your life and future?

That’s why some people will tell you to always be realistic; after all, that’s the only chance you have to prevent the pain.

God gave us our reasoning for a reason—to know better than just going after our instincts, to have the capacity to determine what’s right and wrong and to make wise and smart choices.

So, what’s the answer to this everlasting question: Come si può smettere di essere così combattuti tra ciò che dice la mente e ciò che vuole il cuore?

Bene, La chiave è l'equilibrio. Yes, you heard it right; you’re the one who has to find a compromise between these two things and decide when it’s time to listen to each of them.

L'esperienza vi insegnerà che nessuna di queste due pratiche è perfetta.

Per quanto lo si voglia fare, you can’t go through life doing whatever you want to in the moment and you can’t blindly follow your desires unless you’re ready to face severe consequences which will come sooner or later.

D'altra parte, reprimere le emozioni e nemmeno trasformarsi in un robot senza cervello è la cosa da fare.

Yes, in this case, you might have a bigger chance of saving yourself from a lot of pain but on the other hand, you’re likely to end up breaking your own heart and condemning yourself to a loveless life.

Lasciate che vi sveli un piccolo segreto sull'amore romantico: It’s not the real deal as long as your mind and heart are fighting about it.

In effetti, quando incontrerete qualcuno che è destinato ad essere, sia il vostro cervello che le vostre emozioni saranno sulla stessa pagina.

Vedete, quando incontrerete l'uomo perfetto, lo amerete con tutto il cuore e con tutta la mente e allo stesso tempo saprete che è giusto per voi.

When this happens, there will be no more dilemmas or doubts; all the pieces of the puzzle called your life will fall into perfect order and you’ll see what true balance really means.

For the first time ever, you won’t be afraid. You’ll stop wandering between your reasoning and emotions and you’ll stop wondering if you chose wisely.

And that’s how you’ll know that you’ve found both your soulmate and your forever person—all in one.